A question for the Ladies

[Sacman]

Change your glasses and grow out your hair believe me it helps more than you might think... not to be mean but lose some weight too that always helps... I lost 60LBs this year so far. Don't believe what the doctors say if you want to lose weight just climb a mountain several times I did it...

 

[darktau21]

First things first. Go get those moles taken care of. As soon as I saw your pic that was the only thing I could see.
Go see your doctor and just get liquid nitrogen on them. Sure it hurts a tiny bit and they will be big ass blisters for about a week but they will then either disappear totally or will at least shrink and lose the dark brown. They will become just a basic skin colour and be much, much, much less noticeable.
Also, depilatory cream for the monobrow.
Once you get those taken care of then yeah, you are still a little over weight so that will hurt with the ladies but fukkit.

Get the moles taken care of and lose the monobrow and you will seriously improve your chances.

i do shave it but my electric razor broke and i'm trying to get the money for a new one.

 

[RAMBO22]

Asking that kind of question here is more inappropriate than going to Sudan with a dress made entirely out of food.

Sir,that is one of the most amazing similes I have ever read.

Yea Darktau21, this website is definitely not the best place to meet ladies, but you're now so it's k man, just a note for the future.

 

[ShunningMonkey]

Haha, I generally hide on XBL and just don't talk into my headset... I have a voice that is just a touch too deep for a woman, so people tend to think I'm a 15 year old boy... That's the only time I shut up. As for the rest of us? Honestly, I couldn't tell you. If I did, you'd instantly become a woman and an all-access pass would appear in your purse. But we wouldn't want that, now would we?

This is why most of us don't tell them we exist. Sorry, Twinkie.

Also, @OP: The second photo is MUCH better. ... actually, you look like a guy I used to date.

LMAO, that is very true. It got so bad for a while on XBL that every time I opened my mouth, I got booted. 7 games in a row, the second I said something, I was booted, despite kicking the snot out of the enemy team, and I was done. I don't even play with randoms anymore... It's sad how even though we can rip our male counterparts a new one, thanks to our cold, calculating, black-widowesque nature, we still can't be "one of the guys". I'm thankful for men who refuse to see me as a woman (other than my boyfriend for obvious reason), because it gives me someone to play with. I would think that FragDolls and GamerChix would have earned us a little respect, no? We're 1/3rd of the entire gaming populous...

 

[darktau21]

you're looking for women on the escapist? good luck pal, you'll need it.

Hello there.

i have a serious question for you ladies.
i'm 21 years old and i have never had a girlfriend.
i'm very socially active and i ask girls out.
but to no avail. so i need to ask if i'm attractive or not.
i really don't want anyone being jerks i need an honest opinion.
i ask my friends but i don't know if they're just being nice.

this pick is about 4-5 months old.
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs045.snc4/34590_1541745426490_1320598066_31541955_4389477_n.jpg

I'm demisexual, attractiveness means nothing to me so I can't answer accuratly..
I say you should get more attractive glasses though, try getting something for the spots and maybe try growing your hair long.

i took this picture with my camera like 5 min ago
http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn208/darktau21/P8280037.jpg

Yeah, you look much better in this picture than you did in the previous one. Longer hair, different glasses, and most importantly, natural light. Seriously, lighting can do wonders for a person.

You could still stand to lose a few pounds, and get into slightly better shape, but other than that, I'd say you're decent enough looking that getting a date shouldn't be the struggle that you're finding it to be.

well i have been working out and I've been losing a lot of weight. i used to be very fat and i've lost most of the fat. i went from being severally overweight to the fact that you can see my leg muscles and there's like only a inch of belly fat left.
the down side is that face fat is the hardest thing to get rid of.

if anyone knows a way to speed to the lose of face fat please speak up

 

[archvile93]

you're looking for women on the escapist? good luck pal, you'll need it.

Hello there.

i have a serious question for you ladies.
i'm 21 years old and i have never had a girlfriend.
i'm very socially active and i ask girls out.
but to no avail. so i need to ask if i'm attractive or not.
i really don't want anyone being jerks i need an honest opinion.
i ask my friends but i don't know if they're just being nice.

this pick is about 4-5 months old.
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs045.snc4/34590_1541745426490_1320598066_31541955_4389477_n.jpg

I'm demisexual, attractiveness means nothing to me so I can't answer accuratly..
I say you should get more attractive glasses though, try getting something for the spots and maybe try growing your hair long.

