Ando85 said:
It doesn't work; I've tried it a few times and it pisses my mom off that she ends up talking about what I should be doing with my life for around ten minutes.
Example: I'm 25 and I graduated from college last December. I haven't been able to find a job because I'm either over experienced for the small easy jobs or other times I am fully qualified but the stupid employers are only looking for people that have had 3 to 5 years or more of experience working at the type of job they are hiring for, no exceptions.
So I have been in this rut where there is no work because all the employers within 25 miles of where I live have the hiring sense of an 8 year old. I can't move to look for work because my mom is sick a majority of the year(I still believe she fakes half of it).
Now, since I don't have a job, anytime she wants to go out and do something, I either have to go along with her, drive her, or go out by myself to get the stuff I know she can get herself.
A couple months ago, she wanted to get tickets to some show that was going to be at the theater in a couple weeks from then, and she told me that I had to come along with her, though I didn't have to get out of the car when she went in to get the tickets. So, when she went in, I got out my DS, since she was going to be awhile and there of course was nothing else I could do. I was still playing my game when she got back to the car, and after she got in and started the car, she looked over at me and my DS and then told me that I needed to get a life. You might think telling her that obviously there is nothing else for me to do while sitting in the car would be a reasonable argument, but no that doesn't count.
Then she went on and on about how I'm not taking enough time out of my day to look for a job. Jokes on her, that I was actually going to do some online searching when she dragged me off on her little fetch outing. Though she doesn't think looking online counts as looking for a job, even though 90% of the jobs in the area that I have went outside to look for, all told me to go online to fill out the application. So I go out every once in a while, but in this day and age, physically going out an looking produces nothing.
But yeah, saying the other person doesn't have a life when they tell you you don't, doesn't work.