Jesus :/ I'm not sure wether i should be saying I'm glad you could vent here or giving you my sympathies...In fact screw it, take bothParticulate said:Good things:
-After a ugly fight with my girlfriend a few weeks ago we're patching things over. Scabbing is a better term. Major emotional wounds were dealt on both sides but we're both healing and realized that the fact that we both manage to hurt each other so badly means that we both took the time to fully understand each other's inner workings. So we're not only healing but growing together as well.
-Recently got a new house which is big enough to act as a venue for my business and to have a family in without any bothersome overlaps.
-All my employees are behaving and functioning together well.
-In talks with some family friends to join the Masons.
Bad Things:
-I'm doing obscenely well. Now this is good because I'm not in debt too badly, can pay all my bills, and can live comfortably, it also means that everyone seems to know that I have money. Which means everyone's asking for a loan or expecting me to foot the bill or asking if they can crash at my place for a while.
-My sisters (half sisters) are both insufferable screw-ups and expect me, the youngest of the lot, to be able to magically be able to help them get their lives on track. Pro-tip: If you're in your late thirties and expect a twenty something who happens to be doing well to get YOUR life back on track then you need to stop eating paint chips.
Unknowns:
-Tomorrow it will be two years to the day that my mother passed away. I still have dreams about her, think that I see her in crowds, and mistake her voice sometimes.
-My former bro, my main amigo who I had a spat and falling out with, and I are starting to get back on track again after nine months of not talking. This could be good or it could just lead to us blowing up at each other again. I honestly can't tell.