Well, those are common examples, they are hardly the be all and end all of male fantasies. I mean, for lots of guys a catgirl would be a sexual fantasyEvilRoy said:You know, I've always wondered why it is that we have specifically locked down what a male power fantasy and a male sex fantasy look like... but whenever someone tries to do the same with women, nobody is able to agree.
No worries. Yeah, my main point was that since "reverse" sexism/racism/whatever is usually far less serious than the regular kind, it doesn't really make sense to devote equal attention to each. If one group is being insulted and the other is being assaulted, it's only logical to spend more time and effort trying to protect the latter.WhiteNachos said:I thought you were trying to argue that being called mayonnaise boy isn't racism because sometimes black people get murdered for being black. I think I might've been mistaken so I apologize.
We haven't had a draft since 1973. Yes, it's stupid that men still have to register with selective service (incidentally, that was because women were banned from the armed forces, a policy which feminists oppose), but if you really think the draft is coming back I have a bridge to sell you. And if that's really the best example you can find of discrimination against men, it can't possibly be anywhere near as serious as sexism against women.Not the point, she said sexism against men is impossible and yet the US has had a men only draft since at least the civil war. Wouldn't the men who've been forced to go to war over the years be victims of institutionalized sexism?
thaluikhain said:Well, those are common examples, they are hardly the be all and end all of male fantasies. I mean, for lots of guys a catgirl would be a sexual fantasyEvilRoy said:You know, I've always wondered why it is that we have specifically locked down what a male power fantasy and a male sex fantasy look like... but whenever someone tries to do the same with women, nobody is able to agree.and being immune to chlorine gas a power fantasy.
The other thing is, the gaming community doesn't profit from female fantasies, but they exist.
I once spent some time sticking barcodes on the back of romance novels at a library and read the blurbs. The sex fantasy seemed to always revolve around a rugged billionaire (never a mere millionaire) who was exotically foreign[footnote]Once, and only once, this meant "Welsh"[/footnote] that the woman initially didn't get on with, often a doctor.[footnote]One noteworthy example featured something along the lines of him being "a good looking mechanic from the wrong side of the tracks...but can their relationship withstand the revelation that he's really a secret billionaire?"[/footnote]
Likewise, paranormal romance stories often are rather formulaic as well[footnote]http://www.fangsforthefantasy.com/2013/04/written-by-numbers-drinking-game_26.html[/footnote]
Would you kindly stop making it so damned difficult for me to be empathetic?WhiteNachos said:Anita meant what she said. Look at some subsequent postsLostGryphon said:As irked as I was on a first reading? Whatever. I'll concede the point and give the benefit of the doubt due to how forcefully truncated the medium is.thaluikhain said:As mentioned last time this came up here, she is very clearly talking about institutionalised sexism. Yes, she's having trouble expressing a complicated issue inside the confines of twitter.
https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533771760873635840
https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533460936431271937
https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533768948185972736
Gold! Comedy gold as far as the eye can see!Reasonable Atheist said:Hell we might as well dig up something like oh i don't know, this crazy radical feminist who thinks all men should be placed in solitary confinement, and then decry feminism as evil based on it, makes just as much sense. Although give her some hits if you want, its super good for an afternoon laugh, she also thinks all sex is rape and all women have some kind of latent super powers that men are holding back.
(http://witchwind.wordpress.com/2014/10/07/utopia-what-would-a-womens-society-look-like/)
Yeah, same here about working in a book store. The Cinderella Scenario in romance novels is pretty humorous in it's frequency. The female character is usually some downtrodden woman, either in a shitty relationship with an asshole guy, or just finished with such a relationship. And the new guy swoops in to give her the life of luxury and panty dissolving sex she's always dreamed of. Oh and the guy usually has some major damage of his own, that is cured by her Magic Vagina, that soothes all of his past fears and pains, and let's him stop being a playboy and just Settle Down with one Good Woman. I actually have a game with my wife, where I have her tell me the title of the book, and then I randomly toss out various plot elements off the top of my head, and she tells me how many actually show up in this book. I usually get 75% of them correct, even down to small details like "he's actually a werewolf/vampire hybrid love child, lost son of a yakuza crime family (thus why he's rich and such a badass at combat)"thaluikhain said:Well, those are common examples, they are hardly the be all and end all of male fantasies. I mean, for lots of guys a catgirl would be a sexual fantasyEvilRoy said:You know, I've always wondered why it is that we have specifically locked down what a male power fantasy and a male sex fantasy look like... but whenever someone tries to do the same with women, nobody is able to agree.and being immune to chlorine gas a power fantasy.
The other thing is, the gaming community doesn't profit from female fantasies, but they exist.
I once spent some time sticking barcodes on the back of romance novels at a library and read the blurbs. The sex fantasy seemed to always revolve around a rugged billionaire (never a mere millionaire) who was exotically foreign[footnote]Once, and only once, this meant "Welsh"[/footnote] that the woman initially didn't get on with, often a doctor.[footnote]One noteworthy example featured something along the lines of him being "a good looking mechanic from the wrong side of the tracks...but can their relationship withstand the revelation that he's really a secret billionaire?"[/footnote]
Likewise, paranormal romance stories often are rather formulaic as well[footnote]http://www.fangsforthefantasy.com/2013/04/written-by-numbers-drinking-game_26.html[/footnote]
Still, it should be brought up in every topic about her with the caption "she is not worth listening to".thaluikhain said:Indeed, she blamed it on "toxic masculinity", not men.RaikuFA said:I thought after she blamed that school shooting on men everyone declared her batshit insane and decided to stop talking about her.
