michael87cn said:
IMO, sexism, racism, nationalism, etc, if you add an -ism at the end it means hatred is present.
I believe you can joke about women, different races, different nations without meaning you hate them, it might make you a bit of an asshole, though that's not as bad as being a racist, a sexist or a nationalist...
People throw around words they don't understand, and people get offended easily.
Anita Sharkeesian, or hoever you spell her name, is what I call a fire starter. She gets offended or upset about something, and she deems it a crime, or villainous, or basically WRONG to do at all. Are video games like Mario, Skyrim, GTA, Saints Row racist? Are they REALLY sexist? Of course not. They do in no way, advocate the hatred of ANY kind of person. Are they representations of REAL LIFE? Of course not, they are NOT SUPPOSED TO BE.
Why then do people like Anita, claim that its harmful to real people? Fear, ignorance, it can be a multitude of reasons, whats important is that you educate yourself. Anyone who spends a good deal of time playing video games knows that whenever video games appear on the news and they claim we're being brainwashed into killing, that it's ridiculous. People need to likewise stop listening to people like Anita when she says we're being brainwashed into being sexist. It's just not true. We give her far too much attention, money, etc. and I suppose it stems from not properly thinking about and understanding these issues ourselves enough, and for that maybe we have fire starters like her to blame. She may only be making things worse, but at least she is making people stop and think. Once we all figure our as a society that games are Okay, that will be the end of it.
A movie, a book, a video game can have something in it that's not real. That's not normal. That's not ethical, that's not moral, that doesn't make it wrong. An artistic work usually aims to do one thing, tell a story, or, entertain you.
Anything that is made by people will be loved by certain people and hated by others, video games are not the exception. If you dislike a movie, book or game you shouldn't try to get it banned, censored or changed. That's not your right. Your right is to use that product and like it or not like it. You also have the right to make your own product. The imagination is a wonderful thing. Get to work.
That's... over-simplifying the issue.
For starters, you can watch those Tropes vs Women videos and see for yourself - she's not actually demonizing those games. And even goes out of her way specifically to state that she doesn't "hate" these games for conforming to existing stereotypes, and even that it's fundamentally okay to enjoy a game even if it has flaws.
The average pro-feminist gamer isn't holding bonfires made of Super Mario games any more than the average... (I don't know a non-insulting term for the converse view, actually) other gamer thinks that the proper way to respond to something they don't agree with is with lude comments and expletives.
Too often this conversation is couched in inaccurate and unrealistic absolutes. The level of mis-understanding and jumped conclusions that's taken place in response to what's really just a fairly dry school research paper read in front of a green screen would be hilarious - if we were talking about something I didn't feel was actually somewhat important and mattered.
This is what the communal conversation looks like from my end:
"Hey, you know how there's talk that maybe minorities should have better roles in videogames and how every character doesn't need to be a white guy? Well maybe we should also look at how women are portrayed and work toward a more inclusive gaming community as a whole. We could start by raising awareness and expanding the vocabulary of the average gamer to be more familiar with standard trends in gaming and giving them the tools to have a more critical eye towards these issues."
"Hey! Games are not sexist because Samus! I like Super Mario, don't tell me I should hate it for feminist standards that didn't exist for the industry decades ago!"
"It's true there are and have been good female characters in games now and in the past. But that doesn't mean it can't be better, right? I mean I like the graphics we have today, but I wouldn't mind seeing even better graphics, or better storytelling. And better characters is something everyone can get behind right?
Besides, I don't hate those games. I can have fun with and even love a game that has flaws. The objective isn't to vilify gaming, but raise awareness. If you're going to have a damsel in distress at least be aware that's what you're doing."
"But it's art, and it's a fantasy setting so women should be treated poorly in "
"Art is a great answer. But a good artist is at least aware of what they're doing. It's one thing to create something with a specific purpose with the full knowledge that's what you're doing, it's another to do so arbitrarily or through accident or ignorance.
As for setting - there is a (I thought obvious) distinction between how a character is treated by other characters within the story, and how a character is written and portrayed by the author. You can have a pro-feminist female character that is treated poorly by other characters. Of course you can. No one is saying otherwise. It's all about implementation, knowledge of what you're doing, and awareness of the subject."
And so on...
It's not an all-or-nothing gambit, here. No one's going to come take your video games away. I'm a feminist, sure. But I also own a copy of DOA Beach Volleyball. The issue is not that are specific examples that can be sighted for contributing to sexist tropes - it is the prevalence of such tropes and the general ignorance of their existence that's problematic.