I'm transgender.
Genetically I am a man. I cannot change my genetics. My shoulders will always be broad, my bones will always be more dense than a womans bones, I dont have "hips" I dont have real lady parts.
I have recently accepted that the way I feel is in defiance of genetic and biological reality. Also I was ok with being a boy until the age of around 17.
As good atheists and science based human beings, we must face the biological reality. And I do, which means that I am in denial and that is ok. It is not worth going against my core values and against science to make myself feel better aboutg myself.