Why do you hate your life?

[Canadamus Prime]

Do you REALLY want me to get into that? 'Cause that's quite a long story.

 

[Caligulove]

Right now I hate the rut that I've fallen into. Not really doing anything productive and started to noticeably gain some weight. Only been over a year, but I really need to get my shit together once again.

 

[Chicago Ted]

A huh ... I find it pretty much impossible to hate my life. I live in a developed country where I have many rights and indulgences given to me for simply being here. Do I bummed every now and then? Sure, but I can't find any reason beyond selfishness to hate my existence. I should also probably mention that I'm only 18, my life hasn't even started!

I agree with everything in this post.

The only parts that somewhat bug me right now are the fact that I think I bombed my math exam today, and may have to take the course again in the summer, but aside from that there's really not much else.

After all, it's going to be Christmas soon, and Christmas is just awesome! Family, friends, gaming and booze galore!

 

[Drakmorg]

I don't hate my life, my life is great.
I hate myself.
Pretty big difference.

 

[Jinx_Dragon]

Things outside of my control.

To show you how messed up it can be immigrating to another country I would recommend it sometime... the stress will put decades on your life! More so when they decide you can't get a permit because your in a long term relationship with one of their citizens. Long story, won't bore you all here with it.

 

[Spawny0908]

I don't hate my life. I have a family who loves and cares for me, a roof over my head, and other than my kidneys, weight, and legs I'm in alright health. My life is uncomfortable because of my lyphedemia brought on by my kidneys. My lympedemia is stage 3 (and there are only 3 stages so it's bad). My legs are so big it's hard to lift them up into a car and I don't walk anymore I waddle. Some days it's hard for me to even get up in the morning. I have a bunch of pills to take daily, massages to do, lots of doctors to see, and physical therapy 3 times a week to keep my massive swelling in check. But even through all these hardships it could be worse. Even though my kidneys aren't functioning properly they're still working right and don't need a transplant or dialysis. So all in all it could be worse but sometimes it can be hard to look on the bright side sometimes.

you know its funny how some people will go "I hate my life" over lack of relationships, that face they are unpopular, people or annoy them or they are just misanthropic twats

and youve actually got a real problem...but your not complaining all that much..(I dont know what to say other than...I hope you'll be ok in the end)..sorry if that sounded condecinding or somthing...but yeah

and thats the reason I dont hate my life

(but to be fair Im sure alot of it is just harmless venting)

Thanks. I hope things get better too. But like I said it could be worse!

 

[applesandoranges]

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[z121231211]

Because there's nothing wrong with me, nothing that ever stopped me, and nothing that will ever stop me from accomplishing my goals other than myself. And guess what, I don't have the willpower to just go "Looking at these people's opinions on topics that are irrelevant to me are just wasting my time" and just go make a video game or learn Japanese or something. Seriously, 19 years is a long-ass time and even though I had At Least 8 hours a day of free time I have completed nothing because of crippling message board lurking addiction.

And I've been close to people that are actually using their free-time to better themselves and accomplish their goals, great amazing people that I'll never even get close to in awesomeness. At this rate I am just doomed to being a low-life that will never amount to anything.

I think it's time for me to leave the internet for awhile...

 

[Robert632]

I hate my life because It's mine, and my hormonal mind is thinking everyone else's life is better.

 

[217not237]

I recently began to realise that I'm a homosexual. It's all been pretty tough, since, well, I've never really gone through anything major, it's always been a mountain of minor things for me. The whole thing was giving me nightmares. But, since I recently began playing Persona 4, I'm really starting to learn to accept myself for what I refuse to admit, and make that only a part of me. Ever since, I kind of lost my cloud of anger. Not really "hating" my life or any part of it, anymore. Huh, video games doing a good thing. Fox News would never believe this.

 

[NiPah]

So, I'm sitting here at my computer, feeling pretty shitty. I've been in love with a girl who doesn't feel the same way for the past 6 months, and can't move on. I'm hoping in my heart that she'll change her mind, but in my head I know that's probably not going to happen. On top of that, in the past week I've developed a crush for one of the guys at the cricket club, which has completely taken me offguard since I didn't know I was bisexual, or that it was possible to have a crush on a guy and be in love with a girl at the same time. It's really fucking with my head, which is particularly bad because I'm not all that mentally stable at the best of times, and I'm on holidays from uni (and have no part time job) so I have a lot of time to overthink about it. So I'm writing this out in the hope that it somehow helps me deal with it, because I hate feeling this way, and I'm worried that the longer I feel this way, the more likely I am to do something I'll really regret. Since I needed to get it off my chest, but mostly pointless rants aren't really a discussion topic, I've shamelessly tacked on a really lame discussion topic.

