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Uh, that video is nothing but victim blaming, strawmen and misogyny. Hell, I'll go as far and say it's profoundly misandrist as well, with the idea that men cannot be taught simple concepts such as consent.

It's seriously sick.
Rapists know rape is wrong, it's punishable by law.
Telling them it's wrong doesn't help matters.

All that's left is to advise people on how to avoid it, it's honestly that simple.
But that argument/advice really only works for avoiding stranger rape.

What do you say to the girl who strictly follows every "rule" out there, and is raped by a guy she's known for 3 years while at a house party?

Or what about date rape? What then?

Or Marital rape?


That video was fucking horrible
 

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I feel sorry for anyone paranoid enough to actually buy this. I mean ya, rape is a real threat, but so is getting shot, that doesn't mean we should all wear a bulletproof vests every time we leave the house.

It just seems like an unhealthy outlook to have on life.
What? Are you kidding? This is how I look everytime I leave my house.


V8 Ninja said:
While I guess these are neat, shouldn't we be more focused on changing the attitudes towards rape before making rape physically harder to perform? I mean, both are noble causes, but the first one seems like a far more long-term solution, at least to me.
Everyone already knows rape is bad, though honestly I think seeing as how every highschooler is required to take sex ed (Atleast they were in my schools) they should have a short section on a few things that could be considered rape that they might not think of. I know my college had a little deal on that during my orientation, but it could pay to have it taught a couple of times without necessarily targeting anyone.
I really really wish I had saved it. But I saw a survey, from a high school, "A girl is obligated to have sex with a guy if...."

And it had a whole list of answers like "He spent a lot of money on her", "She was teasing him", "He wants to", "She says she wants" etc. etc.

And the numbers were really depressing.....like really really depressing....
 

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I'm sort of surprised no one has mentioned (at least that I've seen) that an "anti-rape device" was actually already invented several years ago. It was called "rape-axe" and it was significantly nastier than these products.
http://www.cnn.com/2010/WORLD/africa/06/20/south.africa.female.condom/

Basically, it functioned like a female condom, and if a guy put his business in there, it had barbed 'teeth' that would sink in, and the only way to remove it would be surgically, thus meaning he'd have to go to a hospital, where the people at the hospital would be able to immediately report it to police.

Obviously there are some issues that pop up with the device, but it's not the first "anti-rape device" ever conceived that isn't a chastity belt.
 

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Sir Thomas Sean Connery said:
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Alright, I can sort of see what you're getting at, but clarification would be good.

What exactly constitutes "bad" discussion of self defense and how does that discussion apply any differently to a mugging versus a rape?
Well, the victim of a rape is almost certainly blamed, to some extent for it. This isn't the case for most crimes. For example, locally, on NYE, a man was king hit. It made national news (repeatedly), there were calls for "king hit" to be renamed "coward hit", the attack condemned as nothing more than thuggery, and so on. Which is fair enough.

However, also on NYE, a woman was raped, made news sparingly, and that was slanted to be about it being a reminder that women should be more careful.

Now, in regards to self-defence, there's not much difference between saying self-defence is useful, and people ought to learn self defence, and there's not much different between that and saying they are wrong if they don't. If the victim wasn't blamed so much, this probably wouldn't be an issue, though.

As well as that, it promotes a widespread and dangerous view about rape, that it's of the "jumped by stranger in back alley" type, which is a real problem. It's also rather over-simplified...women have been raped en route to self defence classes, and by self defence instructors.
 

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It's an intriguing concept, but I can't honestly seeing it working, it'd be frustrating to wear everyday, and seeing as rape is very rarely premeditated, the victim can't predict when or if he or she might be assaulted. The added fear and anxiety alone would take a toll on a person. What we really need is proper porgrams for dealing with sexual assault, better counselling services, more police officers who are trained to help victims with rape trauma, possible expidition of the case where the evidence is there or very recent (i.e. not allowing the case to go cold as quick as they do) etc. The biggest thing that needs to happen though is that victims need to be able to report a rape (and know they can) without feeling ashamed or being stigmatised by the community.

