Matt Meyers said:
The Fallacy of the Fanboy
When a fanboy enters any conversation about videogames, all relevance and meaningful discourse stops. Matt Meyers posits that we should all stop acting like fanboys when we are trolled by Jack Thompson or Roger Ebert.
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Everything you said is right. But even so, I have a bit of a bone to pick with you.
And it is this: why the hell do I have to defend my hobby to obnoxious busy-bodies who have nothing better to do than declare it evil? Sure, that's the reality we live in, and sure, we have to do something to keep state governments from ordering all copies of GTA burned. But intellectually speaking, I do not feel like it is suddenly my responsibility to become a well-spoken pro-gaming crusader who has to fly around the Internet proving how adorable and snuggly I really am.
We have a long-standing social problem here, which is that people in a free society should not be flying off the handle and trying to ban everything they don't appreciate because it offends their God or personal sense of moral or social righteousness. America has been a country with (more or less) unlimited free speech for 250 years now, and yet for some reason we still have great gobs of people who think their mission is to force us all to conform to their privately held vision of utopia.
THEY ARE THE ONES WITH THE PROBLEM, AND THE LAW HAS REPEATEDLY UPHELD THIS. The only way gamers can adequately defend themselves from anti-game laws is with pro-gamer and simply anti-anti-media lawyers who are trained to do so. The idea that gamers being less fanboyish will somehow stop the anti-game crusaders is probably true over a very long span of time, but here and now, being nicer isn't going to fix anything. That's because people who hate games don't hate the games because of the gamers or even the games themselves - they hate EVERYTHING that detracts from what they've decided people or society "must needs" be doing.
Now of course, everyone being nicer to and more understanding of everyone can only make social interactions a bit nicer. And it's not like you were suggesting we go out of our way to be extra-super-nice or something. But I still feel like you're obligating us to go on an offensive we should not have to go on.
Like you say in the article, gamers are everywhere, yet we're still being thought of by some people as a lunatic minority. Like you also say, the people who think this are on the wrong side of history. I say, let's defend ourselves legally as long as we have to until the Anti-stuff people move on, and otherwise, go about our daily business.
Fanboys will never go away, and the people with an anti-game axe to grind will never stop citing fanboy behavior as the reason games are evil. I'm not going to make an extra effort to be nice to people who despise me for doing something that jerks they've heard of also happen to do. Nobody owes anybody that.
Of course, I'm more or less a nice guy anyway, so...