Your closet to come out of
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I'm an atheist... doesn't matter.
I've had pre-marital sex... don't really plan on getting married, plan on sexing whoever I like.
My friends all know who I am, and so does my family.
There are no closets.
I don't think there's a box that any of us fit in, and I'm not getting in one.
I've had pre-marital sex... don't really plan on getting married, plan on sexing whoever I like.
My friends all know who I am, and so does my family.
There are no closets.
I don't think there's a box that any of us fit in, and I'm not getting in one.
Is premarital sex really a closet to come out of?
Where I come from, not having had sex before committing to a lifelong relationship is far more embarrassing. Means that you are willing to rush into things you don't even remotely know about.
Anyway, in my case: Err... yeah, something sexual, as well.
Also, was far as religion goes: I still think it should be illegal to try and influence someone else above a certain age in their religious beliefs, or even use one's own religion-given moral standards as a basis for communication.
Where I come from, not having had sex before committing to a lifelong relationship is far more embarrassing. Means that you are willing to rush into things you don't even remotely know about.
Anyway, in my case: Err... yeah, something sexual, as well.
Also, was far as religion goes: I still think it should be illegal to try and influence someone else above a certain age in their religious beliefs, or even use one's own religion-given moral standards as a basis for communication.
another thing about me is that i cannot stand the idiots i have to put up with at collage, it's gotten to the extent at which i left my work group to do an entire video project with just me and one other guy, we passed with a merit. a group of five people failed miserably. that is how stupid some people are.
To be honest, I'm pretty shameless. I don't go around blurting about everything I've tried, but if it comes up in conversation I actually think I haven't really got anything I try to hide.
Huh. Now I'm starting to wonder whether I'm emotionally stable or just plain nuts.
Huh. Now I'm starting to wonder whether I'm emotionally stable or just plain nuts.
Hm... don't think I have anything to share... my parents already know that I'm a yaoi-fan, nothing worse than that. The only concern that I have is that I might me a sociopath
Whenever I take my clothes fresh out of the dryer, I like to roll as many of them up in a ball as I can and hug them until the warmth goes away.
Despite being an atheist I still retain minor superstitions like saluting magpies or never letting a black cat cross my path out of mere habit more than belief.
I'm probably a hipster without realizing it, the definition is still too broad for me to really understand fully. If it turns out that I am one, then I won't care as you're just tacking a label onto things that I've done all my life anyway, so I'm not going to change who I am just because of that.
Despite being an atheist I still retain minor superstitions like saluting magpies or never letting a black cat cross my path out of mere habit more than belief.
I'm probably a hipster without realizing it, the definition is still too broad for me to really understand fully. If it turns out that I am one, then I won't care as you're just tacking a label onto things that I've done all my life anyway, so I'm not going to change who I am just because of that.
eh, never had anying to be in the closet about, not sure that my Ma would care as long as I was happy.
for instance being a nerd was never a problem, my mum has a signed copy of Lord of the rings my dad bought and got signed for her as a birthday present.
for instance being a nerd was never a problem, my mum has a signed copy of Lord of the rings my dad bought and got signed for her as a birthday present.
Whole lot of sexual stuff in this topic.
Plain old closet here, and not even the one with two different options. Just the usual closet. Locked, chained, reinforced, cemented and buried. Do not open or dismantle.
Plain old closet here, and not even the one with two different options. Just the usual closet. Locked, chained, reinforced, cemented and buried. Do not open or dismantle.
I'm a transsexual (transitioned in my early 20's). When people look at me they just see a frail nerdy girl with glasses as I keep my past quite hidden and no one knows (which is good cause I'm a teacher). I'm also atheist, but I don't care if people are religious as long as they don't preach hate. When I was younger, I used to get into debates with religious people, but I feel now it is better to work together to help fight bigotry no matter if someone draws their strength from science or religion. Umm not much else... I'm very depressed and actually struggle with severe social anxiety but I'm able to hide it well in my job.
Let's see, well the only thing I haven't told anyone about is that I prefer... bigger girls. And I don't mean tall.
One of my closest friends didn't know I wanted to join the army (and I didn't want him to because he's quite anti-military) but it managed to get out. We haven't really spoke about it since he brought it up and it hasn't gotten in the way of our friendship so I guess everything worked out.
