A question for the Ladies

[Bruin]

You can be healthy without being physically fit you know.

Not really. Health comes with physical fitness, not the other way around. Physically fit as in; you're not over/underweight and you don't have any serious ailments.

well i have been working out and I've been losing a lot of weight. i used to be very fat and i've lost most of the fat. i went from being severally overweight to the fact that you can see my leg muscles and there's like only a inch of belly fat left.
the down side is that face fat is the hardest thing to get rid of.

if anyone knows a way to speed to the lose of face fat please speak up

Face fat is probably the easiest thing to lose, I've found. I lost 32 lbs in the last five months or so and the thing people noticed the most was that I looked thinner in the face. Your face is also one of the first areas you'll show when you're gaining weight, along with your thighs and stomach.

My advice: Get the moles zapped. Lose enough weight until you can look in the mirror and not say "I don't like how I look,". Get contacts or different glasses.

Women in general look for two things in a guy though: intelligence and kindness. Even the biggest meathead probably won't get any girlfriend to stay with him past a month.

Personality has headed out against physical attributes in the mating game these days, but not by much. Women look for strong chins, defined jaw, high cheek bones and symmetry in the face as well. Symmetry is generally the most important of these. That's why the moles should be the first thing to get rid of. Get clothes that actually look good as well. Another factor women look for is status--your social status amongst others, to be exact. Nice-looking clothes and appearance goes a long way towards this.

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

I don't mean to be mean, but you could lose a little bit of weight. Not nescesarily much, but maybe a little bit. And maybe some more stylish glasses.

 

[zombiejoe]

I'm not a lady, but I guess your alright.

If you wanna get more lady oppinions, go to Deviant Art. THAT'S WHERE THE WOMEN HIDE!

 

[Bruin]

Really? This thread has de-railed into attacking various people based on who they choose to go into a relationship with? 'Kay..

OT: I've seen fairly attractive girls go out with far worse looking guys. That's a subjective opinion of course. I would say consider losing weight. You don't have to look like Jason Statham, but from a health point of view it's fairly beneficial too. I'm not a woman though, so my advice and opinions are limited.

The majority of posts here have started with "I don't mean to be mean, but...", so wherein do you see people "attacking various people"?

 

[AlphaLion]

i think i'll just leave this here,

http://www.paragonproject.com/

Enjoy ;D

EDIT: Girl you suck, i was unaware of demisexual so i thought it was something kinky or new. I now demand that some new form of sexuality be developed for demisexual.

 

[Outright Villainy]

Really? This thread has de-railed into attacking various people based on who they choose to go into a relationship with? 'Kay..

OT: I've seen fairly attractive girls go out with far worse looking guys. That's a subjective opinion of course. I would say consider losing weight. You don't have to look like Jason Statham, but from a health point of view it's fairly beneficial too. I'm not a woman though, so my advice and opinions are limited.

The majority of posts here have started with "I don't mean to be mean, but...", so wherein do you see people "attacking various people"?

Not on the Op, but the ones going on about sacman dating his (non blood related) cousin.

Ot: To the Op, you know this already, but really the main thing that needs saying is to get more in shape. Less weight makes a huge difference in appearance.

 

[Bruin]

Really? This thread has de-railed into attacking various people based on who they choose to go into a relationship with? 'Kay..

OT: I've seen fairly attractive girls go out with far worse looking guys. That's a subjective opinion of course. I would say consider losing weight. You don't have to look like Jason Statham, but from a health point of view it's fairly beneficial too. I'm not a woman though, so my advice and opinions are limited.

The majority of posts here have started with "I don't mean to be mean, but...", so wherein do you see people "attacking various people"?

Not on the Op, but the ones going on about sacman dating his (non blood related) cousin.

Ot: To the Op, you know this already, but really the main thing that needs saying is to get more in shape. Less weight makes a huge difference in appearance.

Ah.

That's pretty creepy, I find. I wouldn't have said I was dating my cousin in the first place, especially on an internet forum. Like putting a Tesla coil in the middle of an Amish farm and expecting a warm reception.

 

[Bruin]

Ah.

That's pretty creepy, I find. I wouldn't have said I was dating my cousin in the first place, especially on an internet forum. Like putting a Tesla coil in the middle of an Amish farm and expecting a warm reception.

I'm neither condoning nor condemning, but the way people are reacting to the whole thing on this thread is frankly, fucking childish.

The forums are made up mostly of children, I almost expect nothing less of childishness and immaturity from them.

 

[Outright Villainy]

Ah.

That's pretty creepy, I find. I wouldn't have said I was dating my cousin in the first place, especially on an internet forum. Like putting a Tesla coil in the middle of an Amish farm and expecting a warm reception.

I'm neither condoning nor condemning, but the way people are reacting to the whole thing on this thread is frankly, fucking childish.

Agreed. Live and let live and all that.
[small]I wonder why he keeps bringing it up though, when he knows what kind of reaction it gets. He usually doesn't even mention they're not blood related until confronted either. He's not doing himself any favours.[/small]

 

[Bruin]

Ah.

That's pretty creepy, I find. I wouldn't have said I was dating my cousin in the first place, especially on an internet forum. Like putting a Tesla coil in the middle of an Amish farm and expecting a warm reception.

I'm neither condoning nor condemning, but the way people are reacting to the whole thing on this thread is frankly, fucking childish.

Agreed. Live and let live and all that.
[small]I wonder why he keeps bringing it up though, when he knows what kind of reaction it gets. He usually doesn't even mention they're not blood related until confronted either. He's not doing himself any favours.[/small]

I have a few theories...

 

[Sharky200]

many people go for looks others do not. It all depends on what you are aiming for. I'm not a very attractive person I suppose. But I find that having a nice personality and having interesting things to talk about will get you somewhere.

That said.. I have found that I found nothing when I looked and was found when I was not. You have a better chance if you try people who like the things you like than picking a random good looking girl who has nothing in common with you .

 

[penthesilea180]

You have a better chance if you try people who like the things you like than picking a random good looking girl who has nothing in common with you .

This.

Make sure you are asking girls out who share your interests. If you have nothing to say to her when you're just hanging out, going on a date will be uncomfortable for both of you.

Also, make sure you don't push too hard just to get a girlfriend. My current boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now, but we knew each other over a year before we ever started going out. Not saying that you do this, but dating just to date is not the answer.

 

[fgdfgdgd]

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Hello there.

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I'm demisexual, attractiveness means nothing to me so I can't answer accuratly..
I say you should get more attractive glasses though, try getting something for the spots and maybe try growing your hair long.

Not going to lie, Teddy, your picture scares me, i got that look from a girl i knew in school...just before she tried to stab me with a nail file.

 

[FlyAwayAutumn]

Unless you've asked out every last girl in your area one of them is bound to like you. Each girl has a different opinion on who they like and how they'd like their guy to look so just keep looking until you find a girl who digs you.

Also not to be mean or anything but you should probably lose some weight.

That is all.

 

[Jasper Jeffs]

You totally look like a guy who would be vegan and think that every animal is sacred.

I'm not saying that's what you are, but that's totally what you look like to me.

Do you play an acoustic guitar by any chance, because that would totally seal the image.

Holy fucking Christ. I pissed myself, I love you.