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two simple ones:
respect me and I respect you
don't lie to me/act differently just because you think I'll like it.
respect me and I respect you
don't lie to me/act differently just because you think I'll like it.
1. You like Twilight, that's fine, you're not a fangirl so it's fine. But I swear if you try to make me read it, I'll torch it.
2. I don't care if you play with my hair, but you cannot color or braid it...
I actually have no video-game rules to put here. Both me and my girlfriend are total nerds..For the sake of proof. Instead of watching the superbowl, me, her and some of my friends decided to play D&D for about 4 straight hours.
2. I don't care if you play with my hair, but you cannot color or braid it...
I actually have no video-game rules to put here. Both me and my girlfriend are total nerds..For the sake of proof. Instead of watching the superbowl, me, her and some of my friends decided to play D&D for about 4 straight hours.
1. don't expect me to read your mind, I'll do anything you want, but you have to ask it first
*2. don't make me choose between you and my friends, if I planned something with my friends, I'll gladly bring you, just don't complain if you planned something on your own and never told me about it beforehand
3. never ask me to stop playing video games
3.5. if you want me to stop for the time being to do something with you, it's fine, but never ask me to quit playing completely
4. if you threaten to leave me because you don't like animals, my friends, or my family, the door is right over there...
*5. be honest, don't beat around the bush if I ask you a question
*6. don't lie to me about something bothering you, I'll do the best I can to help you
7. don't ask me to stop watching anime
8. My normal voice sounds sarcastic. If I compliment you, I'm ALWAYS being sincere. Trust me, if I'm being sarcastic, you'll know.
9. don't assume that I'm watching anime just because of the women in it.
10. I'd take a bullet for you, don't do the same for me.
[small]* = I expect this to apply to the both of us[/small]
*2. don't make me choose between you and my friends, if I planned something with my friends, I'll gladly bring you, just don't complain if you planned something on your own and never told me about it beforehand
3. never ask me to stop playing video games
3.5. if you want me to stop for the time being to do something with you, it's fine, but never ask me to quit playing completely
4. if you threaten to leave me because you don't like animals, my friends, or my family, the door is right over there...
*5. be honest, don't beat around the bush if I ask you a question
*6. don't lie to me about something bothering you, I'll do the best I can to help you
7. don't ask me to stop watching anime
8. My normal voice sounds sarcastic. If I compliment you, I'm ALWAYS being sincere. Trust me, if I'm being sarcastic, you'll know.
9. don't assume that I'm watching anime just because of the women in it.
10. I'd take a bullet for you, don't do the same for me.
[small]* = I expect this to apply to the both of us[/small]
1. I will occasionally ramble incoherently about my Taekwondo. If something doesn't make sense by all means ask, and if I'm boring you I'm sorry. Also, Taekwondo just has to come first. If I'm dating you than I'm almost certainly very loyal, devoted, adjective, adjective, and adjective even to a fault, but TKD is just too big a part of my life, and has been as far back as I can remember. Not liking that I do it is the same as not liking me.
2. Most of my friends are assholes. I get that. But I'm still friends with them for a reason. You will usually take priority, but they will remain my friends. I would expect the same rule to apply the other way. I know that you won't like all of my friends, and I almost certainly won't like all of yours. That's something that will just have to be coped with.
3. Do not let problems fester. Seriously, if you have a major issue talk to me about it so that we can deal with it before it starts to do any serious damage.
4. I always mean every compliment, and you are the most beautiful, perfect girl in the world unless I say otherwise, which I won't.
2. Most of my friends are assholes. I get that. But I'm still friends with them for a reason. You will usually take priority, but they will remain my friends. I would expect the same rule to apply the other way. I know that you won't like all of my friends, and I almost certainly won't like all of yours. That's something that will just have to be coped with.
3. Do not let problems fester. Seriously, if you have a major issue talk to me about it so that we can deal with it before it starts to do any serious damage.
4. I always mean every compliment, and you are the most beautiful, perfect girl in the world unless I say otherwise, which I won't.
Rules:
-We'll go two-stepping whenever we can (Yes, we're from Texas)
-Jerry Jeff Walker is a God, don't diss him
-If we talk to our ex's let each other know
-Let us know what movies we want to see
-PLEASE let me know if you're afraid of flying (I'm a pilot and like flying)
-We'll go two-stepping whenever we can (Yes, we're from Texas)
-Jerry Jeff Walker is a God, don't diss him
-If we talk to our ex's let each other know
-Let us know what movies we want to see
-PLEASE let me know if you're afraid of flying (I'm a pilot and like flying)
You're only allowed to bite upon my request
You must be double jointed
You must get rid of that pesky gag reflex
Oh, and a nice personality...or whatever.
You must be double jointed
You must get rid of that pesky gag reflex
Oh, and a nice personality...or whatever.
