Why do you hate your life?

[Faladorian]

awwww...feeling a little emo today are we?

Feeling a little condescending perhaps?

 

[Benj17]

Find it funny how most of the posts mention something about not being able to get a partner of any type. If your sole reason for hating your life is caused by the opposite sex then either just accept it or GTFO. I'm not going to pretend for a second that I am some Casanova that has women falling at his feet and the power to give women orgasms by winking, I'm useless with women, my last girlfriend was a psycho who talked about ending her life at least once every week or ending someone else's, and I tend to get knocked back quite a lot. At the end of the day a relationship isn't the be all and end all of happiness, sure it can help but it shouldn't be the main focal point for someone's unhappiness. It's one of those areas that is in your control and if its upsetting you or hurting just stop thinking about it then or take control of it, in relationship terms what is the worse that can happen, you get knocked back? so friggin be it!

Don't measure life on the standards set by others, because you'll never be happy with your own.

 

[Vault101]

awwww...feeling a little emo today are we?

Feeling a little condescending perhaps?

yes...

but of coarse aparently YOU know whats REALLY going on, YOU can see that me and everyone are just ignorant fools for thinking we are happy, when in relity we really should be as miserable as you

so yeah, dont mind me

 

[Vault101]

I don't hate my life. I have a family who loves and cares for me, a roof over my head, and other than my kidneys, weight, and legs I'm in alright health. My life is uncomfortable because of my lyphedemia brought on by my kidneys. My lympedemia is stage 3 (and there are only 3 stages so it's bad). My legs are so big it's hard to lift them up into a car and I don't walk anymore I waddle. Some days it's hard for me to even get up in the morning. I have a bunch of pills to take daily, massages to do, lots of doctors to see, and physical therapy 3 times a week to keep my massive swelling in check. But even through all these hardships it could be worse. Even though my kidneys aren't functioning properly they're still working right and don't need a transplant or dialysis. So all in all it could be worse but sometimes it can be hard to look on the bright side sometimes.

you know its funny how some people will go "I hate my life" over lack of relationships, that face they are unpopular, people or annoy them or they are just misanthropic twats

and youve actually got a real problem...but your not complaining all that much..(I dont know what to say other than...I hope you'll be ok in the end)..sorry if that sounded condecinding or somthing...but yeah

and thats the reason I dont hate my life

(but to be fair Im sure alot of it is just harmless venting)

 

[Mr.Incognitus]

Because i stayed up all night and am now suffering for it. That is why I hate my life.

 

[Just_A_Glitch]

I don't really allow myself to be happy. One of those "You're at your best when at your worst" situations. It sucks.

And its the typical high school student angst answer, which sucks even more that I'm 21, long since out of high school.

I've got a loving family and friends. Life is good, but I don't allow it to be for some reason. I don't like to complain about it, because its of my own doing, and why should I complain about it when nobody but myself can really change it?

 

[freaper]

No, that of course is the sole responsibility of an entirely different species: *pic*

You probably just gave her a heart attack.

@ OP, like Susan said: you're going through a stage in life everyone goes through at some point. I'm aware that I'll sound like a bitching parent, but it's true. I'm 20 years old right now, and I haven't really put a goal up for myself in life. Some days I can just be completely apathetic while at times I'll be cheerful, and happy with the chances I'm given. You have to learn to live with yourself first and foremost, and that might be the hardest and most daunting challenge you'll have to overcome.

Remove yourself from stress situations. That girl doesn't like you? Tell her to jog on! Don't put unnecessary strain on your mind, or you'll just end up bitter. Try out new things, go new places, hell, even eat different kinds of food. Get out of your numbing routine! And lastly, stay away from your PC for a while, it usually doesn't help with opening yourself up.

 

[Axyun]

Don't really hate my life. Just a tad upset flight school has taken me a bit longer than I wanted. Thought I'd be flying solo by now. Still have a few more lessons to go before I get there.

