You're definitely right about the media, but they hardly portray anyone in a good light. Real people and experiences are always much more effective to sway people's opinions, so I really think you'll see a difference once you start informing people more often than simply dismissing them as annoying.Furburt said:I do that too, in real life. However, not as much as I probably should. I'll do it more often.
I don't think the holiday is exclusively Irish, I just wish it wouldn't put Irish people in such a bad light. I mean, sure, we do drink a lot and are good at partying, which is sometimes an admirable quality, but if it's the only quality you have, as many pieces of media has portrayed it, then it stops being a quality.
Anyway, I know my argument is deeply flawed, but it's just a personal diatribe I have, being an Irish nationalist and a person who'd like to consider themselves in touch with their own culture.
Well, there's your problem right there. You're waiting for people to ask you about it. Of course someone that is ignorant about a culture is going to assume there's nothing more to it than leprechauns and four-leaf clovers. The very definition of ignorance is that you don't know about something. How are they supposed to ask about something they don't know even exists?KAPTAINmORGANnWo4life said:I don't talk down to people. In my whole life I've only ever had one person ask me anything to do with Ireland that didn't involve a stereotype. I understand that it's a matter of experience and perception, but that's also a point to counter yours: Just because you have been lucky enough to not deal with these idiots, doesn't mean they're not the majority.
Seriously, if you try volunteering info about your culture I think you'll be surprised at how much people are get into it (particularly if they are already drunk to begin with). So long as your tone is more "actually, this is what we Irish like to do to celebrate our culture" rather than "your doing it wrong", people will usually be pretty interested in what you have to say.
Also, I'd just like to add that I have encountered plenty of people that reduce my culture's holidays down to nothing more than stereotypes. My point is that it's up to you how to deal with it. You can ***** about it (but that will only make you look like a wet blanket and it won't change anyone's mind about celebrating the holiday), or you can use the situation as a learning opportunity, teach some people about REAL Irish culture, and maybe make some new friends in the process.
Well really, the OP and others that are against outsiders celebrating St. Patrick's Day are the ones supporting perpetual ignorance here. The holiday is a perfect chance to teach people about the culture beyond simple stereotypes, but rather than doing so they just sit and complain that people are having a good time.snowplow said:Most holidays are mere shadows of their former selves. It's not exclusive to St. Patrick's day, as others have mentioned.
There isn't really anything that can be done about it, since in reality people do not care about holidays. They really don't. Very few people actually celebrate holidays for their intended purpose, while the rest use it as an excuse to get wasted, break things, get a day off, or buy useless shit.
I don't agree with that mentality like the rest of the forumers do. Allowing perpetual ignorance is why our society is in this sorry state.