Why are men attracted to lesbians?

[Relish in Chaos]

It?s for the same reason the main audience for yaoi is females. Because it?s fucking hot. If you like girls, logic dictates that two of them getting off will be hitting all the right buttons for you. If you have to ask why?then you?re either a woman, or a guy who just happens to prefer watching opposite-sex encounters. Nothing wrong with that either.

Yes, most lesbian porn is made for men. There s a handful of lesbian porn made for (and by) lesbians, but for the most part, they seem to be in the minority. And there are lesbian porn stars who are legitimately gynosexual in real life (e.g. Sinn Sage, Lily Cade), but most of them aren?t your stereotypical butch stereotype because men don?t find that hot. But I bet there are some gay men who don?t find gay porn or bara hot.

Real lesbians? Meh, I just don't get it. I remember one of my co-workers once saying, "There is nothing more attractive than two girls kissing. I was just walking down the street and I saw two women holding hands. I watched them the whole time I could in case they kissed." And this got me thinking about I went once to my friend's housewarming party. She happens to be a lesbian, and lives with her partner. On an endtable in their living room is a picture of them kissing on their wedding day. Both women are reasonably attractive, but was I really supposed to find this picture erotic?

Well, fantasy is different from reality. My best friend?s older sister is a lesbian, and I?ve seen pictures of her kissing girlfriends and stuff, but I don?t really find her attractive because she?s kinda butch.

Porn isn?t meant to be realistic. It?s meant to cater to people?s fantasies so they can jack off effectively. I don?t know why people feel the need to think so damn hard about what they?re into. If you like it, you like it. Big deal.

Just because you like lesbian porn doesn?t mean you want to ?convert? a lesbian. It means you like lesbian porn. Just because you have a rape fantasy fetish doesn?t mean you?re a misogynist. It means you have a rape fantasy fetish. And just because you like violent video games doesn?t mean you have anger issues. All it means you like violent video games because they?re fucking fun.

 

[shootthebandit]

2 lesbians IRL isnt a pleasant thought (most of them are more manly than me) however 2 lesbians in porn (who probably arent real lesbians) is really hot

Having said that if i watch porn i prefer it to have a man. Im not gay or bi but i think porn is better with a man im not to keen on watching oral and just prefer to get straight into the action

 

[Sectan]

I thought it was kinda simple. Straight men think women are attractive. Get two people you're sexually attracted to and watch them get it on. Double hotness.

 

[ccggenius12]

I figured it was because hot chicks are attractive, women that share your interests are attractive, and hot chicks that share your interests (i.e. hot chicks) are therefore way more attractive than hot chicks that don't. That being said, I'm pretty sure that hot nerd girl trumps hot lesbian.

 

[Boris Goodenough]

I figured it was because hot chicks are attractive, women that share your interests are attractive, and hot chicks that share your interests (i.e. hot chicks) are therefore way more attractive than hot chicks that don't. That being said, I'm pretty sure that hot nerd girl trumps hot lesbian.

What about hot lesbian nerd?

 

[ccggenius12]

What about hot lesbian nerd?

Well duh, much like the ninja pirate zombie on a pirate ship mounted on a T-Rex, adding more good things together makes a better thing. I suppose the next step up would have to be hot lesbian nerd in a bacon bikini right?

 

[Boris Goodenough]

Well duh, much like the ninja pirate zombie on a pirate ship mounted on a T-Rex, adding more good things together makes a better thing. I suppose the next step up would have to be hot lesbian nerd in a bacon bikini right?

Now you are just trying to kill me with sensory overload, and it's working...(Disclaimer: I am not actually attracted to lesbians).

 

[Mid Boss]

People want what they can't have and nothing is more unattainable than a legitimate lesbian. I say legitimate because there are a lot of women who are bi, or even straight, who pretend to be lesbians to get the attention of men.

You might be wondering "How can I tell if the woman I'm about to bang is a legitimate lesbian or a faker?" Well... is she going to have sex with you? Then she's faking. A lesbian wants a man's penis as much as a straight guy wants a man's penis.

Now the door swings both ways. Women find unattainable guys attractive to. That's why Jimmy Schmuck always has a woman on his arm with Tom Niceguy is always single. Jimmy Schmuck doesn't care what the woman thinks, she could leave right now and he'd get another one by the end of the day. At least in his mind. He ignores her. Flirts with other girls. Blows her off and be with his buds. Women have to compete to get and keep Jimmy's attention and that's attractive to them. While Tom Niceguy is always available and eager to please. There's no competition there. She doesn't have to work for his attention thus Tom Niceguy is friend zoned and always single.

