Well, that's just nonsenseOkay, but you're still going to have to explain to me precisely what the harm is of men wearing traditionally women's clothing reading books to children, or using gender neutral (well, non-binary) pronouns. Because I just don't really see it.
There are all sorts of ways of transgressing against societal norms might be bad, but they seem like remarkably weak choices.
What you described here isn't there to help society perpetuate, nor has it got a genetic basis nor does it help garner wealth
Forcing traditional pronouns or forcing men to wear pants is just propoganda that does not have any useful purpose and, if any, is destructive to soceity
Calling all this stuff a 'societal norm' is just propoganda, used by conservatives to force their will on others. It's got nothing to do with norms.
Tradition is just peer pressure from dead people. Find what is useful from the people before us that is actually useful and jettison the rest