My mum and my friends know that I'm communist and frankly nobody really cares. I care enough to vote for the Communist party (or I will once I'm old enough to vote and see if the Communist party in the UK matches up with what I want/ believe) and the ideals of communism is something I would certainly fight for but my friends and I aren't terribly political so it's not a huge factor in my life.
My friends know that I'm deist and I may have brought it up with my mum but I can't really remember. Religion doesn't play a huge part in my life either and it's not something that is brought up often.
So yeah, that's pretty much it. Nothing really exciting.
One of my closest friends didn't know I wanted to join the army (and I didn't want him to because he's quite anti-military) but it managed to get out. We haven't really spoke about it since he brought it up and it hasn't gotten in the way of our friendship so I guess everything worked out.
My mum and my friends know that I'm communist and frankly nobody really cares. I care enough to vote for the Communist party (or I will once I'm old enough to vote and see if the Communist party in the UK matches up with what I want/ believe) and the ideals of communism is something I would certainly fight for but my friends and I aren't terribly political so it's not a huge factor in my life.
My friends know that I'm deist and I may have brought it up with my mum but I can't really remember. Religion doesn't play a huge part in my life either and it's not something that is brought up often.
So yeah, that's pretty much it. Nothing really exciting.
How does one "dabble" in BDSM? I've been with a girl who was heavily into it, and it was OK (which, now that I think about it, is one of the many things I'm "in the closet" about) but it seemed like a very much all-or-nothing thing. You're doing it, or you 'aint, you can't really half-ass itQueen Michael said:
OT: I'm keeping more secrets (from real people, that is; you internet guys don't count ;-)) than I can keep track of. I try to keep as much as I can a secret from my family and friends out of teenage habit, I guess;
- Nobody except my therapist knows how much I actually drink on a daily basis, and how much it disturbs me.
- Being a liberal, all-men-are-equal type it really freaks me out that I can occasionally have knee-jerk racist thoughts. Not bringing that up anytime soon.
- I try to keep it quiet that I am terrified, all the time. I'm an agnostic, who if he were religious would probably be a deist, but (probably thanks to a Catholic upbringing) sometimes lies awake at night scared shitless that he's going to Hell. I sometimes get totally freaked out by noises in the night, especially when I'm in the flat alone. Walking past rudeboys on the street makes me tense up, and I try to avoid eye contact. Talking to strangers freaks me the fuck out, even if it's the cashier in a shop and I'm just buying some milk, because I feel like they're judging me and it scares me to imagine what they think of me. I hear planes coming into land, and my mind conflates the sound with that of falling bombs, and I irrationally wonder if I'm just about to die. I'm in pain a lot of the time, and I always wonder if there's something seriously wrong at every new ache, twinge or headache. Pretty much all the time, I'm scared of something. It amazes me that I'm even able to push this stuff out of my head for moments at a time, let alone function as a member of society
- Other stuff which I'm not even going to tell the internet anonymously. That shit goes to the grave with me, because everyone has some secrets they won't tell anyone.
Holy shitting crikey, that freaked me out. Eaten?! Dominated I get, but being eaten?conflictofinterests said:
Understand I'm not trying to knock you or your kinks - we've all got one or two - but I've been exposed to a lot of weird shit on this big ol' internet and that's one I've never run across before. How the hell did you even discover you were into that? And please don't tell me you popped a boner (or lady-boner, whatever) at that scene in Jurassic Park where the guy gets eaten on the toilet...
The other stuff I get (anime is shameful and wrong and you'll never convince me otherwise! ;-)), but why keep it secret that you want to go to Japan? Does your family really hate Japanese people, or something?soren7550 said:
I was dating a girl who was really into it, and we tried it a few times. Pretty fun. Heh. I was more kinky when I lost my virginity than my mom's entire sex-life combined.SonicWaffle said:How does one "dabble" in BDSM? I've been with a girl who was heavily into it, and it was OK (which, now that I think about it, is one of the many things I'm "in the closet" about) but it seemed like a very much all-or-nothing thing. You're doing it, or you 'aint, you can't really half-ass itQueen Michael said: