You have to learn sometime

[Monkfish Acc.]

If you don't trust someone, break up with them. This should be easy.
But you don't need a lecture. As you've said, now you know. You've learned your lesson.
Better now than a few years down the line with fucking kids involved or whatever.

Don't make a huge deal out of it, though. It is your first, but it is hardly an indicator of things to come. Grow from this and your next relationship will be all the better.
Plenty more fish in the sea, as they say. And some of them aren't quite so rancid.

 

[Mr. Google]

If it's any consilation, I actually envy you.

haha may i ask why???

1. You're younger than me.
2. You're getting sex.
3. People actually finds you attractive enough to form a relationship.

Three strikes.

:/ well alright i...i just feel awkward right now

If you don't trust someone, break up with them. This should be easy.
But you don't need a lecture. As you've said, now you know. You've learned your lesson.
Better now than a few years down the line with fucking kids involved or whatever.

Don't make a huge deal out of it, though. It is your first, but it is hardly an indicator of things to come. Grow from this and your next relationship will be all the better.
Plenty more fish in the sea, as they say. And some of them aren't quite so rancid.

I'm actually really surprised by the response im getting from this thread. I thought id get people calling me a dumbass and stuff but i actually get people like you who understand haha thanks

 

[x0ny]

Well, look on the bright side mate, at least you're smart enough to have learnt something from this whole ordeal. I know a small handful of people who have gone through what you have and still make the same mistakes over and over again. Worst bit for me is I have to listen to their drivel after it happens.

 

[VanityGirl]

I dated a guy for a week. We met through friends and this guy turned out to be super weird.

First date (as boyfriend/girlfriend):
Everything was fine, we went to a party and had fun. We danced, sang loudly and enjoyed our time.

Next Day (note DAY!): I recieve TONS of text messages from my new boyfriend. This wouldn't be a problem except they were filled with "I Love you". I don't mind saying I love you to a person if I really love them, but that comes with time. I tell him I'm not into saying I love you because we've only been dating for a little while.

Day after that: I recieve more text messages with the "I love you's". Now we both went to different schools and I didn't get to see him every day. I keep getting more and more weirded out.

Next Day: We meet up to go to the movies. We hang out after the movie and play some FIFA 2007 and I see one of my friends. It was fun, but he was super clingy.

Final day: I was getting weirded out with the clinginess. All the "I love you" messages and him continously saying it to me was irritating me. I felt bad for not saying it to him and I wasn't going to because I didn't feel that way.


Afterwards: My friends keep telling me to watch out because your ex "been asking about you". To keep my mind off this, my friends Jane and Terence went out to a club. We were all hanging out with some other friends we met up there when, uh oh my douchey ex shows up. It's super awkward because he's hitting on me and my guy friend kind of had a thing for me.
Well this wasn't the only time he "ran into us" aka stalked my friends and I.


The guy was very attractive, but that goes to show, good looks don't make you less creepy.