For Discussion Value: Have you ever been in a dumb relationship in which the other person was a little bit psycho?
I didnt put this in the advice column because i dont want advice i know whats happened and im done with it all. but forewarning Im really not in the mood to get called an idiot and a jack ass because i know already and you wont accomplish anything. sorry for any grammar mistakes, this was more or less a rage type. Now to the story
I am 15 so im glad i made this terribly huge mistake at an early age.
So I've recently made some bad decisions. and I'm gonna break this story into parts.
Part 1. The honey moon stage
Mid August i went out with a girl who at the time seemed amazing. There was only the problem of the ex boyfriend. As some may remember i was that guy who posted the thing about me telling her to not talk to him ever again because she cheated on me with him. I forgave her and ultimately told her she can do what ever she wants if she wants to talk to him thats fine. Many of you told me to break up with her because of the obvious trust issues. I should have. But the night that she told me she cheated on me was the first night that we went all the way. so i made 2 bad calls in one day.
Part 2. Shit gets messed up
So i found out Mid October she was switching schools. She was planning on breaking up with me but then changed her mind the same day. She said she didnt want to have a boyfriend in a different school and bull crap about how she wasnt strong enough to do it. It wasnt like she was moving or anything just a different school. 2 Weeks later it got brought up again and she changed her mind. She broke up with me november 2nd. She then tells me oh man this is my favorite part. That she is going to go out with her ex the guy she cheated on me with just until the new school because she doesnt want to be the new single girl. This is where i get 1. incredibly mad and 2. incredibly suspicious. None of it made sense to me. I told her that id rather her not but in the end it was her choice. so on November 5th she went out with him. we got into a huge fight me saying that everything hasnt even mattered to her and it was all a lie.
Part 3. Shit gets a little bit more messed up
Now about a week later she tells me she still loves me and doesnt like him at all and that shed stay with me if she didnt have to go to this new school. We still walked with each other every period of the day. we used to make out before 7th period and one time i went to walk with her and she took me to the spot that we used to make out. and she started kissing me (it was in a secluded area not in the middle of the halls) and i pulled away and said "Are you sure you want to do this?" she responded with "I wouldnt have done it if i wasn't sure" So then we started really cheating on this other guy. and it went against so many of my morals and i hate myself for it but i did do it. She went on vacation and right before it she found out shes staying in my school. She saw Anthony her current right before and wouldve broken up with him but it was his birthday the next day. We talked on the phone every night as she made up some BS excuse to not talk to him. Then it came to last night. she told me she was going to break up with him and then on Monday we could go out again and life would be all good. and thats when
Part 4. Shit gets Fubar
So i text her asking her if she did it yet and i dont get a response. I sorta just shake it off and say well I'll just talk to her tomorrow I guess. So i try and talk to her tomorrow and she still doesnt respond. I go Facebook snooping as much as i shouldnt have but i wanted to see if she changed her relationship status (Anthony made her block me on facebook). And one of her chats is saved and i had to read it i couldnt not read it. It's her talking to her friend saying that her and Anthony got into a fight again but she still loves Anthony a lot but doesnt think he feels the same way. Now this whole time shes been telling me that she hates him and doesn't love him or even like him at all. Now i hear just the opposite. so i try and contact her but her phone is dead or shes ignoring me either or would make sense. I then get fed up and call her house phone thinking that she was at her moms but turns out she was at her Grammas for the weekend which again would make sense. Her mom tells me that her phone charger was indeed left behind so i just tell her that if she gets a hold of Anna that she should tell her to call me.
Now lets go about 2 hours back i call her house again because im still getting ignored or something and i just need to talk to some one. Me and her mom got along very well so i talked to her for a bit. In this conversation i find out that i was lied to about Anna ever having to go to this new school and that even her mom thinks i should just never EVER try and be good friends with her let alone go out with her again. We have a good 15 minute talk and im feeling better until my other friend calls me asking what the heck happened and so i explain to him the story and he says well i have more bad news im with my girlfriend right now and she tells me that Anna told her that she had no intentions of ever breaking up with Anthony and that she was just using me for the sex.
Part 5.
