ShipofFools said:
On another note, my ex once showed me this anime that should prove how mature it could be, and it was Elfen Lied, and it fucking sucked.
It was ugly, cruel, unnecesary violent, tasteless and made me barf in my mouth.
I'm not that well versed in anime, most of it seemed to me to be like Disney, for kids and adults.
But if Elfen Lied is what passes for "mature", then heck no, keep that crap away from me while I watch Beauty and the Beast for the xxxth time.
I want magic, I want feeling, I want beauty! Elfen Lied had none of that.
Please tell your ex to show you the Elfen Lied manga instead. The anime had to stop halfway through Elfen Lied and instead copped out its ending. The manga is also pretty damn violent, but it explores the nature of Dicloni and Lucy's character a hell of a lot better than the anime did.
Also, for anime being mature, I would like to direct you to:
Death Note/Code Geass (both really work here, although Code Geass has mechs)
Cowboy Bebop
Puella Magi Madoka Magica (The first two episodes are SUPPOSED to seem extremely girly, btw.)
Ghost in the Shell
There's probably a lot more too, but those are the ones that immediately come up to mind when I want to show people something that has well-written characters and story.
As for Western Animation, yeah, it's mainly due to the stigma behind animation. I know a lot of people that usually write off anything animated as "cartoons," and save for the exceptions like Futurama, South Park, and Simpsons, and some really good children shows like Adventure Time and Regular Show, it's hard to convince anyone above the age of, say, 15ish to waste their time on animation.