Why Girls Don't Play Videogames

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My 9 year old cousin (girl) likes Pokemon, Mario, Drawn To Life, and Super Smash Brothers Brawl.

To be fair she also likes Nintendogs, Littlest Pet Shop games, Club Penguin, and Webkinz. But whatever, as long as she's happy and at least has a few quality games.
 

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Flishiz said:
My girlfriend plays games all the time, so maybe, uh, it's a MATTER OF PREFERENCE?
And your girlfriend is 8-14? because that's who this is pointed at. If not, that statement doesn't make too much sense.

And why would we want to make an effort to get 8-14 year old girls into playing?
Why would we make an effort to get anyone into playing? I mean the playing has no real purpose. If they're able to pass their lives without gaming, that's good!
I've spent way too much time playing when it'd be more clever to do something else.

Bottom line is. If they're able to not play. Then good! Keep it that way. For their sake.
 

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SuperMse said:
My 9 year old cousin (girl) likes Pokemon, Mario, Drawn To Life, and Super Smash Brothers Brawl.

To be fair she also likes Nintendogs, Littlest Pet Shop games, Club Penguin, and Webkinz. But whatever, as long as she's happy and at least has a few quality games.
By whose standards do we judge "quality" games? And who's to say that Nintendogs and such aren't quality?

This is touching on what she was saying -- too many people think they know what games "should" be. Just because a game doesn't speak to your particular preferences, that doesn't mean it isn't quality.
 

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Susan Arendt said:
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I suppose it would be nice to see more companies ask "what is fun?" rather than "what can we do to get this untapped market to buy our junk?"
But fun for whom? What's fun for one type of player won't be any fun at all for another. That's what I think is at the core of this video, really -- expanding the definition of fun to include other types of personalities.

For everyone out there saying "who cares if girls play games" think about the situation in reverse for a while. What if virtually every videogame out there was about playing dress-up, tending horses, or making decisions about what high school party to attend? In other words, what if virtually every game out there was NOT directed at you? If you had to desperately search for an MMO or an RPG or an FPS, then how would you feel? It's easy to say "who cares if such and such group doesn't have games they like" when you're part of the demographic that does.
If that happened, I'd just not game. Also, how does it make sense that just by being of a certain age and gender, something would appeal to you? It might apply to an empirical average of a group, but at what point do those averages actually apply?
 

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Not really a fan of Brenda Laurel. She tends to essentialize and dichotomize gender, and her studio (Purple Moon Games? Something like that) really just ended up flaunting and expanding the notion that 'girls game different'. Henry Jenkins was complicit in this perspective as well. I know lots of female gamers that take exception to pink pandering.

I know a lot of female non-gamers that take exception to pink pandering, too.

I'd say that the best games will probably be created by production teams that are equally comprised of both genders, rather than setting up separate divisions for 'real games' (guys) and 'pink games' (girls). That's just insulting.
 

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Keep in mind that this started out as market research in other words there were (and are) people trying to figure out just how in the hell to access that 8-12 yr old female market. Makes a hell of alot of sense to ask why girls are not playing games when there is obviously a potential market to be mined. I loved the ending of the video because it was and is so very true. I would imagine that you could pull off a game steeped in blood and violence if you incorporated the social aspects. (See Persona 3/4 for excellent prototypes.) The fact of the matter is that for many men the concerns of female gamers are an Outside Context Problem of the highest order. Ironically games would probably be infinitely better if we actually included things appealing to both genders. Persona 3 has to be the deepest RPG I have ever played not because of the combat, but because of the social interactions!

Clemenstation said:
Not really a fan of Brenda Laurel. She tends to essentialize and dichotomize gender, and her studio (Purple Moon Games? Something like that) really just ended up flaunting and expanding the notion that 'girls game different'. Henry Jenkins was complicit in this perspective as well. I know lots of female gamers that take exception to pink pandering.

I know a lot of female non-gamers that take exception to pink pandering, too.

