I don't intentionally flame. I point out something that I question, but I don't take genuine offense to anything, I'm not sure why I should, it's not like someone saying something stupid or wrong affects me, unless I try to help them. I get frustrated with some less intelligent people online sometimes, but not to the point of flaming. I define flaming as a complete criticism of a person's intelligence or character, in an insulting fashion. I don't see where it gets you, the problem isn't the person, it's the topic. Unless it's how stupid the person is. Then I don't get involved.
My surroundings are what changes my personality. I'm neutral on the internet, because I don't feel weary or threatened, but out in this town, i don't know who's an asshole or not, so I act more... hm, dominant, I guess. I try to keep people in line, and I'm a little bit paranoid. I don't fear anyone, but I don't like conflict, because if I get in a fight, it's not a fight, it's a deathmatch.
I will kill anyone who provokes me, and I will serve prison time for it. I guess I'm just a little off that way, but my town has the assholes to back me up on it.
I try not to be threatening online.