This was an interesting article I missed the first time around, so I'm actually glad it was posted again for me to see.
However, while I feel it was interesting, I don't actually feel it was completely accurate. Or, rather, it sort of feels like the author was digging a bit too hard to find meaning in the scenes he used as examples. You can take ANY scene from ANY game and sit down and pick at it and probably find something that you could apply some sort of psychological subtext to. As far as Grand Theft Auto goes, I am a lady, and I have never been offended by any of the content in it; GTA 4 is still one of my favourite games. Anyway, isn't the whole point of that series that it's cartoonishly overblown in EVERY aspect? So much of it is done DELIBERATELY to offend/excite interest that I can't see getting worked up about it or taking any hidden meaning from it.
Also, as far as gaming journalism goes, well, I guess it depends on what part of gaming culture you look at. It seems like the indie scene has a lot more females active in the media aspect than the "professional" scene. IE, I (a lady!) write for an online indie gaming review source, and we have several other women on staff currently, and have had others come and go. Don't see many female names cropping up over at IGN or in the credits in most gaming magazines, but I don't think there's a hidden agenda to it. We're out there. Just apparently not where you're looking.
Actually, the most personally offensive game I've come across is actually the indie title The Path by Tale of Tales. The whole point of that game is to wander around the woods as young women of varying ages until something terrible happens to them (usually implied rape/death) and then to watch them stagger slowly and brokenly along the walkway to Grandma's House, whereupon you get treated to an artsy sequence of random imagery before you do it all over again with another little girl. For me that's a hundred times worse than Nico Bellic being bored by the vapid female characters in GTA just so he can get them into bed. I can usually look at anything and say, "Well, I don't get it, but someone must like it," but I literally do not see how anyone can play that game and see it for anything but the most pointless sort of torture porn pretending to be an art game.
On the subject of GTA, though, I was thinking recently that I would like to see a female protagonist in one of the games. Not for gender balance issues, but because it would probably silence a lot of the "ROCKSTAR HATES WOMEN" clamour if the next game featured a female playable character as over-the-top violent as Tommy Vercetti, or battered psychologically as Nico Bellic. I'd like to see what sort of female lead they'd give us, and I'd hope they wouldn't tone the world down for her. Of course, if it never happens, meh.