red the fister said:
your narrow minded view of the world reeks of someone with virtually no experience with alcohol.
i've drank my bank account dry.
i've drank to escape feelings.
i've gotten absolutely bat-shit pants-on-head retarded because that was my plan when i walked into the bar.
when the good tasting drinks got to expensive i switched to cheaper beer.
on the average drinking night, which happens 2 or 3 nights a week (rarely more) i consume no more than 4 beers and no fewer than 2.
responsibility comes with maturity and you have to survive being irresponsible and immature to get here.
i challenge you, go to your local bar during happy hour, have a beer, make friends, broaden your world.
There's this thing called limits. Adults know them and they don't pass them.
If you have to drive you
limit yourself to a single glass at the start of the evening, because you know that if you drink more you could cause an accident.
If you're in a committed relationship you
limit yourself to get only slightly drunk, because you know that if you drink more you could ruin your relationship by cheating.
If you're out alone you
limit yourself to not getting totally hammered, because you know that if you drink more you won't be able to get home and can get into all kinds of serious trouble.
If you're out with friends able to take care of you you
limit yourself to getting totally hammered, because you know that if you drink more you'll get alcohol poisoning and get hospitalized.
An healthy adult knows his/her limits. That means that in a committed relationship, as the girl was, you don't get as drunk as she was.
Being irresponsible and immature is fine in and of itself, but it does make you unfit for a serious relationship (as say living together, as the girl in question was). It means you need a parent and not a serious partner.
She should dump her, because her girlfriend is clearly immature and irresponsible and thus not ready for a relationship as serious as living together after having been together for 4 years.