Slitzkin said:
As far as I know the only way to avoid a rape, is to escape before anything happens. Unless this garment gives the wearer supernatural strength or any other escape mechanism, as far as I'm concerned it's useless.
Therein lies part of the problem, a lot of sexual assaults occur under the effects of drugs and alcohol, making escape nearly impossible
 

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Aw, man... That poor penny... *begins to sob*

OT: Huh... The biggest thing that bothering me about this is how despite the amount of money those Funders put to make sure this type of underwear gets created and distributed, most will still only get discounts to buy the finished product themselves once it becomes available to purchase...

I would think one of the perks would be the option to have your own pair of these, based on how much money you did put down after passing the $100+ mark... But, I guess the $1000+ mark makes up for it, which is actually kinda awesome in its own right...

Anyway, I wonder which other underwear lines would want to adopt their version of this line to their own line... (assuming the finished product isn't the only way to pick up a pair for one's own...)
 

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Ugh, this kind of caters to the idea that everyone is under threat of being raped at any time.

Samurai Silhouette said:
Good idea. A rapist is probably looking for a quick rape and would probably be deterred by unyielding resistance and flee. Also, it's rape protection, not murder protection.
With "a quick rape" I suppose you mean someone jumping out of the bushes and raping you?

Most rape is committed by people close to the victim, and also in the victim's house/perpetrator's house. In a private location.

So in most cases it will be about more than just "a quick rape", and having a road block in the way may not do anything to prevent it from happening.


To me this seems like a useless tool to try and get money out of scared women. "Wear this and you're safe!"

I HIGHLY doubt it.
Chances are a women won't be wearing this outside of their home.
If they went to a party and passed out due to alcohol, she'd probably wake up in time due to the jostling of the rapist trying to remove the clothes and be able to fight back.
 

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AnarchistFish said:
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And no, you cant "teach people not to rape", thats like saying we can teach them not to murder, or not to lie..or whatever.
yeah you can do that

there's a reason crime rates vary wildly between different areas
I want you to try telling a serial-rapist not to rape, he wont care. Crime rates vary by region and country because people of different areas have different values altogether to begin with, thats what makes us different. Hell the difference is there on a person-by-person basis already, like you arent exactly like your mother or father or sibling, even though you are from the same family. So its kinda evident that not everyone would be a rapist, or be a potential rapist.

But if they are, then you cant really reason with them in that way. First is the question whether they actually know what they did was wrong or not, and whether they care. There are people who are evil, who know they are evil and they simply do not care about your so-called law and whatever. Do you really think you could "reform" them with a few choice words? Some things are ingrained in us as a species, you cant exactly change that overnight and that is a fact, if of course you could, i want to see you try and succeed, because there is a difference between talking about it and doing anything about it. Hell i pointed out that it will take time for us as a species to evolve past such base instincts..yet you didnt include that in your quote, odd isnt it?

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And no, you cant "teach people not to rape", thats like saying we can teach them not to murder, or not to lie..or whatever. There are things you can not teach, or "train" out of people no matter what you do. We are a violent species, so unless we can collectively evolve past our violent behaviours stuff like murder, war and rape will continue to exist.

It sucks, but there we are. I mean if we could just stop doing all the nasty things, we'd probably have done so by now, if not several thousand years ago where such problems were much worse.
The truth is though that we are doing much less nasty things than we used to do hundreds of years ago. How could that have happened if any change is as impossible as you claim it to be?
Change is gradual, which is kinda the point i made about how it takes time for us to actually evolve past what we are now. However there is a difference between things we dont do anymore because of reasons, and things we dont do anymore because we feel that they are wrong. Inquisition? Torture? Oh sure, we dont put people's feet in iron boots anymore and fill them with molten metal, but we still torture. Just because the methods change doesnt mean we abandoned the practice.

But yes, we are doing less nasty shit compared to what we could have been doing, but does it matter how much evil we do? Does it matter that instead of 20 different forms of torture we now only use 5 forms of torture? It doesnt really matter at the end of the day, we are still doing nasty shit, so unless we stop doing said stuff altogether because we moved past it as a species and a society, then you cant really claim that we actually stopped. I mean i would never rape anyone, the mere thought of that is revolting to me, and yet what about that rapist down the street? Does he share my view? So unless we all thought "Nope, rape is nasty and i aint doing it"..its gonna happen. Doesnt matter if there's 20 rapists, or 200, or just 1. If at least 1 still exists, it means we are still capable of the same evil as before.
 