 

[WouldYouKindly]

What about hot lesbian nerd?

Nope. Because that makes dating her a bit of an impossibility for me. Granted, I'd still like to be friends with her, but that's because of the nerd part, not the lesbian part... unless she lets me watch.

 

[Olas]

As someone who also doesn't find it particularly attractive I assume it's one of those things you either 'get' or 'don't get' and trying to explain why it's attractive to someone who doesn't get it is pointless.

 

[somonels]

Why are men attracted to women? Because duh.
A better question would be why some men are interested in watching another couple bang.

 

[In Search of Username]

Because there's two girls involved instead of one, simple as that. It's just more to fantasise over/watch. And also no guy involved, therefore no-one to be jealous of if you're insecure about your own appearance, I guess. Also the androgynous look that's typically associated with lesbians is pretty hot.

 

[Miss G.]

I would say it's also the fact that with 2 women, everything you are looking at is something you find sexually appealing. You aren't suddenly being shown an extreme closeup of some guys junk, instead of, you know, the woman you find attractive. No matter what angle or position or whatever, the camera is always being pointed at a naked woman, which for a straight guy, is appealing.

That's my feelings on it anyway.

I used to wonder about this when my male friend would practically call us girls heathens for liking slash/yaoi even when it was just about anime guys or video games but would act all holier-than-thou if we caught him with real lesbian porn. The double-standard was downright annoying.

 

[Miss G.]

Because there's two girls involved instead of one, simple as that. It's just more to fantasise over/watch. And also no guy involved, therefore no-one to be jealous of if you're insecure about your own appearance, I guess. Also the androgynous look that's typically associated with lesbians is pretty hot.

On a related note, two (or more) hot guys equals more eye candy for me, that's why I'm a slash/yaoi fan. It's why I usually can't stand het in fiction or other media (unless my favorite character is also a girl, though that's rare); too much focus on the girl (if I wanted to stare at boobs I'd look down) and not enough on the guy.

 

[Tsun Tzu]

Logically, of course it doesn't really make much sense...by their very nature, both women wouldn't be interested in me, due to the presence of dangly bits.

Does that stop the sight of naked females engaged in sexual activity from being arousing? Of course not. Does it cause a brief "why DO I find this hot?" conversation with myself every now and again? Yes. Do I still ultimately find it hot? Yes.

 

[DementedSheep]

Because then you have two chicks doing sexy things so every aspect of it is sexy. Without there being a guy involved there is no possibility of seeing a penis that isn't theirs. It doesn't matter that they will never be attracted to the person. The hot model likely won't be either. It's just fantasy.

A lot of girl like guy on guy as well.

 

[OmniscientOstrich]

I don't quite get the fascination. I mean watching two girls make out is pleasing in an aesthetic sense but when it comes to actual lesbian sex...it's kind of like banging two rocks together. No penetration is just no fun.

 

[DementedSheep]

I would say it's also the fact that with 2 women, everything you are looking at is something you find sexually appealing. You aren't suddenly being shown an extreme closeup of some guys junk, instead of, you know, the woman you find attractive. No matter what angle or position or whatever, the camera is always being pointed at a naked woman, which for a straight guy, is appealing.

That's my feelings on it anyway.

I used to wonder about this when my male friend would practically call us girls heathens for liking slash/yaoi even when it was just about anime guys or video games but would act all holier-than-thou if we caught him with real lesbian porn. The double-standard was downright annoying.

Generalizations based on personal experience time!
Yeah. I've seen a lot of hypocrisy around lesbians and gay men. Most girls seem to be fine with lesbians and bisexuals but a lot of guys seem to be really insecure and intimadated by gay or bisexual men.

 

[Seracen]

Possibly because lesbians wouldn't actually be interested in them IRL.

Or they are afraid of naked guys.

Are you personally afraid of naked guys?

Well, there is the Dave Chappelle rule of porn...

The one wang per fantasy rule...preferably one's own...

Also the menage a trois fantasy as well.

To be fair, the shoe's on the other foot with all my lady friends who are into the yaoi, or shows like Supernatural with sexy male leads; they just picture themselves in the sandwich.

 

[KarmaTheAlligator]

I'm a straight man and I never really been turned on by 2 girls banging each other. Can someone explain the appeal? I guess it's because a lesbian will never be attracted to me or even a fantasy is why I'm not turned on.

You're a straight man and the idea of seeing not one but two naked girls isn't doing it for you?