Rules:
-GOTTA BE A NERD OR THIS JUST WONT WORK!
-Dont like Rap/Country or i will ***** slap you!
-Respect me and ill respect you.
-Sex is all good but should not be a recreational thing a healthy sex life is one where sex matters.
-Gotta have the just causes.. Like i get you a flower just cause or you get me something just cause.. Just cause i luv you, you know those things?
-Don't lie and put effort into the relationship.
-Don't abuse my overly nice personality i am not a steping stone to be walked all over..
-I will not pay for everything.. This is a relationship you have a job i have a job we can pay equal shares.. This isn't the 50s anymore..
-GOTTA BE A NERD OR THIS JUST WONT WORK!
-Dont like Rap/Country or i will ***** slap you!
-Respect me and ill respect you.
-Sex is all good but should not be a recreational thing a healthy sex life is one where sex matters.
-Gotta have the just causes.. Like i get you a flower just cause or you get me something just cause.. Just cause i luv you, you know those things?
-Don't lie and put effort into the relationship.
-Don't abuse my overly nice personality i am not a steping stone to be walked all over..
-I will not pay for everything.. This is a relationship you have a job i have a job we can pay equal shares.. This isn't the 50s anymore..
I'm a simple guy, all I'd like to see in a relationship, from both sides, is:
- Respect
- Honesty
- Effort
- No fucking spider jokes
Everyone's different, so while you might not share my Battlestar Galactica fanboyism, do respect it a bit will ya? Heck, it's those differences that make a relationship worthwhile. You can learn from each other, experience new things, discover new stuff to do. Sure there should be similarities, like I can't imagine myself being together with a girl who isn't even a bit nerdy, but differences make it interesting.
I also expect the both of us to be honest about each others feelings. If something, especially about our relationship, is bothering one of us, we should work it out together and not keep it for ourselves. That only damages the relationship in the long run.
And well, effort is a dead give-away. A relationship is a 2-way street and not something that stays on it's own. Effort is required to keep it going, and if we really want to we should do our best for our relationship. I know I can get a bit absorbed in Mass Effect 2, but it's nothing more than reasonable that you ask me to stop playing for a while and go out for diner or something. It's the other way around as well.
And yes, really, no joking around with spiders. Seriously, don't, it's where I draw the line humour-wise. Those damned things can give me a heart attack in the right (or wrong) situation, please refrain from scaring me like that.
As for the rest, it's all flexible and we'll work it out as we go along. If my other half would expect some other things as well, I'd be more than happy to look into it. That's part of the effort thing.
- Respect
- Honesty
- Effort
- No fucking spider jokes
Everyone's different, so while you might not share my Battlestar Galactica fanboyism, do respect it a bit will ya? Heck, it's those differences that make a relationship worthwhile. You can learn from each other, experience new things, discover new stuff to do. Sure there should be similarities, like I can't imagine myself being together with a girl who isn't even a bit nerdy, but differences make it interesting.
I also expect the both of us to be honest about each others feelings. If something, especially about our relationship, is bothering one of us, we should work it out together and not keep it for ourselves. That only damages the relationship in the long run.
And well, effort is a dead give-away. A relationship is a 2-way street and not something that stays on it's own. Effort is required to keep it going, and if we really want to we should do our best for our relationship. I know I can get a bit absorbed in Mass Effect 2, but it's nothing more than reasonable that you ask me to stop playing for a while and go out for diner or something. It's the other way around as well.
And yes, really, no joking around with spiders. Seriously, don't, it's where I draw the line humour-wise. Those damned things can give me a heart attack in the right (or wrong) situation, please refrain from scaring me like that.
As for the rest, it's all flexible and we'll work it out as we go along. If my other half would expect some other things as well, I'd be more than happy to look into it. That's part of the effort thing.
I think the 'no secrets' one is bullshit. It will most likely be some chick wanting to know all your passwords/contacts/friends numbers as a form of artificial trust. The fact that you can cope with not knowing some things about your partner's life is true trust!
My rules are:
1. When I'm in my room alone, KNOCK FIRST!
2. If you hit me thinking I can't hit you back, you are mistaken. Equality.
3. Do NOT EVER take the LAST FUCKING can of pop.
4. I am always player one, thats the way it is. I never play tails.
For any chicks browsing the escapists though, uh... my only rule is to private message me with your home address. Actually you don't have to be a member here, just email me at [email protected]
My rules are:
1. When I'm in my room alone, KNOCK FIRST!
2. If you hit me thinking I can't hit you back, you are mistaken. Equality.
3. Do NOT EVER take the LAST FUCKING can of pop.
4. I am always player one, thats the way it is. I never play tails.
For any chicks browsing the escapists though, uh... my only rule is to private message me with your home address. Actually you don't have to be a member here, just email me at [email protected]