So, what aspect of your life do you hate?

(I don't hate my life is not a valid response)

I hate the fact that at some point it will be over.
I hope to rectify this at some point.

 

[Dr. Pepper Unlimited]

(I don't hate my life is not a valid response)

Why exactly? I can't find a damn thing wrong. I'm not trying to be arrogant, but I can't. I have a wonderfully close relationship with my sisters and mom, I have a supportive girlfriend, I've finally got a job offer to start my career in the field I went to college for and my health is top notch. I'm a happy person. =^_^=

 

[boandpop]

Just that I have to endanger my life by taking medication that's been prescribed to me. Incredibly severe allergy to dust means I look like a burn victim a lot of the time, and that means I have been refused jobs. The medication fixes this, but it's not good for my liver or internal organs.

Which sucks.

But hey, I have a lot of good stuff in my life!

 

[CrazyJew]

Aspect of my life?

To be honest, I don't actually hate my life. I enjoy the fact that I am alive. But I hate the situation I live in.

I've found that this sums it up nicely:

This reminds me why I hate my life. We are a generation of men raised by women. And let me tell you, I think the law should prohibit single mothers from raising SONS if it was a divorce. She will hate him. Just because it's his father's son.

 

[smithy_2045]

(I don't hate my life is not a valid response)

Why exactly? I can't find a damn thing wrong. I'm not trying to be arrogant, but I can't. I have a wonderfully close relationship with my sisters and mom, I have a supportive girlfriend, I've finally got a job offer to start my career in the field I went to college for and my health is top notch. I'm a happy person. =^_^=

(Quoting you because you're one of many who have asked this question and I can't be bothered quoting all of them.)

Because this is specifically a thread for people who need to rant/vent about why they hate their life, not a thread for people to brag about why their life is awesome.

If it makes you feel any better, OP, just about everyone you speak with has gone through something similar to what you're going through right now. Seriously. You're not at all alone. Also, most people, if they're being honest with themselves, are attracted to someone of their gender at least once in their lives. It's not a big whoop, so don't let it mess with your head too much.

I'm aware, I just needed to vent before it got out of control. I've learnt from past experience that it's something I need to do if I want to maintain some sort of moderately healthy mental state.

 

[Dr. Pepper Unlimited]

Because this is specifically a thread for people who need to rant/vent about why they hate their life, not a thread for people to brag about why their life is awesome.

Never said I was bragging, but you stated that "not hating your life" is an invalid response, but it's clearly not since not everyone does, such as myself. Those people can chime in as well, but, anyway...depressing thread is depressing so...bye thread!

 

[Nouw]

I'd philosophize but as the OP said, this thread is clearly about venting and ranting. And you know what, everyone needs a good rant/vent once in a while. So enjoy it guys!

I don't hate my life. I have a family who loves and cares for me, a roof over my head, and other than my kidneys, weight, and legs I'm in alright health. My life is uncomfortable because of my lyphedemia brought on by my kidneys. My lympedemia is stage 3 (and there are only 3 stages so it's bad). My legs are so big it's hard to lift them up into a car and I don't walk anymore I waddle. Some days it's hard for me to even get up in the morning. I have a bunch of pills to take daily, massages to do, lots of doctors to see, and physical therapy 3 times a week to keep my massive swelling in check. But even through all these hardships it could be worse. Even though my kidneys aren't functioning properly they're still working right and don't need a transplant or dialysis. So all in all it could be worse but sometimes it can be hard to look on the bright side sometimes.

You, yes you! You're awesome. I love your attitude. If there was ever a 'legitimate reason' to hate your life, it'd be that. But you know, you don't wallow in self-pity. You don't hate your life! You feel good. I hope to one day aspire to share the same attitude you have. *Bro-hug.*

I'm not saying it's a bad thing, sort of a phase am I correct?, but it really makes me happy when I see someone with an attitude like yours Spawny.

 

[Sleepy Sol]

I do hate the fact that I was born with a cleft lip and palate a little bit. Looking different from everyone around you growing up doesn't help your self-confidence much. Still got a bunch of surgeries to go to look...normal. Or at least more than I was before.

Other than that I don't really hate much about my life. I am a lazy bastard who hasn't planned at all for college yet. Never had a girlfriend (whole cleft lip/palate thing doesn't help).

Other than your usual nerdy problems I'm kinda ok with my life at the moment. At the very least I have a loving family.

 

[Tsunimo]

But I don't hate my life...
I suppose I dislike the fact that I slacked off these last two years of school, but that can hardly be changed now, so why fret?

 

[similar.squirrel]

There's a general lack of embroidery designs in my existence.

Also, I'm a fucking screwup and have nobody else to blame for my current situation. Fine and dandy apart from those two things, though.