I've been playing this game recently since the all the X-Com games went on a Steam sale about 1-2 weeks ago. It is really fun, challenging, and genuinely interesting despite its age. Also, I too have had those little "story experiences" with my teams, which actually gives me a surprising amount of emotional investment in characters that are otherwise indistinguishable.
For example, a soldier I got at the beginning of the game (some guy with a German name
) ended up being my best non-officer veteran. He had the highest kill count of all of my other guys, and he was always the first one out of the transport ship. I took him on every mission pretty much, even if I rotated out others routinely to get experience and ranks for others. At one mission though that I think was in Outer Mongolia (China), he got shot the moment he walked out of the ship. He survived the shot, but was really badly wounded and I had no medi-kits or anything at this point in the game. I got freaked out because he was bleeding out fast and I didn't want my best guy to get killed. Thankfully, I managed to complete the mission before he died, so he managed to get back to base and stay in recovery for like 3 weeks. Now he's back in action, promoted to Captain while he was resting, and leading a new crop of recruits and veterans into the fray. And he still has the highest kill count. :3
For my soldiers, I recruit large numbers of spare soldiers, then throw the new recruits with a team of veterans and a few officers. The recruits end up leading my forces in while my veterans and sergeants slowly follow, with the leader (usually a captain) hanging in the back. It pretty much means that recruits have a terrible life expectancy, but if they manage to survive and even gets some kills, they get a suit of armor (having "proved their worth") and I try to take care of their lives more. The result is that my team is a mixed of fresh-faces recruits and alot of kick-ass survivors, most of whom seem to have Japanese or German names strangely enough.
It is taking me forever to finish it though. Really big UFO's like battleships are starting to land all over North America at the moment, and the battles are getting really intense. I am wondering how my game will turn out, and who of my team will end up surviving. Also I think i'm only like... 4 months in so far, and those wankers in India have betrayed me. Things are only going to get worse...
So umm... yeah. I'm loving this game. ^^