All Men Cheat

[DudeistBelieve]

I don't see anything wrong with her attitude. I mean, if she wants to try to have sex with married guys--go for it. More power to her, in fact. If she can seduce a man into cheating, well, that relationship was doomed from the start, right? A guy who's going to cheat is going to cheat eventually. The person who is in a relationship should be the responsible one; they should be the one to say "No." How is it her fault if the married men CHOOSE to have sex with her?

TL;DR: She's doing nothing wrong. It's those in the committed relationship that are in the wrong.

Pronouns aside, this guys right.

It's not like shes holding guys at gun point forcing them to diddle her pooter.

Granted, it's not an admirable trait in the least bit, because she's royally fucking another woman's life/heart, but... *shrug*

 

[Fiz_The_Toaster]

That reminds me that I have to catch up on Episodes after watching that.....

You watch Episodes? I should hunt you and put you on display because you seem to be the rarest creature in the world!

(I've not found anybody else that's ever seen any of it, + 1 internets for knowing about it, and another internets for making me aware of a season 2, I thought it got axed)

I WIN ALL THE INTERNETS!

I only found out about it like 3 months ago, and I fucking love that show.

I loved the first series, especially the ending of it. I know what I'm watching for the next few days.

I remember laughing at it a lot, which is a rare thing for me with the "awkward" style of comedy that it has. Stephen Mangan needs to do/make more stuff, and Matt Leblanc needs to do more stuff as a sad, divorced Matt Leblanc, I actually thought he was amazing in it xD.

I came late to the party with this series and I completely dismissed it because of Matt Leblanc. I was watching it at a friend's house and I laughed hysterically the entire time! XD

I agree about the ending, it was amazing. Stephen Mangan is great in it, and, really, everyone is great in that show, even the hair lady (or make-up, I don't remember) with her eye rolling!

 

[DudeistBelieve]

I would have to have a girlfriend to cheat...

OT: That is a terrible generalization. I think her reasoning is to say "Others are doing worse than me, so you shouldn't tell me I'm doing bad." so she doesn't have to feel bad about it.

Trust me, from experince, you never EVER want to be in a relationship where you feel you want to cheat.

If you ever feel you want to cheat, and your not a complete asshole, it's because the relationship is so far gone but for some reason refuses to just break off and die. It's the worst possible place to be in, relationship wise.

 

[Palademon]

Sadly I have no credentials in which to base my answer, so I'll just assume your friend must be correct.

 

[Kud]

This posting crap pictures thing would be okay if it wasn't the same damn pictures every thread. Seriously guys, when did this crap start?

OT: Been cheated on, decided in that moment that I was never going to cheat on someone because I knew how bad it felt.

 

[C F]

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...What?

Nah, I'd never cheat on a girl. I mean, I've never bothered to be in a relationship (and not for lack of trying; I've had a couple girls express interest in me in the past). I've simply never found anyone I wanted to hook up with.

I'd have to agree with the apparent consensus that the girl in the OP's story is an idiot. Someone needs to teach her about making generalizations when people are involved.
She probably has a statistical sample size of... I'm going to say three relationships with men. Because I feel like an analogy, that's like saying since three pixels found in an area are purple, the entire picture must be purple. It's absurd.

My obvious answer to the other question is: No, I've never been cheated on by anyone.

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Not that that needed to be said.

 

[ThePS1Fan]

"All men cheat"
Wow, what a broad incorrect generalization. Oh well I'll at least see if they have some justification for saying this.
Oh, well then. Moving on.

 

[Moromillas]

Of course it's a complete non sequitur.

Logical fallacies aside, this sort of thing is nothing short of infuriating. You know, I try and be nice as pie, not just to women, but to everyone. Being automatically thought of as this sleazy guy that will bang any women given the opportunity... and fucking why? Just for having a penis? Jesus. Funny thing is a of women I've met are absolute jerks, much much more than the guys, should I then start saying that all women are horrible? There's about three and a half billion of them.

 

[MasochisticAvenger]

Also yeah, that girl sounds kind of bitchy to me.#
Seeing as this seems to be well established now, I propose a new question:

If your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/sex robot/other offered you a 'hall pass' IE; a chance to go sleep with someone else without her/him/it having a problem with it - would you take that chance or would you prefer not to?

No, because one of two things will happen.

1.) The person who gave you the hall pass will wind up not being alright with it, and the two of you will break up anyway.

2.) The person who gave you the hall pass will be alright with it, and you'll start to wonder why they are okay with it. You'll get suspicious, and start to believe they want to cheat on you. You'll discover they really have cheated on you (I allowed you to sleep with someone else, so you can't complain that I did the same), or you'll find out they didn't but you'll be so suspicious you'll wind up breaking up with them anyway.

 

[BarbaricGoose]

Snip

Pronouns aside, this guys right.

It's not like shes holding guys at gun point forcing them to diddle her pooter.

Granted, it's not an admirable trait in the least bit, because she's royally fucking another woman's life/heart, but... *shrug*

Hey, I think she's doing them a favor. If you're gonna cheat, you're gonna cheat. It's just a matter of when and with who. Sooner the better, I think. Get that shit out of the way, break up and move on. I've never cheated or been cheated on (to my knowledge,) but I would think that it'd be best if it happened before I devoted years of my life/money to someone.