I'd say that the best games will probably be created by production teams that are equally comprised of both genders, rather than setting up separate divisions for 'real games' (guys) and 'pink games' (girls). That's just insulting.
Yes because the genders are indeed the same and have the same thought patterns there is no merit to the idea that women do in fact prioritize different things either because of culture or biological difference from males. (It's both really.)
 

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Games will never be perfectly targeted at the individual obviously, they are naturally going to be targeted where there is the most money to be made. Evidently young males (aged roughly 8-16) are the most into gaming, as that is where the market is concentrated. I don't know what psychological, social or cultural reasons (or reasons from all fronts) attempt to explain why, but the plain fact is that males prefer video gaming to females. Companies aren't stupid, they want as much profit as possible.

What is really at fault here is not so much games not being targeting at girls, but game design becoming incredibly formulaic. As I get older, less and less releases interest me, partially because I am no longer within the target audience, but also because I've seen these games countless times before. They don't need to make games aimed at women etc, they just need to stop making the same masochistic drivel over and over. Little off-topic there, sorry.
 

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My Girlfriends sister said "If you cant beat them, join them", but my girlfriend played video games since she was 5 but her sister just started playing video games
 

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Susan Arendt said:
For everyone out there saying "who cares if girls play games" think about the situation in reverse for a while. What if virtually every videogame out there was about playing dress-up, tending horses, or making decisions about what high school party to attend? In other words, what if virtually every game out there was NOT directed at you? If you had to desperately search for an MMO or an RPG or an FPS, then how would you feel? It's easy to say "who cares if such and such group doesn't have games they like" when you're part of the demographic that does.
the fact is if every game was about dress up and playing horsie and such, i wouldn't play video games, i'd go do something else it's that simple. if i wanted to play games and there was none i liked, i'd obviously think that i didn't really want to play video games

i find this whole trend of "being fair" and "including everyone" and "everyone wins" is actually doing more harm than good. it gives our kids the message that they don't have to strive for something cause they'll get rewarded anyways no matter what they do or someone will cater something to them.

like i don't like watching sports and neither do a lot of ppl, does that mean that sports teams should change around sports in order to get more ppl to watch it? i don't think they ever will cause they make too much money as it is
 

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Susan Arendt said:
SuperMse said:
My 9 year old cousin (girl) likes Pokemon, Mario, Drawn To Life, and Super Smash Brothers Brawl.

To be fair she also likes Nintendogs, Littlest Pet Shop games, Club Penguin, and Webkinz. But whatever, as long as she's happy and at least has a few quality games.
By whose standards do we judge "quality" games? And who's to say that Nintendogs and such aren't quality?

This is touching on what she was saying -- too many people think they know what games "should" be. Just because a game doesn't speak to your particular preferences, that doesn't mean it isn't quality.
Sorry, I think I misrepresented myself, though I am not trying to make an excuse, I did write that post in a hurry. What I was trying to say is that I enjoy when she injects variety into her gaming experience. If she has fun with it, then sure playing lots of Littlest Pet Shop is fine, but it would be sad if that kept her from playing games like Mario, Pokemon, or other such games of different genres.

When I said "quality," I guess it was a slip of the tongue. In my opinion, Nintendogs has some merit as a sims-esque game, and though I would like to classify Littlest Pet Shop and Build a Bear as cheap cash-in shovelware that is of no value to her, I cannot do that if she derives entertainment from them. But I would be disheartened to have her avoid other games she might like simply because they aren't pet-raising games or marketed to her. Thankfully, she does enjoy other titles as well, and that allows her to enjoy variety, which is almost always good.

My main point in posting the previous post was actually to say that I know of a girl gamer in the age demographic you described who, while also enjoying the occasional "girly" title, also plays "what the boys play" as well. So, as we move into the next few generations of gaming, I think we can expect to see an increase in younger female gamers =D
 

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Sorry, I think I misrepresented myself, though I am not trying to make an excuse, I did write that post in a hurry. What I was trying to say is that I enjoy when she injects variety into her gaming experience. If she has fun with it, then sure playing lots of Littlest Pet Shop is fine, but it would be sad if that kept her from playing games like Mario, Pokemon, or other such games of different genres.

