I think my first one was a 14 year old telling me to leave him be on Red Dead, even though he and his friend attacked me first. Still kicked their asses, and I was alone. He said the usual stuff about banging me out in real life and all that. Either that, or the first one was this asshole who was smack talking me. He saw on my profile that I was British and started calling me a fag and stuff. The guy was twice my level with all the best weapons and mounts and he wouldn't leave me alone. He said *I* was pathetic. Apart from those, i've only ever had nice messages. People congratulating me on a kill, etc. Xbox live isn't as bad as all that, if you know where to look.