Is that the same as homosexual? I'm not judging, I'm just curious since I've never heard that term before.

 

[darktau21]

you're looking for women on the escapist? good luck pal, you'll need it.

Hello there.

i have a serious question for you ladies.
i'm 21 years old and i have never had a girlfriend.
i'm very socially active and i ask girls out.
but to no avail. so i need to ask if i'm attractive or not.
i really don't want anyone being jerks i need an honest opinion.
i ask my friends but i don't know if they're just being nice.

this pick is about 4-5 months old.
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs045.snc4/34590_1541745426490_1320598066_31541955_4389477_n.jpg

I'm demisexual, attractiveness means nothing to me so I can't answer accuratly..
I say you should get more attractive glasses though, try getting something for the spots and maybe try growing your hair long.

Is that the same as homosexual? I'm not judging, I'm just curious since I've never heard that term before.

no it means that you don't care about looks but instead the persons emotions (the sex does not matter sometimes)

 

[archvile93]

you're looking for women on the escapist? good luck pal, you'll need it.

Hello there.

i have a serious question for you ladies.
i'm 21 years old and i have never had a girlfriend.
i'm very socially active and i ask girls out.
but to no avail. so i need to ask if i'm attractive or not.
i really don't want anyone being jerks i need an honest opinion.
i ask my friends but i don't know if they're just being nice.

this pick is about 4-5 months old.
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs045.snc4/34590_1541745426490_1320598066_31541955_4389477_n.jpg

I'm demisexual, attractiveness means nothing to me so I can't answer accuratly..
I say you should get more attractive glasses though, try getting something for the spots and maybe try growing your hair long.

Is that the same as homosexual? I'm not judging, I'm just curious since I've never heard that term before.

no it means that you don't care about looks but instead who the person is

I'm surprised there's a term for that; it seems pretty standard.

 

[Flying-Emu]

Grow the hair, maybe into a standard hipster cut. I know it sucks, but I think it'd look good on you.

Cardio might be a good thing to work on.

Other than that, I recommend finding colors that match your skin tone and blah blah.

Sorry, that's all the advice I can muster. I only let Federico (my gay side) out for a few minutes at a time.

that's kinda hard because my hair grows into an afro.

Salon-quality hair products can do wonders. My hair does the same thing, but I've tamed it into a shoulder-length layered cut that makes me look (in my humble opinion) rather fucking sexy.

Go talk to a stylist, and see what they think. They usually give advice for free, since they LOOOOVE talking.

 

[Sacman]

Grow the hair, maybe into a standard hipster cut. I know it sucks, but I think it'd look good on you.

Cardio might be a good thing to work on.

Other than that, I recommend finding colors that match your skin tone and blah blah.

Sorry, that's all the advice I can muster. I only let Federico (my gay side) out for a few minutes at a time.

that's kinda hard because my hair grows into an afro.

don't grow your hair otherwise youll turn into a sandal, short shorts wearing hippie. long hair = bad. keep it clean cut. the last thing you need is a assumption you care for the earth and the trees. that kind of guy only attracts the worst kind of women. here's a tip, clear up your acne and make yourself look thinner. i am heavy as hell but i look skinny, try doing that. then again i am in the same boat as you.

I have long hair, I don't care about the environment, and I have a girlfriend...Personally I think really short hair makes you look creepy...

Spoiler

Myspace angle FTW!!!

 

[Keepitclean]

Asking that kind of question here is more inappropriate than going to Sudan with a dress made entirely out of food.

Agreed.
Is the OP by any chance this guy?
http://www.facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=992894

 

[Nex Vesica]

I didn't look at your pics, but I don't need to as I'm guessing this is really just a personality issue. That's not to say that you shouldn't strive to look physically appealing and it will certainly help in the end but if you're looking for an actual relationship then you need more then just good looks. If you're just looking to get laid though then eh...looks are like 90% of what you need.

Anywho it may sound cliche but you need to be confident in yourself before you can keep a girl. Posting on the escapist of all places doesn't suggest you have that and no offense intended comes off as desperate and sad. I know some people suggest trying a pity angle but I've always called BS on that.

