Condolences to the deceased of course. But...I can't resist commenting on this aspect of death... Anyway, why are anger, sadness etc. the only reactions a person can have towards death? I guess, it -does- depend on the person, but, why having lived a presumably good life, is there only to be this...depressive atmosphere?
Granted, this wasn't an old woman who'd lived her life and had died in her bed. And of course all the more awful because of the circumstances. But, who exactly is helped by bemoaning of how unfair everything is, or how they hope the guy who did it is rotting in hell or some such sentiment to that effect. Given that both are dead, and unlikely to care what any of us think on the matter...