Loonyyy said:
Oh wait, you also quoted me.[...]
It's not scapegoating. You are not scapegoating by blaming a mass murderer for mass murder. If he was bullied, then that may have led to the state of mind that caused it, but it was their choice to escalate to mass murder, and indiscriminate killing. I'm not accepting any consequence. I see the emotional damage caused by bullying to be an unnacceptable consequence of not solving that problem. I see mass murder as an unnacceptable consequence of other problems. They're both bad, you're setting up an insane false dichotomy.
1. One who is not in a state of mind to make choices is not a choice. I'm not sure if you know, but intoxicating a girl for sex may be considered rape to some people...
2. They're both bad. I'm not setting up a dichotomy when I state that a game should show all sides of everyone's suffering so all sides can understand. You are opposing my statement that the murderer is not 100% at fault because my response was directed at Katatori's statement that they are 100% at fault. Why exactly is it unacceptable to you that all sides understand each other's perspective because that's basically all sides realizing that they're all wrong to some extent. This is what you're opposing.
No, they don't. Google "Guilt". You need to clean up your writing, since it's almost impossible to understand. And, if the point is post-hoc rationalisation exists, sure. Not everyone does. Google "Apology" "Sorrow".
1. At the moment the decision is made, people believe it's not a good decision to make... How does that even make the slightest sense? The best I could make of it is, he believes that
his is a bad decision but it's the best of the terrible options. Also not entirely sure dead people feel guilt...
2. I think I made my point... gona skip this part. Unless you wana argue that people in fact make bad decisions because they believe it's a bad decision, cus it's a bad decision... Man that got confusing really fast. You're right though, my grammar is bad. Sorry! =]
is is nothing to do with my emotions, and I'd like you to keep to the point rather than ad hominem.
1. Really? You just evaded...
one should never justify that action by the suffering they underwent first.
Well, I apologize for the ad hom and I take it back. You are right, it has nothing to do with your emotions. It is simply how reality operates. After all that's what the concept of revenge is and I'm sure you agree that it's a phenomena right?
Because it's wrong, and a damn lie. I never said the solution was to hope things were better. I think there are some real solutions. Those would involve not justifying anyone's actions, and looking at how to fix the things which are broken, which isn't helped by people having a tantrum over the sake of mass murderers.
1. I did say near the end something about the whole thing about a sadistic ritual right?
2. I don't want to justify it, I simply said people justify their own actions.
3. I don't want to justify it, I simply want people to understand all angles of the situation. How do you not see this concept?
It's not about fear, it's about understanding the events, rather than romanticising them.
1. We may have a different understanding of the word blame. I see the word used often to throw all the burden onto the blamed. Probably cus I got it from the whole christian Mythos as well as growing up blame was associating with evading responsibility. On top of that responsibility was different from blame. Finally I thought understanding events used another phrase, like "understand"... Sounds a bit like my position... awkward right?
There's no such thing. Regardless, the implication of my bias as opposed to yours is insulting.
You're right, there's no such thing as purely unbiased. I was out of line here. But I did give it a shot, saying that we should present every side's suffering and reasons. I'm sure bullying has it's reasons too. As well as family problems. Possibly abuse at home...
Quoting me and not you this time ^^', sorry I don't know how to change the color to avoid confusion
There's no reason to limit the PoV only to the shooter. Bullies bully for a reason as well, shift the camera to them. Everyone involved is responsible.
I never said they didn't. I believe things happen causally to each other. If you mean that bullying may have in part caused the event, it may have. It isn't the whole story, and a causal link would not make the punishment just, nor does it make mass murder the punishment for bullying. The death penalty for bullies and random people nearby is not a just punishment. Get that into your head.
1. refer to the quote above as well.
2. Consequences != escalation. Not all consequences result in escalation but if one flips enough coins, they are sure to get two tails in a row.
3. Scapegoating, blaming and the like are all after the fact of dead students and a dead shooter. If you believe in consequences then what was wrong with me stating that they all, together, caused this catastrophe? Or is this not the case? Is it the case that the game in question should be about how the shooter alone is to be blamed as the monster he is and no one else was at fault? Cus they are. If you wana answer this point please do so last. This thought will be revisited at the end of this.
It's a quote from Ghandi, used in an example of reducio ad absurdum. If mass murder is an acceptable "consequence" (This word is misused), of bullying, then we're all fucked. That shouldn't be that hard to understand, no?
I didn't disagree with that. :| I simply said that people don't have to follow that, and people don't follow that. Some people walk away. Others over-react. Then there are highschool children with all their lovely biological chemicals and limited and abnormal understanding of the world without a place to run away so they endure until the snapping point. That's not too hard to understand from your position right? I understood your point, can you understand this position? Cus you sounded rather too hostile to of understood this.
I'm not twisting words, and seriously, stop going after the religious. It's just annoying, and not relevant, and hurts your pious claims to the moral high ground. I don't believe in a god, and I'm certain I'm more informed than you on religion in any case.
1. You very well might be and I am hoping you are more informed. I said nothing about a god, I simply pointed out a group of people who over-reacts at offenses. Stop twisting my words would you?
No, you. I negated your points. It's not my responsibility to make an entire argument for positions I don't affirm.
1. I just wanted you to think.
sorry it offended.