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The truth is though that we are doing much less nasty things than we used to do hundreds of years ago. How could that have happened if any change is as impossible as you claim it to be?
Change is gradual, which is kinda the point i made about how it takes time for us to actually evolve past what we are now. However there is a difference between things we dont do anymore because of reasons, and things we dont do anymore because we feel that they are wrong. Inquisition? Torture? Oh sure, we dont put people's feet in iron boots anymore and fill them with molten metal, but we still torture. Just because the methods change doesnt mean we abandoned the practice.

But yes, we are doing less nasty shit compared to what we could have been doing, but does it matter how much evil we do? Does it matter that instead of 20 different forms of torture we now only use 5 forms of torture? It doesnt really matter at the end of the day, we are still doing nasty shit, so unless we stop doing said stuff altogether because we moved past it as a species and a society, then you cant really claim that we actually stopped.
But we are torturing much less than we used to do - in the western world anyway. I'm not naive, but let us not blow the CIA torture scandals and Guantanamo and all that out of proportion.


I mean i would never rape anyone, the mere thought of that is revolting to me, and yet what about that rapist down the street? Does he share my view? So unless we all thought "Nope, rape is nasty and i aint doing it"..its gonna happen. Doesnt matter if there's 20 rapists, or 200, or just 1. If at least 1 still exists, it means we are still capable of the same evil as before.
The debate about rape, about "rape culture" and all that is not about the "rapist down the street" - it is about the guys who don't accept that no means no, or who refuse being unable to resist with consent. Let us not portray rape as something that only thoroughly evil people are capable of doing.

And I'm sorry, but I really don't understand your arguments about numbers not mattering. If there's just one rapist instead of 200, if your chance of being raped is just 1/200 of what it used to be, surely that makes a difference? Surely that means society has evolved quite a bit in this area, or not?
 

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Yeah, a guy who want to rape (violence) will be demure once pain sets in and won't stomp the victim's head to a bloody pulp. That or the rapist's friends watching will all run away, thinking it's sorcery or something.

Quick buck scheme for me
 

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CloudAtlas said:
A-D. said:
CloudAtlas said:
The truth is though that we are doing much less nasty things than we used to do hundreds of years ago. How could that have happened if any change is as impossible as you claim it to be?
Change is gradual, which is kinda the point i made about how it takes time for us to actually evolve past what we are now. However there is a difference between things we dont do anymore because of reasons, and things we dont do anymore because we feel that they are wrong. Inquisition? Torture? Oh sure, we dont put people's feet in iron boots anymore and fill them with molten metal, but we still torture. Just because the methods change doesnt mean we abandoned the practice.

But yes, we are doing less nasty shit compared to what we could have been doing, but does it matter how much evil we do? Does it matter that instead of 20 different forms of torture we now only use 5 forms of torture? It doesnt really matter at the end of the day, we are still doing nasty shit, so unless we stop doing said stuff altogether because we moved past it as a species and a society, then you cant really claim that we actually stopped.
But we are torturing much less than we used to do - in the western world anyway. I'm not naive, but let us not blow the CIA torture scandals and Guantanamo and all that out of proportion.


I mean i would never rape anyone, the mere thought of that is revolting to me, and yet what about that rapist down the street? Does he share my view? So unless we all thought "Nope, rape is nasty and i aint doing it"..its gonna happen. Doesnt matter if there's 20 rapists, or 200, or just 1. If at least 1 still exists, it means we are still capable of the same evil as before.
The debate about rape, about "rape culture" and all that is not about the "rapist down the street" - it is about the guys who don't accept that no means no, or who refuse being unable to resist with consent. Let us not portray rape as something that only thoroughly evil people are capable of doing.