And I suppose it's not the most ideal trait, but I don't think this gal deserves all the hate. You wanna hate someone? Hate the people who take her up on her offer. Or Hitler--hate that guy.

And don't knock my pronouns.

 

[Easton Dark]

Also if she's knowing being a homewrecker, towards men that are married, she a ****. If they're not married, then I merely don't care for her actions.

Why does it matter if they're married or not? I don't want to get married but I love my girlfriend more than anything else in the world.

That offends me just as much as the generalization that all men cheat.

 

[MelasZepheos_v1legacy]

Hi.

I'm Daystar Clarion.

You may know me from such social statuses as 'I've been with the same girl since I was 15', and 'Love is playing Borderlands coop with your significant other, then having sex with her'.

And I didn't cheat in any of them

Dude, not even Fillion can stop you from bumming us all out. You with your perfect relationship and 'I actually love the person I'm with.'

As for your friend.

Spoiler

1. I have been in relationships and had sex offered to me by women I was not in a relationship with.

2. I didn't sleep with them.

3. I am a man.

Conclusion: All men cannot be cheaters because I am a man who has not cheated.

 

[N_of_the_dead]

Well I'm a man, I've been in several relationships that on average last around 2-4 years and I have yet to cheat...do I win a prize of some kind?

That aside from what the op said about their friend they claim all men cheat so they can essentially do the same thing guilt free....isn't kind of crazy?

 

[Asita]

Well, for the sake of adding to the gif parade, I can think of one question in particular for the girl from the OP:

Spoiler

...Wait, we were supposed to be using Fillion gifs? Um...hold on just a second...ok, I've got nothing from Fillion that fits. Oops!

On a less pictoral note, I'm a guy and I very obviously disagree with her. Granted, we only heard the OP's characterization[footnote]No offense Colour, it's just a factor that must be accounted for[/footnote], but if the gist is accurate, it sounds too much like an internal justification to me, as if she's trying to convince herself as much as she is trying to convince the people she's talking to.

 

[Cabisco]

There was a point during this where I stopped reading comments and started looking at the Nathan Fillion gifs, I forget how much he is loved (I also love him even if he never returns my calls/emails/letters written in blood).

As for the topic, obviously not all men cheat and not all women cheat and not all penguins cheat no matter how many times they come in late at night smelling fishy.

Spoiler: Edit: my Nathan Fillion gif

I LIED

Thank you lemon.

 

[scorptatious]

What's with all the Nathan Fiillion GIF's as of late? Am I missing something?

OT: No, I don't agree that all men cheat. And no, I've never cheated or been cheated on. Although I guess that's kinda easy when you never had a girlfriend before.

 

[TheKruzdawg]

Hi.

I'm Daystar Clarion. You may know me from such social statuses as 'I've been with the same girl since I was 15', and 'Love is playing Borderlands coop with your significant other, then having sex with her'.

And I didn't cheat in any of them.

"Looks up" Sigh, at least Daystar isn't forever alone.

OT: No, not all men cheat, I am a man and I haven't cheaten on anyone, because I can't get into a relationship to cheat on anyone.

Where does Fillion do this? I HAVE TO KNOW!

 

[Ryan Hughes]

Look, it has a lot more to do with the type of men that you and your friends find attractive rather than men in general. That is to say: it is not all men that cheat, just the ones you and your friends date.

There are several possible reasons for this. Most likely -of course- is that men that do not cheat tend to have more stable relationships, for obvious reasons, and thus spend much less time single or otherwise looking for a partner. Also, there is the possibility that the men you and a large portions of your friends are attracted to are just the cheating type, as whether or not a person cheats is to a certain extent determined by what can be termed their "sexual personality." I do not know if sexual personality manifests through the standard personality, but I suspect it does. And if you constantly find yourself involved with these men, may I kindly suggest that you take a hard look at yourself and reassess what traits you desire from a partner.

 

[DudeistBelieve]

Also if she's knowing being a homewrecker, towards men that are married, she a ****. If they're not married, then I merely don't care for her actions.

Why does it matter if they're married or not? I don't want to get married but I love my girlfriend more than anything else in the world.

That offends me just as much as the generalization that all men cheat.

Not that this applies to you, because you have your own reasons for not getting married that you may have expressively discussed with your girlfriend at great length.... but generally I consider marriage the sign of true commitment.

Generally speaking, in my eyes, a person who isn't married is fair game. granted, still kinda a dick move, but not as bad as say stealing someone away from their wife and kids, ya know?

 

[itsausernamewhatofit]

Hi.

I'm Daystar Clarion.

You may know me from such social statuses as 'I've been with the same girl since I was 15', and 'Love is playing Borderlands coop with your significant other, then having sex with her'.

And I didn't cheat in any of them

Why is every single post you make perfect? I guess this is how you've turned The Escapist into your own cult following.

And for the OP, of course her opinion is ridiculous, you shouldn't even have to ask a question like that.