Guess not.
To be honest, that sounds difficult to the point of impossibility to include in a game without it being the primary and only focus of the story and gameplay...Happyninja42 said:So yeah, the female equivalent of the male fantasy stuff does indeed exist, it's just mostly in the literature section of entertainment, instead of gaming.
She posted it almost a month ago, mind. People posted about it at the time on this forum and then forgot about it.NeutralStasis said:Apparently she has not felt relevant in the past couple of weeks, so she posts a profoundly wrong statement. Look! She is getting people (including me sadly) to post stuff about her again. Her relevance is reestablished.
thaluikhain said:She posted it almost a month ago, mind. People posted about it at the time on this forum and then forgot about it.NeutralStasis said:Apparently she has not felt relevant in the past couple of weeks, so she posts a profoundly wrong statement. Look! She is getting people (including me sadly) to post stuff about her again. Her relevance is reestablished.
While I don't like some of the stuff directed at her, I'm pretty sure that she says stuff like this purely to poke the bear at this point and to get some free publicity.Lightknight said:Anita Tweeted this last month and it does not appear to have been covered so I thought I'd bring it up for discussion:
https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533445611543363585
[tweet t=http://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533445611543363585]
In case she ever decides to back down and delete it:
"There?s no such thing as sexism against men. That's because sexism is prejudice + power. Men are the dominant gender with power in society."
I find this to be terribly sexist. Implying that all women are powerless and all men are in power is not only stereotyping individuals but making the insane claim that gender-based hatred only exists if you were born one way. It is somewhat disgusting that this hasn't been covered in media, honestly. This is a significant step away from gender equality into misandry. This kind of sexism in all it's forms should be reported on and despised by civil society. This doesn't harm the cause of equality itself, but it should certainly tarnish her own personal reputation.
I've noticed other individuals begin to start inserting the "power" bit as being necessary to be sexist or racist. It's about as nonsensical as claiming that Hispanic individuals can't be racist against black individuals because they're not in power. Of course racially based hatred and gender based hatred can come from anyone of any race or gender. How bigoted to claim otherwise, seriously.
The attempt to redefine terms like sexism or racism to meet one's own condition is crazy. Sexism is not defined as one having power. It is "prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex." (google search: Sexism definition) Simple as that. If you are stereotyping, prejudiced for/against, or practicing discrimination towards an individual based on their sex, then you are sexist. You could be a female CEO of a massive corporation or some guy in a trailer park with no legs and still accomplish being a sexist bigot.
She is using a reconfigured definition for racism. The definition has been expanded to multiple concepts, however if often criticized and scrutinized. I believe the definition came into being in the 70's (I cannot remember who originally coined it). It is a very limited way to look at "isms" though.Queen Michael said:She's wrong. According to the Merriam-Webster, sexism is "unfair treatment of people because of their sex." At no point does it say it has to include power. I'm a feminist, but I'm a feminist who knows how to look things up in a dictionary.
An astute observation. It certainly reinforces the notion that Sarkeesian's relevance is driven by her professional victim status rather than her arguments.Verlander said:That's actually an anti-feminist argument, as it poses that women have no power. They may not have equal power, but to claim that they have no power undermines key feminist theory
Specifically, victims of something that they've defined as requiring the victimisers to be powerful.Atmos Duality said:By adding the Power requisite to the definition, it effectively changes any definition into "Only minority power holders are victims", or by taking its inverse form produces "Majority power holders cannot be victims."
No that was just the most obvious refutation of the idea that institutionalized sexism against men can't exist. If you want a current example there's the fact that women get longer sentences than men for the same crimes.DataSnake said:No worries. Yeah, my main point was that since "reverse" sexism/racism/whatever is usually far less serious than the regular kind, it doesn't really make sense to devote equal attention to each. If one group is being insulted and the other is being assaulted, it's only logical to spend more time and effort trying to protect the latter.WhiteNachos said:I thought you were trying to argue that being called mayonnaise boy isn't racism because sometimes black people get murdered for being black. I think I might've been mistaken so I apologize.
We haven't had a draft since 1973. Yes, it's stupid that men still have to register with selective service (incidentally, that was because women were banned from the armed forces, a policy which feminists oppose), but if you really think the draft is coming back I have a bridge to sell you. And if that's really the best example you can find of discrimination against men, it can't possibly be anywhere near as serious as sexism against women.Not the point, she said sexism against men is impossible and yet the US has had a men only draft since at least the civil war. Wouldn't the men who've been forced to go to war over the years be victims of institutionalized sexism?
Except that such a line of reasoning undermines either equality under the law (when applied by relevant authorities), or the crucial concept of reciprocity that buttresses egalitarian moral systems and makes society work. Also, humans being human, any mindset that applies, to an ongoing problem one spends a great deal of time thinking about, the notion that 'this group is more victimized as a whole, therefore I will concentrate on them' will through habituation eventually devolve on the subconscious level into 'this group and the injustices done toward them are more important, and I will ignore the other'.DataSnake said:No worries. Yeah, my main point was that since "reverse" sexism/racism/whatever is usually far less serious than the regular kind, it doesn't really make sense to devote equal attention to each. If one group is being insulted and the other is being assaulted, it's only logical to spend more time and effort trying to protect the latter.