SanitysRequiem said:
Well written article, it's casts quite the positive light on the subject that I've personally never heard or thought of before.
We live a in a post-victorian society where sex is still taboo. No gamer would want to admit to playing Kana Little Sister or 'Do You Like Horny Bunnies?'
It's gross and vilifying.
We don't want the label of the "lonely pathetic shut in who masturbates constantly to images of women who don't exist, afraid to engage in the real thing." To a degree this coincides with this article, it's the perfect archetype and personification of what we are and what we want out of romance. We want the feeling of commitment, playing to basic male instincts of wanting to be the one who passes his genes, proving superiority, and we want the feelings of having a beautiful girlfriend with this ideal, perfect circumstance that creates the relationship.
The H-Game has a story, be it romantic or rape-fantasy, to make it so you justify it in your own head and to make it feel real.. because you're not supposed to enjoy sex for sex, you need to either have a fetish or justification behind it.
Sexuality is complicated because people make it complicated, because we want it to be complicated. The problems occur when we as a society, the online/gamer/otaku/fanboy society starts to have weird double standards and stops being honest.
I might be a little jaded, but I personally don't think an h-game could ever possibly have a story that's...heart wrenching...I enjoy a great love story, some Russian classics, some shojou, all kinds...but every h-game I've ever 'played' is just little more than macho stereotype playing BS. The kinda thing a desperate suit wearing businessman would do with a hooker...sorry if that seems nasty, but I find it hard to believe that a game made to be sold based on cup size can have any real legitimate story that isn't either self-depricating or just silly tounge-in-cheek humor.
Please take a read on my earlier post.
Yep, I let my workmates know that i play these kinds of games, and demoed it to them on my laptop. The next day, they're like..
"Can i get a copy or something, or can i at least try playing it?"
And that's not just one person. Even a manager and two females. That's beacause they were properly informed.
As some people say.. there's a first time for everything. People tend to think of things they do not know well as "bad" or "no sense risking it" without even giving some thought for a second to get to know what it really is all about. After reading all that, i ask: Have you EVEN PLAYED the game in question?
And this game, Kana.. you can opt NOT to do 'it' with her in the game; you probably had your first as a really crappy or really extreme type of game.
The 'labeling' you are talking about is only an impression of people who do not know ANYTHING about the subject, being total noobs. People like me play these games NOT FOR THE EROTIC CONTENT (we may consider it a side dish of sorts), but FOR THE STORY. Let me ask: Has there ever been a Box Office movie about a brother with a terminally ill sister, with the brother willing to do anthing for her, even love her as a woman, in the same way she loves him since childhood? And holding it back so much to the point they both suffer emotional pain, only to find out she's adopted? (Sorry for the spoilers) I will certainly bet my top dollar that Hollywood dreamed or can only dream of pulling off such a thing.
Well, that is, unless Spielberg accidentally or somehow plays Kana Imouto.. and gets a license pronto to make a multimillion-dollar movie out of it. *LOL*
As i have said before, at least try playing this game. (If you want, i can help you acquire it by my methods, since this game is said to be out of print, but still available for purchase online) And unless you don't have any capability of felling emotional or lack imagination, i can definitely say you WILL take back what you have said about an H-game unable to make you cry you heart out, or at least shed a tear. I did. Many times, in fact.
And I NEVER regret it at all. I don't regret the other fact that these games take some hard disk space; they are so worth it. (typically in the less than 450 MB to 1.5 GB range)
I do play normal games; games where elite micro skills count a lot, where speed, timing and accuracy is a must, and the only thing that matters is winning and 'owning' your opponent. (something like, i'll have your base in 5 minutes, maybe even less.. "no rush" is for noobs)
The visual novel genre is a different ballpark than these, but they give a sense of accomplishment that you may not have thought possible. Sure, you can nuke the hell out of your opponent in Generals Zero Hour, but getting all the choices right to get the best ending/s in Yume Miru Kusuri or Kana is much more rewarding than getting a double kill in Halo 3 with supersonic flying traffic cones. (Yes, it happens, beacause i was a victim of those cones once. Just look it up on Youtube.)
Sorry for repeating myself, but remeber that these are works of FICTION. Yes, they are'nt real; but they are something that can teach us valuable lessons in real life - lessons that no first-person shooter or arcade game can give, and just maybe, can help us appreciate life and other people more. After all is said, read & done, and the ending credits roll, it is left to you, the player, to decide what to do about what you have seen and learnt.
And, besides, you have to be 18+, or at least, have the right state of mind, to really play these games, learn about what happens in the story, and understand WHY.
Stats (H-Game division)
Pia Carrot 3: 97.5% unlocked CGs (1 Day, 4 hours 12 minutes total)
Yume Miru Kusuri: 100% unlocked (6 hours, 35 minutes total)
Kana Imouto & Kana Okaeri (Japanese Remake): 100% Unlocked CGs, 5/6 Endings Unlocked (1 day, 15 hours, 27 minutes total)
Notes: None of this time is considered wasted!
There's another two cents.. i hope you enjoy.