I have 2 big problems with fanboys.
The first is that they are doing everything they can to get gaming accepted as an artform long before it should be. Not necessarily because there arn't any games that could be considered as art, but because of the speed the public concousness works. If you look at film, the 1st moving pictures were taken in the 1890s, but it wasn't really accepted generally for at least 40 years until the 30's and it took even longer for it to be accepted as an art. Even then, there were still people against certain areas (specifically the more graphic) right up until the 80s. Gaming started off in the late 70's with it really hitting the public conciousness in the 80's. If you complare it with film, games are still trying to get socially accepted (give it 10 years) while at the same time fighting the censorship and decency battles film didn't have to face until it was established.
My second problem is (and I'm gonna get so much crap for this) is that the people who argue on the side of games are adults arguing for the defence of a childhood hobby they don't want to give up. The best analogy I can come up with are adults who build things out of Lego. While I accept that the things some people make out of Lego are fantastic, it doesn't distract from the fact that they are still essentially playing with a childrens toy and if someone came up to you are agrgued that Lego isn't a toy but an art, the majority of gamers would probably think they're nuts. However, this is how the mainstream sees adult gamers. We picked up a hobby when were kids and now we're adults, we are demanding people take what we do seriously. Remember, the public don't see any diffeence between Mario, Civilisation and Modern Warfare 2. They are all seen as things played primarily by Children and Teenagers and any adult who also plays them is sad because they can't let go of their childhood.
What Fanboys and Gamers need is patience. Personally, I have no problem admitting I'm a gamer and that I have a damn sight more fun playing "Kids" games like Pokemon or Mario then I do playing the more "Adult" games like CoD. Eventually gaming will be accepted by public conciousness like film was and will almost certainly be seen as an artform in time, but it's not going to happen overnight.