When I said "quality," I guess it was a slip of the tongue. In my opinion, Nintendogs has some merit as a sims-esque game, and though I would like to classify Littlest Pet Shop and Build a Bear as cheap cash-in shovelware that is of no value to her, I cannot do that if she derives entertainment from them. But I would be disheartened to have her avoid other games she might like simply because they aren't pet-raising games or marketed to her. Thankfully, she does enjoy other titles as well, and that allows her to enjoy variety, which is almost always good.

My main point in posting the previous post was actually to say that I know of a girl gamer in the age demographic you described who, while also enjoying the occasional "girly" title, also plays "what the boys play" as well. So, as we move into the next few generations of gaming, I think we can expect to see an increase in younger female gamers =D
Fair enough. :) And I think you're absolutely right, that we are going to see more and more girls playing games, and starting at younger ages. More to the point, I think we're going to see more and more people playing games, period. There's a far wider variety of games available now than there was ten years ago when this presentation was given, and lots of different gaming experiences to be had. We could definitely keep expanding the field, though.
 

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Susan Arendt said:
For everyone out there saying "who cares if girls play games" think about the situation in reverse for a while. What if virtually every videogame out there was about playing dress-up, tending horses, or making decisions about what high school party to attend? In other words, what if virtually every game out there was NOT directed at you? If you had to desperately search for an MMO or an RPG or an FPS, then how would you feel? It's easy to say "who cares if such and such group doesn't have games they like" when you're part of the demographic that does.
the fact is if every game was about dress up and playing horsie and such, i wouldn't play video games, i'd go do something else it's that simple. if i wanted to play games and there was none i liked, i'd obviously think that i didn't really want to play video games

i find this whole trend of "being fair" and "including everyone" and "everyone wins" is actually doing more harm than good. it gives our kids the message that they don't have to strive for something cause they'll get rewarded anyways no matter what they do or someone will cater something to them.

like i don't like watching sports and neither do a lot of ppl, does that mean that sports teams should change around sports in order to get more ppl to watch it? i don't think they ever will cause they make too much money as it is
This is pretty stupid, I mean really fucking stupid. All of your examples fall apart with one question "Would someone be wrong for wanting to participate in a sport or other activity that currently does not feature those like themselves?" If you can include someone else without damaging things for someone else where is the problem in including others? Oh wait there isn't a problem. This is like saying "Who cares if a disabled person can't get into a moview theatre to see a film? If I couldn't get into a movie theatre I just wouldn't watch movies." before you say "well that is different" ask yourself what the difference is, I doubt you will be able to come up with a logical reason for them being different.

Being fair when doing so is relatively effortless being a problem is what's doing more harm than good not the other way around. You know people probably wouldn't be complaining as much as they are about Killzone 2's controls if you were able to fully map them and adjust the stick dead zone explicitly. But no that would be fair and allow for just about everyone to win which is so terrible.

If someone complains about the controls in a game there is usually a chorus of "NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO THE CONTROLS ARE FINE!!!" what people don't seem to get is that they do not need to lose the controls if they like them because an option to use different controls could be put into the game so that ZOMG every one wins and no one loses.
 

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The_root_of_all_evil said:
I'd also be interested in finding out why boys do play games. Is it addiction, peer pressure, escapism or identification?

And given that, could we ever change what men/women actually are?
It's very strange really: I'd always just assumed that people would play what they found to be enjoyable, video games included.

Honestly, when I play a game, I do so because it's fun for me to do so. It is true that the circumstances at the time surrounding me affect what games I play though. For instance, when I'm stressed, I play Saint's Row/sandbox games. When I'm relaxed, I'll go for an RPG or platformer. When I'm angry, I'll go take it out on Guitar Hero or DDR.

In the end, I think that if girls worried less about their image and more about what made them happy, we'd have a lot more girl gamers.
 

