Another new question to the girls here...
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It depends on a womans intelligence and how they are raised as to whether they believe sensitive guys are wimps to them. Again saying where I live, most girls only want to date guys that are corn-fed rednecks unless you find the small percentage of girls that could hold an intelligent conversation, then they tend to go for the more sensitive caring guy that won't treat them like crap.
I have trouble going from the "Just friends" category to the "Romantically interesting" category. It fucking sucks.
Its the other way around for me. Im a pretty attractive guy and there are alot of great looking girls that wanna get with me...but Im just not attracted to them. Sometimes I just wanna be friends with them but I can tell they want more than that. Instead Im attracted to the one girl that would hurt me, because she is cheating on me.deadman91 said:
A schnarff schnarff. Well, you see... seeing as I lack a Y chromosome, I could probably answer this one. Then again, seeing as I've been dumped in a bucket of scathing sarcasm and thus refuse to let people get near to me, maybe I'm not.
I know that I'm a sucker for a few physical traits, and they're not muscles. They're not abs of steel. In fact, I tend to gravitate and enjoy spending the time with geeks, to some degree.
But at the same time, I myself see very little in certain arts, and I don't expect my man to have any greater an appreciation for art than I do. I hope for patience when I get fangirly. I hope for a little understanding when I do open up, because there's a reason that I keep my fears hidden.
But to answer your question OP, I think that what women think about their men is somehow related to what they see in theirselves. I like insecure guys. I myself am somewhat insecure, but I can and do put that aside if I think that there's some way I can help someone work past their fears.
Long post, I apologise. My opinion would be that no, the sensitive is no less a man than the jock, and vice versa. It all depends on who you ask, doesn't it?
I know that I'm a sucker for a few physical traits, and they're not muscles. They're not abs of steel. In fact, I tend to gravitate and enjoy spending the time with geeks, to some degree.
But at the same time, I myself see very little in certain arts, and I don't expect my man to have any greater an appreciation for art than I do. I hope for patience when I get fangirly. I hope for a little understanding when I do open up, because there's a reason that I keep my fears hidden.
But to answer your question OP, I think that what women think about their men is somehow related to what they see in theirselves. I like insecure guys. I myself am somewhat insecure, but I can and do put that aside if I think that there's some way I can help someone work past their fears.
Long post, I apologise. My opinion would be that no, the sensitive is no less a man than the jock, and vice versa. It all depends on who you ask, doesn't it?
I agree with this.Embz said:
My boyfriend can be an emotional guy at times, but I personally think he's just the right amount of both.
And it doesn't bother me when a guy is emotional. I have many friends who are and they are with someone. Also, the guys I know who think they are a manly man do tend to sleep around too. I know a few and even though they are friends I could never see myself with someone like that. I'm into relationships and guys who are emotional at times and actually show emotion. Which is why I am with my boyfriend. :3
Im a guy,i dont show many emotions but thats me im not an emotional person and i dont care if another guy has emotions
No. I think men who pretend not to have emotions are lesser men, and I will not touch them. A happy medium is ideal, but I would prefer a guy who was too emotional to one who was not emotional enough.
Meh. The types of guys you describe likely have no substance, and due to that, their relationships usually fall apart quickly. Guys with emotions, on the other hand, are much more interesting, so that when they do find somebody, it tends to last for quite a while =D.
unholyavenger13 said:
I dunno, that being into women sounds pretty gay to me.
Wait... no... I was totally thinking of something else. Nevermind.
This is the truth, right here. But when I was reading this I was using a kind tone in my mind. Then came the "wussy little *****" part outa NO WHERE!!! I laughed pretty hard.SugarMama said:
True... though reading it in a Batman voice makes it work perfectly.Wickerton said:
Though she/he (this is the internet, it is hard to tell without it being directly stated) is pretty much correct it seams like.