It's a queer kid's biography, not a work of fiction. If the kid was old enough to experience it, then the other kids are old enough to read about it. You're really bad at reading nuance.
Anyway, I also recommend Boys Run the Riot. Would be a good fit for a queer reading list
Entirely depends on the experience and presentation of it then.
Saying "If a kid was old enough to experience it then the others kids are old enough to read about it" is a hell of a bad idea considering what kids can experience in this world and just how much of it and how it's presented you'd want others to read about. I mean schools don't have people coming in talking about the joys of smoking or how great their drug trips were. Yet I can tell you that some people I knew in school were very much on the drugs and did very much enjoy them.
So I hear you can get an online library card to check out books digitally. Kinda the crux of the current argument really. Why rely on somebody else's biased opinion when you can check out the book yourself?
Nah, I've said I'm fine with that being a thing.
I'm less fine with the idea of a teacher directing kids to said location with a specific list of books presented to them up front.
As for "Why not check it out yourself".
1) Not interested in the book personally
2) Not American so I can't use the free online library to check it out quickly.
3) I'm not paying out money just to win an internet argument vs people who also haven't read the book and are basic their claims on what they've heard / been told.
4) The Wikipedia article for Gender Queer (which I'm going to avoid linking to here because I know some-one will report it as linking to porn just out of spite because of one of the images on said page, nicely describes the content of the book with sources.
includes a handful of sexually explicit illustrations which have been used to argue that the book is inappropriate for schoolchildren.
In one commonly cited panel, a 14-year-old Kobabe fantasizes about a scene in which an older man touches the penis of a youth. The illustration is based on a piece of painted ancient Greek pottery depicting a "courting scene".[22][2] Detractors have described this as a depiction of pedophilia.[23][24]
Another illustration frequently cited by critics depicts Kobabe's girlfriend performing oral sex on em while e wears a strap-on dildo.[1][25][26] The book also includes depiction of masturbation.[22]
As for Lawn Boy
Evison, responding to the allegations, explained that the scene in the book "involves an adult man recalling a sexual encounter he had with another fourth-grader when he was in fourth grade."[8] According to the author of the book, after news began spreading about the challenge at the Texas school district, he started to receive death threats.