What's your flirt tactic?

[Drummah]

Make a small mention of something topical/funny--ie. 'Halo? pft. never heard of it. sounds lame.' (lame example) in a game store if a box is near by... Compliment something--Comic/gamer shirt, pin on a bag. Mix in a little self-deprecating humour, and it's pretty easy to tell whether they're wanting to talk or not.

Sometimes yes, it's 'trying a bit too hard' IF you fumble, but people are so introverted and self-aware now, that you actually stand out if you instigate the connection.

 

[thiosk]

I use a combination of pelvic thrust and greasy hand grappling in the chestal area.

Its a flawedless approach.

 

[Smokej]

well the most important basics are pretty much this here


wait for a signal of interest and then go for it immediately(don't start to think about it or you will screw it up)

taking care of your appereance (dressing and body image wise) should give you the confidence you need to get started, a good education and and some experience of life gives you a solid foundation for any conversation besides small talk

if those things are totally out of your reach and you aren't a rich guy which can provide all the security and prestige most women want, well then you're probably f*cked...

btw don't fall for those self proclaimed pick up dating gurus, most of them are failed biographies who try to make a living out of some people insecurities

 

[onewheeled]

Tactic?
It just comes naturally.
Sometimes, it happens without me realizing it.
Or wanting it.

Pretty much exactly this. I become good friends with the girls that I'm into, get to know their friends, and then start giving subtle signs that I'm interested in them. You know, making more eye contact, making a point of sitting next to them..

And you know what? It works like a charm... unless you get caught in the friend zone. Which happens. And when it happens, it sucks ass.

 

[neonsword13-ops]

Shy, gentle, and comedic. It works every time. I don't know how though... odd.

That or like the fonz.

 

[Sinathor]

I walk to the girl and ask: "Would you like to come to my place and listen to some funeral doom metal?"

Works every time.

 

[Rarhnor]

so far for every girl I've dated I do the following: live next to her for 10 yeas then ask her out one day.

success-rate?

OT: Something lame like asking what time it is. She answers. I say: "Because [Valid and true reason for asking like worried about being late for work]". If she's actually interested in maintaining conversation, she will, and if not? Then I remain smooth and harmless.

 

[Mute52]

I attempt to flatter them by being courteous, like holding a door open or complimenting something about them.

Doesn't work, women seem to only respond to the opposite of that

 

[ThatLankyBastard]

First I follow them around (it's not stalking!... usually...) and listen in on their conversations (I'm actually going somewhere with this, trust me!)...

...once I've gathered enough intelligence, I simply go over when opportunity arises and start a conversation based on what I've heard!

...does it work?

I met my first girlfriend and dated her for 16 months after 10 minutes of following!

 

[Korolev]

Well, my good man, let me introduce you to Korolev's Patented Lady Seducing Technique (it is best to imagine I am reading this to you with the voice of barry white for maximum (GHOSTLY) effect!)

Step one, hon: when you eye a woman of particular physique, appearance and intelligence that you would very much like to get to know, act like you are totally disinterested. Don't even look in her direction or approach her.

Step two, dude: If she talks to you, then be polite but distant. Have a totally impassive face like a granite block!

Step three, chickadee: She'll leave and you'll die alone.... YEEEAAAAH Groovy cat!

My life is a miserable joke.

 

[azraelthor]

Well, my good man, let me introduce you to Korolev's Patented Lady Seducing Technique (it is best to imagine I am reading this to you with the voice of barry white for maximum (GHOSTLY) effect!)

Step one, hon: when you eye a woman of particular physique, appearance and intelligence that you would very much like to get to know, act like you are totally disinterested. Don't even look in her direction or approach her.

Step two, dude: If she talks to you, then be polite but distant. Have a totally impassive face like a granite block!

Step three, chickadee: She'll leave and you'll die alone.... YEEEAAAAH Groovy cat!

My life is a miserable joke.

that was...AWESOME! It helped that it was at the bottom of me screen scrolling up as I read it so I didn't see a step untill I had finished reading the step before, but that is not the ending I was expecting, kudos

 

[Sprinal]

Step 1: Walk up to the girl with a piece of cloth

Step 2: "Hey, does this smell like chloroform to you?"

Step 3: ????

Step 4: Profit!

There we go I've fixed it for you..

Still origional was good.


OT:
If I try and flirt I creep the person out. If I don't try I am somehow successful....

Society is strange...

 

[azraelthor]

I attempt to flatter them by being courteous, like holding a door open or complimenting something about them.

Doesn't work, women seem to only respond to the opposite of that

Or, now just bear with me I know this can get complicated, or they just assume you are being polite like most people should be. I hold the door open for most people, it's common curtosy and woman shouldn't be expected to drop her panties for any guy who holds open a door and tells her she smells nice.

 

[azraelthor]

Step 1: "Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?"

Step 2: ????

Step 3: Profit!

There we go I've fixed it for you..

Still origional was good.


OT:
If I try and flirt I creep the person out. If I don't try I am somehow successful....

Society is strange...

There I fixed yours too. Also interesting theory to back it up, I supply my own experience: When I flirt with a girl no one notices, when I do nothign I get accused of being a flirt

 

[SilentCom]

I don't really flirt so I would struggle to find something to say.

 

[Tyzamar]

Just be an absolute condescending prick. Works every time. Bitches love pricks.

 

[Zinaxos]

My tactic is to be suave as hell, and to the point.

 

[pixiejedi]

Hmmmm... I don't intend to flirt generally. But I do tend to tease gently and stuff, then I am told I'm a flirt and I blush, very very very hard. Really it seems as a girl its easy as paying attention to someone and not pointing out that they are really just staring at your boobises.

 

[GraveeKing]

No real strategy. If I'm not already hopelessly drunk on vodka, I probably won't bother. If I really need to get laid that bad, the fine gentleman I meet up with when I drink would probably happily do so anyway with no need to waste time flirting.

 

[kitolz]

Ultimate Flirting Tactic: Be rich and handsome.
Then just make sure you brush up on your waffle making skills because you're going to be cooking breakfast for a lot of ladies. It's the polite thing to do.