bobleponge said:
"Look, it's not our fault players are having sex with kids in our game! Our game is about having sex with ADULTS, so we programmed it so you could have sex with anyone. Of course we're going to have kid NPCs though, it wouldn't be believable otherwise! Besides, you lose points if you have sex with the kid NPCs!"
(Also, losing a few points isn't "discouragement." Making you feel guilt for callously ending an innocent human life, in a way that happens all the time and rarely receives any sort of justice... now that's discouragement. I'd like to see one of these "dark, gritty, mature" games try that.)
In the context of "Hitman" though the whole point of the '47' character is that he's been conditioned so that he doesn't exactly feel remorse, he's pretty much an ultimate weapon. Part of the evolving story is him gradually getting some of his humanity back, though at the end of the day he can't change what he is. Creating some kind of major guilt trip over killing wouldn't really fit into the context of the game or it's narrative for the most part. That said we're talking about what is a very dark hero concept, and something that is pretty much against the tenets of society, which is why it's an "M" rated game series above and beyond the simple inclusion of violence.
As far as the sexual comments you made above, that battle has already been ongoing to be honest, so it doesn't make for very good sarcasm. A lot of Japanese games and those made from parts of the world with much lower ages of consent have indeed run into problems with people getting upset about pedophilia or potential pedophilia. This is to say nothing of the "Second Life" battles over so called "ageplay" and people creating underage avatars and animation sets specifically to have sex and/or engage in virtual prostitution. The defense of which has involved things like how the person pretending to be a child isn't actually a child, so it shouldn't count... it's a giant mess, but the point is we've already seen this kind of thing as well.
Speaking entirely for myself I tend to draw a line between "children" and "teens" when it comes to such things even if a lot of society does not do so. The way I see it is that teens are developing sexually, and are going to have sex no matter what anyone does. As a result I tend to be a supporter of things like distributing condoms in schools, along with better sex education, and things like that, as opposed to trying to force abstinence programs and the like. The way I see it is teens having sex with teens, including the pitfalls involved, are part of growing up and learning about life. I do however have a big problem with ADULTS getting involved with teens. As "mature" as a lot of people like to think teenagers are, at the end of the day you wind up with some 16 year old girl going with a 30 year old dude and it's a recipe for disaster, especially if as a young idealist she thinks this guy is going to be with her forever or take care of her just because he said so at some point. Those kinds of lopsided relationships tend to end in disaster, and like it or not teens with limited resources are easy for an adult with better resources (money to spend, etc...) to exploit. Things tend to become a bit touchier when it comes to young adults within a couple of years like a 17 year old with an 18 or 19 year old in my opinion.
To put all of that into a more mainstream context, as general rule a video game that say has teenagers who aren't platonic is very similar to say the "Porky's" or "American Pie" movie series, or various horror movies or whatever, and really given that society already has some degree of acceptance for this as you can tell it really isn't that big a deal if you say have a video game dating simulator where a character in high school can say score with another character in high school.... and really while there are exceptions, this is mostly where such things tend to go.
To put things into perspective, someone mentioned say Rikku in "Final Fantasy X" being 15, and dressing provocatively (and honestly, look at how a lot of 15 year olds dress IRL, whether you approve or not, it's not exactly unheard of). Consider that most of the cast of "Final Fantasy X" are all young and around the same basic age level, pretty much within a few years of her. I think the oldest cast members are Wakka and Lulu who are pretty much committed to each other and they are like what? Early 20s? As a result something like that doesn't wind hitting my alarm buttons, since your pretty much dealing with a teenage romance when you get down to it (and it's not like this game actually goes into porno territory to begin with).
In the TV series "Buffy The Vampire Slayer" most people don't really think about it, but by the time Buffy has graduated high school she's already had an affair with an ancient vampire (Angel) who looks about 30 but is actually centuries old. I don't think the show specifies but consider this had been going on a couple of seasons before graduation, including the whole "he comes back from hell with a soul, ooops he turned evil, ooops now he's good again" ongoing arc. This means at the very beginning when she does it with Angel, which is a big plot point and catalyst for those events she's about 15 or 16. As a general rule this has been permitted because it's fantasy despite being illegal and immoral... and well, it's one of the biggest cult TV shows of all time. Approve or disapprove the ship has already sailed here and I don't see it making a big deal if a video game does something similar.
On the other hand if you want to get creepier in video games, I look at say the "Xenosaga" series where you have say the thing between Ziggy and Momo which I get the impression wasn't exactly staying entirely platonic. Then of course we've got "Kid" who is an adult in a child's body who goes around with an entourage of babes who basically worship him and I sort of got the impression that wasn't exactly platonic either. Things like that represent the exception and get to the point where I'm thinking the envelope is being pushed as your dealing with characters who are pre-teen, and should be pre-sexual, at least physically. So basically the exceptions exist, but again this series doesn't exactly show anything happening or get particularly explicit (it's at best implied).
The point here is that the analogy isn't the best one. I suppose one could say "there shouldn't be graphic violence or teenage sex in video games", but then again a number of people have been saying that about all media for decades and it's been an ongoing issue. For the most part this is why you have warning labels. It's also why going by those labels an actual teenager shouldn't be consuming material just because it involves teenage characters. Part of it is because adults can draw the line between something that's fantasy, and being presented as acceptable or being encouraged. Whether they do or not, arguably real people the age of the teenage victims at "Camp Crystal Lake" should not be watching "Friday The 13th" movies and they are labeled accordingly. If parents do not listen, and nobody heeds the advisory that's an entirely separate issue.
Understand in something like "Hitman" the lead character is not being presented as a role model, indeed the situation is presented as being messed up on all ends, starting with the conditioned demons in his head. Likewise your typical horror movie isn't selling outrageous teen behavior as being a good thing (and indeed if you analyze them, most are morality plays, where those who misbehave are "punished" by the killer of the piece, which while obvious to an adult, and a trope which today is heavily subverted after the success of things like 'Evil Dead', this might not be obvious to a kid, so you know... again the advisory).
Of course then again I am a "Piers Anthony" fan and if you've ever read his stuff, a lot of it is pretty much a huge analysis of sexual politics, and he gets even weirder because he kind of sets up to shock with the whole "okay, well, you thought that was pushing it, and I barely sold it as being acceptable, wait until you get a load of this".