intheweeds said:
Atheist. said:
intheweeds said:
EverythingIncredible said:
Situation described in this thread: OMG rape
Situation described in this thread if the genders were reversed: lol awesome
See that's the thing, I know how women feel about this. The situation would never be reversed.
Women don't have the same parts and/or responsibility shirking abilities as men either.
I'm just going to say this is one of the most sexist statements I've seen on this entire thread. Not only are you generalizing an entire sex, which makes up around half of the human population, but you claim to know the opinions of the other half.
I'm not trying to be a jerk, trust me, but you need a reality check. People are all different. Being sexist is the same mindset as being racist. It's like you're saying all (insert race here) are rapists, or dirty mongrels.
The situation does and has been reversed, it just gets less media attention. I'll stop here, because your ignorance and blatant sexism is upsetting.
It's also the most misunderstood. I apologize for that. I really wish i had been clearer. I was speaking specifically of the biological fact that a man has a penis and the differences between them. A lot of women think you have a responsibility that comes with that. That's all. I'm not trying to be sexist.
I'm not trying to say anything about all men, but look up and you will see some pretty disgusting and vulgar things written by a puppet account about women and lesbians. If some men act like that, I have every right in the world to be wary of the sexual advances of any of them. I would be stupid not too. You will also find if you read this whole thread that although different men have differing opinions, there are a few general things that most
generally agree on. That's all generally means. I'm saying I don't know anything about men, but I know women
generally believe they wouldn't act like they're fathers warned them men are like if they had penises. It's unfortunate that they some men do act like those men you were warned about.
With both parties being strangers and hammered in a bar and all things equal otherwise, the idiot girls puts herself at risk, where the idiot guy is putting someone else(her) at risk. He has a biological advantage of being able to not answer phone calls and be gone forever whereas she doesn't. That's what i meant by 'parts'.
I don't think I'd take that crazy asshole's opinion for much (The puppet account guy.) Crazy people do crazy things. For example, Albert Fish ate children and wrote letters to their parents saying how good their child tasted. Countess Elizabeth Báthory de Ecsed kidnapped and tortured virgin women and then bathed in their blood. Some people are just batshit insane. For all we know that puppet account guy could be a woman. Although that's quite unlikely.
Sorry for not reading the entire thread, but it's fairly long at this point and I tend to post once I read something worth responding to. You also have to realize some women also act in similar ways. Women and Men are both capable of being ruthless assholes. Women just usually have a different way of going about it.
In the scenario you originally provided, if all things were equal as you just said, I don't think anyone considers the fact that the man has a biological advantage. They both just wanted to have sex, a primal desire for most. I feel bad for you, because your partner went through this, but they both clearly share responsibility for the actions. Trying to divert blame on him is a poor decision. Accidents do indeed happen, especially when alcohol is involved.
It seems like coming on here and asking men to answer on this is just evading the actual issue here. If I was in a similar situation, I'd evaluate the relationship and decide whether or not to forgive both of them. Clearly I don't know all of the details, but it seems like you both know this guy. Also, the guy is putting himself at risk as well. Not only is he at risk of getting an STD (Not saying your partner has any, but how would he know) but in most countries he'd still be financially responsible for the child, which is why we have such laws. Granted it's not the same as birthing a child and all of that, I know.
In the end, though, both parties made a poor decision, and they'll have to live with that. You cannot change the past by dwelling on it, and you only live once. So get past it as quickly as possible, and move on to enjoy your time while you still can.