If hell exists, If the God I don't believe in forgives me for being an atheist the idea of hell annoys me a great deal, and I'd probably be joining a protest against it (imagine a protest outside of the gates of hell.) Who the hell (no pun intended) deserves to burn for all eternity? I wouldn't wish that on Hitler, and anyone who is capable of sending someone to hell should probably be taking a (short) trip there themselves, if you're willing to genuinely send someone to be in agony for millions of years you should learn a bit about what it would be like. I watched "drag me to hell" and unfortunately my fertile imagination made me imagine just what being sentenced to that would be like. Its just sick, any God who would send someone to hell doesn't deserve to be worshipped, he/she deserves to be dragged out behind the church and lynched by the moderate Gods.
As for whether I could stand a partner who thought I was going to hell... probably, as long as she didn't agree with the merciless bastard she calls a God's sentiments. Otherwise, no, I don't want to stay with someone who is capable of sending her own partner to a place of eternal torture, regardless of how evil I was... and I don't think I'm evil. If real life is the only thing that counts, I'm probably safe. If videogame kills count... ah crap I'm screwed.
I have nothing against religious people. I just can't understand the attraction to christianity and other faiths with a hell. Why would you worship a God capable of something so horrendous. When does a God's actions become questionable? That is my honest opinion.