And then you again, play coy with the truth. We're not talking suicide, we're talking murder. And I didn't say bullying was justifiable. I just said that mass murder wasn't. You need to sharpen up on your comprehension a little. I'm firmly against bullying. You'd be hard pressed to find someone more against it. I've been beaten up by a gang of people because I'm against it. Don't put words into my mouth. I never said bullying was acceptable. Bullying and mass murder are not acceptable. Bullying also doesn't always lead to suicide or mass murder, something you're not acknowledging either.
1. Yea, and shooting people don't always lead to killing them. True. I don't see how that's relevant though.
2. Ok, this one was my mistake. I jumped to conclusions and I sincerely apologize on this matter.
Not the school shooters. Plenty of people get bullied, and plenty don't kill children. All parts of the problem need fixing, and ignoring the shooter, for the bully, will result in a broken solution.
1. Bullies are not the only thing FFS. There are family issues, relationship issues, money issues. So many issues. I simply said that all of it play a part and it should be expressed as such. WTF man? You were bitching at me all day for putting words in your mouth =.=; I said ALL parts should be shown. Why do you do this to me. Q-Q
This is what's known as a sentence fragment. It's caused by not thinking through your statement, dripping with condescension, about issues you seem remarkably uninformed about.
I'm honestly just bad at grammar. Can't be good at everything. :|
What the fuck? There's nothing wrong with my grammar, and I mean the statement as I put it. You, Mr. Sentence Fragment, don't get to correct me, on any points. You can't justify the actions taken by the shooters by their potentially troubled past. As you Godwin'd later, so shall I. Hitler's mother died horribly of cancer, and her Jewish doctor was unable to save her. That doesn't justify the Holocaust. Heck, it doesn't even justify a complete causal link.
I didn't correct your grammar... I simply pointed out that you stated that something should happen and ignored what is happening. Just because something should happen doesn't mean it will happen and in the case of the shooting, didn't happen. I'm sorry about my grammar, must be pretty bad on my part for you to miss that.
Quoting myself again!
The word "should" will never replace the word "will" in a practical setting.
Shooters are the problem.
Sigh... I thought we were in agreement on this! You said...
School shooters are a complex phenomena
The reason for the shooting is the problem, not the shooter. Just because you deny someone a chance to do what they want, doesn't mean they won't continue to try. You can hope that they change their mind as they grow, experience and learn more but why not cut straight to the chase and set up a situation where they grow, experience, and learn more so the shooting doesn't take place to begin with? My proposal on a drama genre game, based on the perspective of the bully & shooter and other involved people of this mess doesn't hint at all about this? Really?
Ok now that I'm done responding to so many things... I have a question.
Does it really seem sensible to you that the best course of action is to go kill plenty of people then kill oneself? I don't see any probable rational gain from that so it's most likely emotional, though there are possible exceptions. You're more knowledgeable in religion than I am so you tell me from the beliefs point of view, what gains are there in the believed afterlife? Exhausting the options, you really think the kid chose the worst possible outcome while
believing it's the worst possible outcome? I'm a little confused here you see. You said that children were stupid. Then you said the shooter was to blame. Then you said the shooter had a choice.
So yea, this is a bit confusion on my part so I'm sorry if I miss. If so please kindly correct me. From my point of view, killing a bunch of people then killing oneself seems to be a final act after weighting all possible options... (granted the weighing was totally manipulated by biological emotions of what we call teenage stupidity) Even if it's a bad calculation,
I think you're actually saying that they chose this knowing it's the worst possible choice, rather than the best or only remaining choice. It's almost as if the kid is determined to suicide, and simply wants
ironically Justice, for once in his desperate life, peace. I don't know if it'll bring him any but I would think the he believed it would bring him peace, just like people who seek revenge do it out of the need to quench the inner agony of hate.
Alternatively if you believe that the shooter might of believed it's a good choice, only choice, or best choice then the fault is in the mind because we the outsiders see it as an unacceptable choice. Then the fault is in the mind. The fault is the biology, the environment teaching the kid, and the information processed. If you blame that then you have already agreed with me, though I am aware that my position is a rare one and you probably don't agree with me. Worth a shot though.
Also how to you blame shooters when the shooter is already dead? What can you do to the shooter to *fix* him? I recall you stating that not all bullied people suicide or take violent revenge, but I also recall you stating that it's a complex problem, on top of that I also remember you advocating that it's the shooter's fault for snapping. Not all desperate people snap from bullying + home problems + relationship problems + friend problems + money problems, possibly starvation problems, mental problems, and countless other problems all combined together... Some simply live through it all...
You know what I think? I think it's a difference of both nature and nurture that made the difference. That's my stance on this argument. I blame nature and I blame nurture. You blame a dead person... I can understand why you blame him though, but what do you blame him for? His decision? All the pieces that made up that decision? I always felt that a decision is made by weighting the pros and the cons tainted by emotions, which translates to understanding, knowledge, maturity, and circumstances. You seem to feel different than me on this issue. Explain to me. We both conclude that the source of the decision was responsible for this result yet we arrive at different conclusions at what exactly that source is. You point at the mind as the culprit, I point at the development of the mind. That is what you blame right?
Ignore this part if you also point at the [development of the mind] as the culprit.
Then it is safe to assume that you believe the mind is the entity of the person right?
Minds develop and change, so by extension, people change. You agree right?
This means who you were in a certain point of the past is not who you are today, they are two different people connected by a string of external influences.
Who are you blaming exactly?
Loonyyy
You went totally batshit crazy or should I say Loonyyy? I just wana say I'm sorry for offending you and it's really late here. Going to go sleep now and I won't respond for a while.