I find this conversation interesting, considering I have an anthropomorphic white tiger as my avatar (a picture I actually drew), and as such I have been accused of being a "furry". Not like anyone's opinions really mattered to me, but oh well. I think I can shed some light on a lot of what people are talking about in their posts (and using quite a bit of vulgarity) in case anyone is actually interested.
Furries/Anthropomorphics and the like aren't "fetishes" so much as they are "fantasies". It would be like me getting my wife a sexy schoolgirl outfit or an equally sexy teachers outfit for a little bit of role playing. That's all it really is, yet people find it disgusting believing the people who like furries are into bestiality simply because they don't understand. It's a way to step out of the truth of your life, and step into a role you probably wouldn't normally do. Oh, wait, that sounds like most RPG's out there, or actors in a movie, or any number of things that people consider "acceptable".
It's no different than asking someone "Have you ever watched porn?", "Have you ever fantasized your girlfriend/boyfriend/significant other being someone else, just for something new?", or "Have you ever masturbated to images of hot models in skimpy attire, nude, or in sexual poses?" For anyone that says "No", you're lying, and hypocritical of others and their fantasies. Everyone has a right to their fantasies, their wants, and their desires without fear of persecution by others. If you find it objectionable that someone fantasizes having sex with Starfire from the DC Universe (or Edward from the "Twilight" series) in the privacy of their own home, then that's your right, but you shouldn't start belittling them just because you might find something objectionable about something they like.
For me personally, do I like anthropomorphic artwork? Yes. I love the works of such artists as Jay Naylor, Phillip Jackson, Chalosan, and Jessica Elwood, simply because their artwork is wonderful to look at, and many of the comic artists have wonderful plots to their story lines. But I also love DC comics, Marvel Comics, my wife's fairy/human artwork, and trying to learn how to draw noses more effectively (it's the reason why I draw mostly anthro characters). I love looking at paintings of scenery that I may never be able to see myself, I love architecture (especially Roman and Gothic). I'm artistic by nature and by love, I write stories, I take long walks enjoying nature, and have things other than just the small part of my life that anthropomorphic artwork takes up. Would I ever desire to wear a fursuit? Nope. I keep hearing that you sweat your butt off in one of those things and would hate it.
Does that make me a "Furry" just because I have a character who I identify with, like to write stories about, and enjoy finding new ways to draw him? Nope, but if you want to call me a Furry, go ahead because I consider it more of a compliment than an insult considering some of the greatest artists/actors/creators I can name would be in the exact same category.