And I'm sorry, but I really don't understand your arguments about numbers not mattering. If there's just one rapist instead of 200, if your chance of being raped is just 1/200 of what it used to be, surely that makes a difference? Surely that means society has evolved quite a bit in this area, or not?
Im not even refering to the Guantanamo stuff, torture comes in many different forms, i mean waterboarding isnt the only thing you could torture someone with, let alone that physical torture is the only torture. The thought behind it being that we are still pretty much dicks to other people, or can be for a variety of reasons, rape for example is just another form of being an asshole to someone else, mind you for different reasons than just being verbally abusive or physically abusive or whatever.

Also im not making the argument that only evil people can be rapists, but rather that rape by itself is a rather nasty, evil act we are universally capable of, every person could rape, but not every person would, its a mental thing more or less whether you could do it, whether you could act towards other people in this manner. That being said the term "rape culture" is stupid because no culture is based around rape, nobody actually thinks "rape? we should totally make our culture revolve around that", or at least i sincerely doubt anyone would really think that rape, or murder or whatever would be a good foundation for a society, in fact basicly every society, from western to middle east to eastern to tribal societies essentially abhore rape, its not something you would consider being a good idea for any society.

However, while you are correct that it is good that the risk is less if just one out of 200 people would be capable or rape, its still one person that is capable of it. The risk is still there, the difference is really just how high the risk is, not that we could say that there is no risk of it happening at all. After all, if the chances of rape were exactly 0%, i.e. rape would never happen it would be better than the risk being 1 out of 200 still. Hence once we get to the point that rape doesnt happen anymore we have effectively moved past it as a species, but right now we havent since it still happens, even if it doesnt happen as much as it might have 100 or 200 or 2000 years ago.

So the goal should be 0/200, rather than 1/200.
 

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That being said the term "rape culture" is stupid because no culture is based around rape, nobody actually thinks "rape? we should totally make our culture revolve around that", or at least i sincerely doubt anyone would really think that rape, or murder or whatever would be a good foundation for a society, in fact basicly every society, from western to middle east to eastern to tribal societies essentially abhore rape, its not something you would consider being a good idea for any society.
Of course, because, by definition, rape or murder are acts that society doesn't approve of. If it's ok to have sex with that person, or kill them, it's not rape or murder.

All sorts of cultures have all sorts of ideas about when it's ok. Many of them we'd say weren't, and thus were rape or murder.
 

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For reasons already stated, I'm not very keen on this. EMTs are going to have as much of a hard time as a rapist with this regardless of the promises. Encouraging the use of sharp objects in that area does not strike me as an attractive goal.

I'm very suspicious of the advertiser mentioning research about "frustration" not increasing the violence of an attack but completely ignoring the irrefutable evidence that most sexual assaults originate from a known (and often trusted) source.

AnarchistFish said:
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And no, you cant "teach people not to rape", thats like saying we can teach them not to murder, or not to lie..or whatever.
yeah you can do that

there's a reason crime rates vary wildly between different areas
There are many reasons for that. population density, demographics, affluence...etc etc.
Yeah, so conditions that mean people have a lower tendency to commit crime. I.e. you can draw people away from it.
Mitigate, not eliminate. let's face it, some people are just born wrong. Mental illness being the most obvious thing. You can't teach that out. Therefore you can't just teach it out of people. SOME people yes but not "people."
Mental illness isn't something intrinsic to the human species though.

Also, since it's a disorder it can often be treated. It's possible to treat the causes too. You can mitigate a lot with the right resources. Just because you probably can't eliminate it doesn't mean you can't drastically reduce it.

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A-D. said:
And no, you cant "teach people not to rape", thats like saying we can teach them not to murder, or not to lie..or whatever.
yeah you can do that

there's a reason crime rates vary wildly between different areas
I want you to try telling a serial-rapist not to rape, he wont care.
Of course just telling one not to rape won't make a difference. There's more to it than that.