The only other advice I can give is don't try too hard. I used to lean more on the desperate side myself and basically try to pursue any female that crossed my path. A few months after I stopped looking is when I actually got into my first relationship. Just be casual and relaxed at first then ask them out. You just need to be careful that you don't let this go on for too long otherwise you end up in the friendship zone which complicates things. I'd say just like three or four "not dates" before you try pushing it further. Lets you start to get to know them better then just an initial meeting and gives a good idea of whether or not you have chemistry.

Jumping back to the physical aspect for just a moment...clothing attire plays a role too though that's an area that I can't give advice on over the internet as it varies from person to person. If in doubt, just ask a female friend/sister/someone else who can give you some good wardrobe advice.

 

[Sacman]

Grow the hair, maybe into a standard hipster cut. I know it sucks, but I think it'd look good on you.

Cardio might be a good thing to work on.

Other than that, I recommend finding colors that match your skin tone and blah blah.

Sorry, that's all the advice I can muster. I only let Federico (my gay side) out for a few minutes at a time.

that's kinda hard because my hair grows into an afro.

don't grow your hair otherwise youll turn into a sandal, short shorts wearing hippie. long hair = bad. keep it clean cut. the last thing you need is a assumption you care for the earth and the trees. that kind of guy only attracts the worst kind of women. here's a tip, clear up your acne and make yourself look thinner. i am heavy as hell but i look skinny, try doing that. then again i am in the same boat as you.

I have long hair, I don't care about the environment, and I have a girlfriend...Personally I think really short hair makes you look creepy...

Spoiler

*hurls at picture*

jesus christ, and you think i look creepy?

that's an old picture my hair is longer now... and I remember you posting somewhere else that you haven't had a GF... if I remember correctly...

 

[SimuLord]

I'm not a girl, but here's a little advice:

1) The only dudes who have a right to carry your kind of weight have white beards and red suits and say "ho" more often than Snoop Dogg.

2) See a dermatologist about those moles unless you want to be repeatedly hit in the face with a mallet by confused carnival-goers.

3) That said (and I'm just bustin' your ass, really), do you have anything to offer women conversation-wise? I have found in my travels that making women laugh or making them think can do wonders for a man's attractiveness no matter what he looks like. If all else fails, add cute animal.

 

[dohteM]

Asking that kind of question here is more inappropriate than going to Sudan with a dress made entirely out of food.

Agreed.
Is the OP by any chance this guy?
http://www.facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=992894

I wouldn't wanna be that guy, in fact I wouldn't want to be a friend of that guy. I rather staple my ears to horse than commune with.. it.

 

[kidragakash]

Well you lok to be a nice guy.

I would suggest finding a more flattering pair of frames.. those ones just seem the wrong shape for you. I would also suggest a differant hair style (perhaps a tad longer?)

Weight wise, i am not a judging person, but it may help your health, if nothing else.

Just be yourself ,and the right one will come along. Don't get hung up on the destination, enjoy the journey. You can be happy without a partner

 

[Sacman]

Grow the hair, maybe into a standard hipster cut. I know it sucks, but I think it'd look good on you.

Cardio might be a good thing to work on.

Other than that, I recommend finding colors that match your skin tone and blah blah.

Sorry, that's all the advice I can muster. I only let Federico (my gay side) out for a few minutes at a time.

that's kinda hard because my hair grows into an afro.

don't grow your hair otherwise youll turn into a sandal, short shorts wearing hippie. long hair = bad. keep it clean cut. the last thing you need is a assumption you care for the earth and the trees. that kind of guy only attracts the worst kind of women. here's a tip, clear up your acne and make yourself look thinner. i am heavy as hell but i look skinny, try doing that. then again i am in the same boat as you.

I have long hair, I don't care about the environment, and I have a girlfriend...Personally I think really short hair makes you look creepy...

Spoiler

*hurls at picture*

jesus christ, and you think i look creepy?

that's an old picture my hair is longer now... and I remember you posting somewhere else that you haven't had a GF... if I remember correctly...

yea but my problem isn't because of me. i don't talk to many people. the way things are right now doesn't allow it.