 

[Shadow flame master]

Let's see, I'm 17, in my senior year of highschool, never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, can't drive, don't have a job, unsure of my future, unsure of college/university life, and a lot of other teen angst stuff that I just don't need.

But I guess that the one thing that I don't like about my life is how easily I can be swept up in things. I usually feel like I have no choice in anything people offer up to me, and as such, I feel like I am obligated to say yes and just go with the flow.

Although Ican't really complain about it since that's what I usually do to keep people happy. Besides, I work for the weekends anyway.

 

[Angus565]

Happiness is a defense mechanism used by naive people to convince themselves that the world isn't the burning shitball that it truly is.

There is no happiness, only ignorance. Saying you're happy makes you ignorant, knowing about the world and being content with it makes you a sociopath. Realizing the world is a piece of shit full of billions of walking pieces of shit and making the best of it... that's realism. The only respectable option of the three.

OT: There are hardly any things that I hate anymore. If something isn't that bad, then there's no reason to hate it. If something about life is shitty, I'm not surprised in the slightest, and it hardly affects me. It's useful to not have a fragile mind.

No offense but it must REALLY suck to be you. I'd way rather be "ingorant" and happy then a self loathing humanity hating downer.

 

[Kriptonite]

Well, I don't have a girlfriend. Other than that my life is pretty damn good at the moment.

Yep, that about sums it up here too. I can't really say I hate it, but it would be nice. But yea, I'm pretty okay.

 

[Dango]

Because I'm an extremely lonely person who's alienated just about everyone who's ever shown me ever form of kindness.

 

[thirion1850]

Because I'm sick of smiling when I've lost all the reasons to continue doing so.

 

[Susan Arendt]

People can add to your happiness, but they can't be your sole source of it.

No, that of course is the sole responsibility of an entirely different species:

Correct! Dogs help, too, though.

 

[TheLazyGeek]

Correct! Dogs help, too, though.

Let's not forget ponies!

Spoiler

 

[SH4DOWSL4Y3R]

Well honestly, i don't have anything to hate about my life right now. i'm not having bouts of depression at the moment, which will usually be a contributor to becoming me dissatisfied with meaningless things.

i guess since i'm on break right now and have been for a good while, i could maybe say i hate the fact i keep wasting time being lazy, but hell, i'm going to be working and studying at tafe next year so i may as well just enjoy my free time for now.

i'm also annoyed at myself for not getting any of my warhammer stuff painted in a looong time, but this is just a petty annoyance.

honestly, it's almost christmas, then my birthday and new years shortly after that. i can't really feel down on myself at the moment when i know in just a few short days i'm going to be spending time with friends and family enjoying myself.

i guess i'm just not stressed enough because i'm not having to do any studying or anything right now. once i'm back into the academic environment, i'm sure there'll be plenty for me to ***** and moan about, but that's not for a month or two yet.

 

[DiMono]

I realized recently that my current job has stunted my development as a web programmer, while failing to pay me the amount of money it promised me. My job literally owes me enough to buy a house in most places, and I'm never going to see it. I hate that I'm almost literally in exactly the same spot now as I was 5 years ago.

 

[KefkaCultist]

Nah, I don't hate everything, but this thread reminded me of this song.

But anyways, I guess I'd say how I look. I don't really "hate" my appearance, but I do wish I had turned out drastically different than I have. Basically I just wish I was skinny, but anything I've tried has ultimately failed (mainly due to me being too lazy to keep up with it).

You know what, I change my answer. I hate that I'm freakin' lazy as hell.

 

[Kanatatsu]

This is going to sound lame but I make way too much money at my job to ever leave it yet I hate it so much.

 

[Sir Thomas Sean Connery]

I don't hate my- Oh, not valid? K....

I suppose I hate the fact that I am not billionaire super hero with a large penis, but I don't really think about it too much.

To OP: You have it great! You have FREE TIME! Embrace your new-found sexuality, go clubbing and get into a wild threesome!