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Crime rates vary by region and country because people of different areas have different values altogether to begin with, thats what makes us different. Hell the difference is there on a person-by-person basis already, like you arent exactly like your mother or father or sibling, even though you are from the same family. So its kinda evident that not everyone would be a rapist, or be a potential rapist.
But values and culture between different areas are things that are instilled based on someone's environment and upbringing. Even between individuals. Differences between areas are caused by environmental and socioeconomic factors. Because ultimately, races are indistinguishable on a DNA level (link below), which is what I assume you must be referring to consciously or subconsciously when you say that these differences are caused by people intrinsically holding different values to people from other areas. If values between even closely related individuals were randomly allocated to such extremes that still wouldn't explain geographical trends.

http://web.ornl.gov/sci/techresources/Human_Genome/elsi/minorities.shtml

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But if they are, then you cant really reason with them in that way. First is the question whether they actually know what they did was wrong or not, and whether they care. There are people who are evil, who know they are evil and they simply do not care about your so-called law and whatever. Do you really think you could "reform" them with a few choice words? Some things are ingrained in us as a species, you cant exactly change that overnight and that is a fact, if of course you could, i want to see you try and succeed, because there is a difference between talking about it and doing anything about it.
Calling certain humans evil is ambiguous. What does evil mean? Psychopathic? In which case it's something that's gone wrong with human nature, not something that's part of it, and it can be treated (to some extent) since it's effectively a mental disorder. Either way it's not something which applies to humans as a whole or which can be evolved out of. It's actually the opposite, because it's by definition something that's gone psychologically wrong.

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Hell i pointed out that it will take time for us as a species to evolve past such base instincts..yet you didnt include that in your quote, odd isnt it?
It wasn't important to, since it was something you'd concluded based on the first part of your argument, which is the part I'm questioning.



Ultimately what we're saying here is that people will commit a crime like this either because of how their environment shaped their world image, or because of mental illness (or often a mix of the two since they can overlap). Neither is intrinsic to human nature or can be "evolved" out of (I'm not even sure how that would scientifically work in the first place), but they can both be improved by improving medical resources, socioeconomic factors, development, economic equality etc.

Edit: quoted the wrong person a couple of times
 

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Mental illness isn't something intrinsic to the human species though.

Also, since it's a disorder it can often be treated. It's possible to treat the causes too. You can mitigate a lot with the right resources. Just because you probably can't eliminate it doesn't mean you can't drastically reduce it.

Of course just telling one not to rape won't make a difference. There's more to it than that.

But values and culture between different areas are things that are instilled based on someone's environment and upbringing. Even between individuals. Differences between areas are caused by environmental and socioeconomic factors. Because ultimately, races are indistinguishable on a DNA level (link below), which is what I assume you must be referring to consciously or subconsciously when you say that these differences are caused by people intrinsically holding different values to people from other areas. If values between even closely related individuals were randomly allocated to such extremes that still wouldn't explain geographical trends.

http://web.ornl.gov/sci/techresources/Human_Genome/elsi/minorities.shtml

Calling certain humans evil is ambiguous. What does evil mean? Psychopathic? In which case it's something that's gone wrong with human nature, not something that's part of it, and it can be treated (to some extent) since it's effectively a mental disorder. Either way it's not something which applies to humans as a whole or which can be evolved out of. It's actually the opposite, because it's by definition something that's gone psychologically wrong.

It wasn't important to, since it was something you'd concluded based on the first part of your argument, which is the part I'm questioning.

Ultimately what we're saying here is that people will commit a crime like this either because of how their environment shaped their world image, or because of mental illness (or often a mix of the two since they can overlap). Neither is intrinsic to human nature or can be "evolved" out of (I'm not even sure how that would scientifically work in the first place), but they can both be improved by improving medical resources, socioeconomic factors, development, economic equality etc.

Edit: quoted the wrong person a couple of times
Just a thought, try not to split up quoted parts as much, then ya wont screw up who is quoted :p

That being said, Rape, or the desire to rape or have sex, given that rapists usually do not actually consider the act rape, but it is what we label the act as a society isnt a disorder or illness. At least i havent heard of any kind of mental disorder which would cause or increase the potential for sexual abuse or abuse in general. In most cases disorders are just a difference in chemical reactions in the brain, which influence our thought processes, as such someone with a disorder percieves the world, or things about the world much differently than a "normal person" would, although nobody is truly normal, there is just a parameter as to how much your mental faculties fit within whatever societal construct is established. For example if for the sake of the argument rape and murder were totally fine and accepted in society, then people murdering or raping wouldnt be "wrong" in any case, of course we would probably still have punishments for the act, but the acts would be percieved as less evil if we want to define acts based on moral grounds.