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This is pretty stupid, I mean really fucking stupid. All of your examples fall apart with one question "Would someone be wrong for wanting to participate in a sport or other activity that currently does not feature those like themselves?" If you can include someone else without damaging things for someone else where is the problem in including others? Oh wait there isn't a problem. This is like saying "Who cares if a disabled person can't get into a moview theatre to see a film? If I couldn't get into a movie theatre I just wouldn't watch movies." before you say "well that is different" ask yourself what the difference is, I doubt you will be able to come up with a logical reason for them being different.
wrong my examples don't fall apart easily

see the difference is this, in business not allowing a disabled person into your business is not only denying yourself good money it is also ILLEGAL in most countries. the changing of sports so it's more enjoyable for everyone to watch is not, same goes for giving every kid a medal for just showing up

also the idea of giving everyone a medal and everyone wins removes any need for real competition, you just have to show up and you automatically win, where's the fun and satisfaction that comes from actually winning and earning the victory? there is none and that's the whole point of competition.

also there is the fact that a person in a wheelchair can't run and play normal football or other sports due to severe limitations of their motor controls, the same goes for anyone with a disability, this is why it's called a disability because there's a lack of ability, so you'd say no one should be able to play normal tackle football or do wrestling or judo or brazilian jiu jitsu cause some one is in a wheel chair?

so there are not one but three very logical reasons that disprove your point and prove mine even more. so you were right i couldn't come up with one :)
 

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shadow skill said:
This is pretty stupid, I mean really fucking stupid. All of your examples fall apart with one question "Would someone be wrong for wanting to participate in a sport or other activity that currently does not feature those like themselves?" If you can include someone else without damaging things for someone else where is the problem in including others? Oh wait there isn't a problem. This is like saying "Who cares if a disabled person can't get into a moview theatre to see a film? If I couldn't get into a movie theatre I just wouldn't watch movies." before you say "well that is different" ask yourself what the difference is, I doubt you will be able to come up with a logical reason for them being different.
wrong my examples don't fall apart easily

see the difference is this, in business not allowing a disabled person into your business is not only denying yourself good money it is also ILLEGAL in most countries. the changing of sports so it's more enjoyable for everyone to watch is not, same goes for giving every kid a medal for just showing up

also the idea of giving everyone a medal and everyone wins removes any need for real competition, you just have to show up and you automatically win, where's the fun and satisfaction that comes from actually winning and earning the victory? there is none and that's the whole point of competition.

also there is the fact that a person in a wheelchair can't run and play normal football or other sports due to severe limitations of their motor controls, the same goes for anyone with a disability, this is why it's called a disability because there's a lack of ability, so you'd say no one should be able to play normal tackle football or do wrestling or judo or brazilian jiu jitsu cause some one is in a wheel chair?

so there are not one but three very logical reasons that disprove your point and prove mine even more. so you were right i couldn't come up with one :)
Except you fail hard because no where did I mention anything about business concerns (which ironically still causes your argument to fall apart because the people who would and should care about whether women are playing games even more than gamers themselves are the people who make games.)
The whole debate over everyone getting a medal has absolutely nothing to do with this thread so I really have no idea why you brought it up as it has nothing to do with anything. Being fair has nothing to do with whether everyone is rewarded or not. Let's not forget that there is a such thing as Wheelchair basketball. Not to mention the fact people have devised hand to hand combat tactics for someone who is in a wheelchair. If someone in a wheelchair decided to devise a way to play the game where is the problem? Should those who are not disabled disallow such a thing?

Let me repeat this, it's the businesses that should care even more than the gamers themselves they are the ones who make money off this whole thing.

Ps. It's only illegal that a disabled person not be able to access a movie theatre because some people came along and pushed for fairness so that everyone (well more people not really everyone.) could you know, win.
 

