QFT.AjimboB said:I think it's because the assholes are the ones who actually have the balls to ask these chicks out in the first place. Think about it.
Not enough "nice guys" like you ask her out, because you don't have the self confidence (not you personally, I don't know you, I'm just talking about guys like you, the "nice guys"), so she ends up going out with a douchebag, because she doesn't have that much of a choice. Sure, plenty of guys might be salivating over her, but a lot of them might never ask her out, because they think that they're out of her league, whereas the asshole doesn't think that anyone is out of his league, and therefore he goes for it.
At least that's my theory on the subject. The "nice guys" have no balls, and don't take rejection well, so they just don't ask as often as the assholes, and therefore don't have as many opportunities to get the girl.
These guys may be dicks but they also have balls (see what I did thar?) "Nice guys" can be pathetic, clingy and have a lack of self confidence, not all of them mind you but it still applies. What's the best way to get a girl? Make it clear you think she is nice and attractive and ASK her out. This is what supposed assholes do, thus they get the girls.