So that brings me to about now. I find out that I've been lied to on so many levels that this girl Anna has made me look like a huge jack ass. I have never felt so dumb. If youve read this whole story i commend you but please try and refrain from calling me an idiot...i know already
I didnt put this in the advice column because i dont want advice i know whats happened and im done with it all. but forewarning Im really not in the mood to get called an idiot and a jack ass because i know already and you wont accomplish anything. sorry for any grammar mistakes, this was more or less a rage type. Now to the story
I am 15 so im glad i made this terribly huge mistake at an early age.
So I've recently made some bad decisions. and I'm gonna break this story into parts.
Part 1. The honey moon stage
Mid August i went out with a girl who at the time seemed amazing. There was only the problem of the ex boyfriend. As some may remember i was that guy who posted the thing about me telling her to not talk to him ever again because she cheated on me with him. I forgave her and ultimately told her she can do what ever she wants if she wants to talk to him thats fine. Many of you told me to break up with her because of the obvious trust issues. I should have. But the night that she told me she cheated on me was the first night that we went all the way. so i made 2 bad calls in one day.
Part 2. Shit gets messed up
So i found out Mid October she was switching schools. She was planning on breaking up with me but then changed her mind the same day. She said she didnt want to have a boyfriend in a different school and bull crap about how she wasnt strong enough to do it. It wasnt like she was moving or anything just a different school. 2 Weeks later it got brought up again and she changed her mind. She broke up with me november 2nd. She then tells me oh man this is my favorite part. That she is going to go out with her ex the guy she cheated on me with just until the new school because she doesnt want to be the new single girl. This is where i get 1. incredibly mad and 2. incredibly suspicious. None of it made sense to me. I told her that id rather her not but in the end it was her choice. so on November 5th she went out with him. we got into a huge fight me saying that everything hasnt even mattered to her and it was all a lie.
Part 3. Shit gets a little bit more messed up
Now about a week later she tells me she still loves me and doesnt like him at all and that shed stay with me if she didnt have to go to this new school. We still walked with each other every period of the day. we used to make out before 7th period and one time i went to walk with her and she took me to the spot that we used to make out. and she started kissing me (it was in a secluded area not in the middle of the halls) and i pulled away and said "Are you sure you want to do this?" she responded with "I wouldnt have done it if i wasn't sure" So then we started really cheating on this other guy. and it went against so many of my morals and i hate myself for it but i did do it. She went on vacation and right before it she found out shes staying in my school. She saw Anthony her current right before and wouldve broken up with him but it was his birthday the next day. We talked on the phone every night as she made up some BS excuse to not talk to him. Then it came to last night. she told me she was going to break up with him and then on Monday we could go out again and life would be all good. and thats when
Part 4. Shit gets Fubar
So i text her asking her if she did it yet and i dont get a response. I sorta just shake it off and say well I'll just talk to her tomorrow I guess. So i try and talk to her tomorrow and she still doesnt respond. I go Facebook snooping as much as i shouldnt have but i wanted to see if she changed her relationship status (Anthony made her block me on facebook). And one of her chats is saved and i had to read it i couldnt not read it. It's her talking to her friend saying that her and Anthony got into a fight again but she still loves Anthony a lot but doesnt think he feels the same way. Now this whole time shes been telling me that she hates him and doesn't love him or even like him at all. Now i hear just the opposite. so i try and contact her but her phone is dead or shes ignoring me either or would make sense. I then get fed up and call her house phone thinking that she was at her moms but turns out she was at her Grammas for the weekend which again would make sense. Her mom tells me that her phone charger was indeed left behind so i just tell her that if she gets a hold of Anna that she should tell her to call me.
Now lets go about 2 hours back i call her house again because im still getting ignored or something and i just need to talk to some one. Me and her mom got along very well so i talked to her for a bit. In this conversation i find out that i was lied to about Anna ever having to go to this new school and that even her mom thinks i should just never EVER try and be good friends with her let alone go out with her again. We have a good 15 minute talk and im feeling better until my other friend calls me asking what the heck happened and so i explain to him the story and he says well i have more bad news im with my girlfriend right now and she tells me that Anna told her that she had no intentions of ever breaking up with Anthony and that she was just using me for the sex.
Part 5.
So that brings me to about now. I find out that I've been lied to on so many levels that this girl Anna has made me look like a huge jack ass. I have never felt so dumb. If youve read this whole story i commend you but please try and refrain from calling me an idiot...i know already