Honestly im not sure where you are going with this, half your post makes very little sense to me other than perhaps what i explained wrong or you misunderstood from earlier points i raised. Suppose its my fault for not repeating myself perfectly. Nature versus Nurture arguments fall flat because they are inconclusive at best, example being that even though you were never subjected to say the color pink, you could still end up liking it, regardless of whether you ever saw it before. And yes i realize thats a oversimplification but it works here.

Societal values are similar in that respect that you cant say that all western societies are like this, or all eastern societies are like that. There are noticable differences by country, even by specific regions within a country. Take the US for example, how can you have the proverbial "bible belt" when the other half of your country isnt in said bible belt? How can some states pass a law that makes homosexual marriage legal and accepted when other states forbid this? And even within a state there can be disagreements on specific topics, i.e. the homosexual marriage thing. There are only certain factors we universally agree on that they are evil because they harm us as a societal animal, we arent solitary animals. Hence murder, rape and such acts are defined as evil because if we allowed such acts, or didnt mind them one way or the other, they could harm us all equally, rather than just a few people being the victim, thats how morality works on the level of a society, there can still be differences based on the people within that society, i.e. a rapist would still rape even if the act is morally objectionable. No matter the upbringing, no matter what society says or teaches, you'd always have the proverbial bad apples. Hence i use the term "evolve past" because to me it seems the only solution, that each person somehow, regardless of societal construct, upbringing or such would arrive at the same end, that being "im not going to rape because rape is bad". If we could teach people not to rape to use that phrase, it would have happened by now, in fact, let me ask you this:

Have we ever taught people not to rape? Have we ever taught them not to murder? Not to lie? Not to steal? Or did we just somehow arrive at the conclusion that those are "bad" things without having to be told? I never had to be told that raping someone is bad, i never had to be told not to kill someone, yet somehow i arrived at that conclusion on my own, because i wouldnt like to be raped, i wouldnt like to be murdered. So i dont think we really need to teach these things, because ultimately it seems they dont matter. If we are teaching this stuff now, then how come some people didnt need to be told? And why is it still happening if we are teaching these things? This implies there is only so much we can do unless we allow ourselves to hope that eventually everyone agrees that rape is a bad thing, no matter where you come from or where you were raised or whatever. We can only do so much about it, but if the penalty doesnt scare people not to do it, if the law doesnt scare them, if the scorn of their fellow human beings doesnt stop them, then how could we do it with simple words?

Also yes i realize this is a disjointed mess, but im tired and the train of thought went off the rails twice while writing this, so please excuse me for that x.x
 

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Have we ever taught people not to rape? Have we ever taught them not to murder? Not to lie? Not to steal? Or did we just somehow arrive at the conclusion that those are "bad" things without having to be told? I never had to be told that raping someone is bad, i never had to be told not to kill someone, yet somehow i arrived at that conclusion on my own, because i wouldnt like to be raped, i wouldnt like to be murdered.
Would you ever kill someone, though, or accept that it is morally right to kill in some circumstances?

Most people would say that it is. However, many of them would not agree on exactly when. You have difference between societies, and across time. It's very common, for example, for people in the US on these forums to state what they claim is a lawful killing, and what people from other nations consider murder. Any number of long arguments have arisen because of that.

Now, people didn't arrive at those conclusions by themselves, they have been brought up to believe a certain way by the society they live in. Societies that are less tolerant of killing are those that have taught their citizens not to murder, at least compared to societies that are more tolerant of killing from the point of view of the first group (that is, when they think killing is ok and we don't, they are wrong, not us). Alternatively, the other society has taught it's people that it's ok to murder (sometimes).

In reality, it's neither one nor the other, there's no "normal", natural, default way of being. People are, to large extent, the product of their society.
 

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So it's just underwear that's hard to take off?


I mean, they can still be taken off right?


Also, don't most rapes occur between someone the girl knows? Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but I thought the % of stranger rape was quite low than where we think it is.
It's the same with molestation and sexual assault against minors. It's always a relative or some community pillar associated with the child's activities.