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Except you fail hard because no where did I mention anything about business concerns (which ironically still causes your argument to fall apart because the people who would and should care about whether women are playing games even more than gamers themselves are the people who make games.)
go read what i said before and i did mention it :)

so you fail

also you asked me to give logical reason how i couldn't debunk you and i did that pretty soundly and easily, you just aren't comprehending what i'm saying

The whole debate over everyone getting a medal has absolutely nothing to do with this thread so I really have no idea why you brought it up as it has nothing to do with anything. Being fair has nothing to do with whether everyone is rewarded or not. Let's not forget that there is a such thing as Wheelchair basketball. Not to mention the fact people have devised hand to hand combat tactics for someone who is in a wheelchair. If someone in a wheelchair decided to devise a way to play the game where is the problem? Should those who are not disabled disallow such a thing?
ok so you're saying that regular basketball and wheelchair basketball are the same thing? they aren't, if you think they are similar in anyway shape or form or that brazilian jiu jitsu can be practiced by someone in a wheel chair, they can't

if you think it's possibly to pull guard or do a double leg take down without the use of your legs you're fooling yourself

Let me repeat this, it's the businesses that should care even more than the gamers themselves they are the ones who make money off this whole thing.
so what you're saying is that developers should make all their games accessible everyone so that everyone can play them and everyone will like them

that's not going to happen

Ps. It's only illegal that a disabled person not be able to access a movie theatre because some people came along and pushed for fairness so that everyone (well more people not really everyone.) could you know, win.
but it still proves your point wrong and there is also the fact that you're totally missing mine
 

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What part of the word I do you not get, it hardly matters what you said when it has nothing to do with what I actually wrote. Is wheelchair basketball exactly the same as basket ball for able bodied individuals no, but that hardly matters since people in wheelchairs found a way to engage in the sport and therefore win. People have modified Karate for people in wheelchairs to use if they see fit (Though I do not think its a sport.) That it is different from traditional Karate is immaterial. Susan's point does not mean that games should be the same in fact one might argue that in such a reversed word some company might decide to make games that catered to boys so that they could make money with that market. This is not a hard concept to understand. Making games for boys or girls hardly damages anything and you get money from both markets. The idea that boys would be silly to want to play an MMO in a world where women dominated the game world is quite ridiculous. Your sport analogy falls apart because major sports are business ventures and it would make sense for the business men/women that own the leagues to think about trying to attract people that are not already interested in the sport(s) What you as an individual would do is entirely irrelevant since "How can we make this more interesting/appealing to XYZ?" is still a perfectly valid question.

so what you're saying is that developers should make all their games accessible everyone so that everyone can play them and everyone will like them

that's not going to happen
What's the point of this? Businesses would love to have their products universally loved by people everywhere, everyone knows this is not going to happen so they focus on trying to make their products more appealing to more people. (Which is kind of the point of the video.) Not making their products more accessible when they can do so without affecting their bottom line is just costing them sales and it makes for bad business. Remember what I said about being fair when it is effortless.


the fact is if every game was about dress up and playing horsie and such, i wouldn't play video games, i'd go do something else it's that simple. if i wanted to play games and there was none i liked, i'd obviously think that i didn't really want to play video games
Let me put it this way while you might think that you did not want to play games someone else might think that it would be nice to have a game that had the things they were interested in. They might decide to make the game themselves even. I would like to play killzone 2 but there is not a configuration that does not suck, that hardly means I do not want to play the game now. Wanting to play an MMO is distinct from the subject matter of said MMO because what an MMO is, is distinct from the setting of the MMO.

The fact of the matter is that it's not so obvious, because if it was obvious disabled people never would have bothered to get curbs cut and laws made so that they could entre buildings. There was a time when they could look around and see that there was no way for them to experience what was inside various buildings; which by your logic would mean that they obviously would not be interested in going inside these buildings. Even though their being able to access the building and them having an interest in what is in the building are two very seperate things. I highly doubt that if you could not walk you would be totally disinterested in going to an art gallery solely because said art gallery did not have wheelchair access.
 

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._. I played 007 when I was about 6-7 so screw your generalizations! I do exist you know.
 

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._. I played 007 when I was about 6-7 so screw your generalizations! I do exist you know.
Neither the lady in the video or Susan was talking about the kind of people who visit this site. She even mentioned that they did not survey some states because those children would be more likely than others in other areas to have computers etc.