Yeah I don't talk to many people either, excluding close friends, but I guess that explains why I'm dating my cousin... but it's not like I haven't had a GF before...

Spoiler: short hair pics...

 

[Sacman]

Grow the hair, maybe into a standard hipster cut. I know it sucks, but I think it'd look good on you.

Cardio might be a good thing to work on.

Other than that, I recommend finding colors that match your skin tone and blah blah.

Sorry, that's all the advice I can muster. I only let Federico (my gay side) out for a few minutes at a time.

that's kinda hard because my hair grows into an afro.

don't grow your hair otherwise youll turn into a sandal, short shorts wearing hippie. long hair = bad. keep it clean cut. the last thing you need is a assumption you care for the earth and the trees. that kind of guy only attracts the worst kind of women. here's a tip, clear up your acne and make yourself look thinner. i am heavy as hell but i look skinny, try doing that. then again i am in the same boat as you.

I have long hair, I don't care about the environment, and I have a girlfriend...Personally I think really short hair makes you look creepy...

Spoiler

Myspace angle FTW!!!

You totally look like a guy who would be vegan and think that every animal is sacred.

I'm not saying that's what you are, but that's totally what you look like to me.

Do you play an acoustic guitar by any chance, because that would totally seal the image.

actually I do play guitar but the last band I was in was a Nirvana tribute band so I was playing stuff like this...
though I do play some classical mostly stuff I think sounds nice and so I can get away with waring a suit while I play...

 

[Sacman]

Grow the hair, maybe into a standard hipster cut. I know it sucks, but I think it'd look good on you.

Cardio might be a good thing to work on.

Other than that, I recommend finding colors that match your skin tone and blah blah.

Sorry, that's all the advice I can muster. I only let Federico (my gay side) out for a few minutes at a time.

that's kinda hard because my hair grows into an afro.

don't grow your hair otherwise youll turn into a sandal, short shorts wearing hippie. long hair = bad. keep it clean cut. the last thing you need is a assumption you care for the earth and the trees. that kind of guy only attracts the worst kind of women. here's a tip, clear up your acne and make yourself look thinner. i am heavy as hell but i look skinny, try doing that. then again i am in the same boat as you.

I have long hair, I don't care about the environment, and I have a girlfriend...Personally I think really short hair makes you look creepy...

Spoiler

*hurls at picture*

jesus christ, and you think i look creepy?

that's an old picture my hair is longer now... and I remember you posting somewhere else that you haven't had a GF... if I remember correctly...

yea but my problem isn't because of me. i don't talk to many people. the way things are right now doesn't allow it.

Yeah I don't talk to many people either, excluding close friends, but I guess that explains why I'm dating my cousin... but it's not like I haven't had a GF before...

Spoiler: short hair pics...

You're dating your cousin? That's sad and disturbing. You've done a bad thing and you should feel bad, and you have no right to criticize anyone else about anything in their life.

seriously it's that big of a deal? were like 5th cousins but I just refer to her as such cause I think it's kind of hot like a forbidden love type of thing...

 

[Sacman]

Grow the hair, maybe into a standard hipster cut. I know it sucks, but I think it'd look good on you.

Cardio might be a good thing to work on.

Other than that, I recommend finding colors that match your skin tone and blah blah.

Sorry, that's all the advice I can muster. I only let Federico (my gay side) out for a few minutes at a time.

that's kinda hard because my hair grows into an afro.

don't grow your hair otherwise youll turn into a sandal, short shorts wearing hippie. long hair = bad. keep it clean cut. the last thing you need is a assumption you care for the earth and the trees. that kind of guy only attracts the worst kind of women. here's a tip, clear up your acne and make yourself look thinner. i am heavy as hell but i look skinny, try doing that. then again i am in the same boat as you.

I have long hair, I don't care about the environment, and I have a girlfriend...Personally I think really short hair makes you look creepy...

Spoiler

*hurls at picture*

jesus christ, and you think i look creepy?

that's an old picture my hair is longer now... and I remember you posting somewhere else that you haven't had a GF... if I remember correctly...

yea but my problem isn't because of me. i don't talk to many people. the way things are right now doesn't allow it.

yes, yes you placed your disapproval on my last 2 threads about the subject...