Are you freakin' kidding me?

[RubyT]

Exactly what context would "Just let it happen, it'll be over soon." be okay?

People aren't saying "beating a girl at a game = rape" people are saying "using stereotypical rape dialog is pretty nasty"

What the heck is "stereotypical rape dialog"?

When did "Just let it happen" become taboo? If you PC Nazis continue your stride, we'll have limited the English language to three dozen approved sentences by 2020.

You know, unlike you I'm no expert on rape lingo, but I'd imagine phrases like "Don't scream!" or "Take off your clothes!" would be in there. Are those offensive? Please, tell me, you seem to be the authority on appropriateness.

 

[Darken12]

There are no other connotations were "Just let it happen. It will be over soon."

Medical operation, as was said before. Also, getting a tattoo, I suppose. I find it disheartening that "it can only be about rape and nothing else" when, in fact, it can. Similar language can always be used when somebody is in a bad position and somebody else is advising them to bear with it. Now, it could be rape, but saying it can only be rape because it could be rape strikes me as "jumping to conclusions".

As a healthcare professional that routinely needs to inflict minor but necessary pain to patients, let me assure you that you never, ever, ever say that to a patient. Not that there aren't some douchebag healthcare professionals that try to play it "cool" like that ("oooh I made a rape joke, aren't I super edgy and cool?"), but I would seriously consider it grossly unprofessional. So please, don't consider it something acceptable within the healthcare profession because one doctor committed a faux-pas.

And no, it's not jumping to conclusions. That is exactly what the comment was about, and what it tried to convey. To presume otherwise is to play dumb.

 

[Proto Taco]

Yes it was a rape joke, yes it was a rape joke because he was playing against a gal instead of a guy and yes it was entirely inappropriate because it was a rape joke directed at a young woman. You can try to justify trash talk and 'open-ended words' all day long but at the end of the day a rape joke is a rape joke and they're not ok because it's still a very real problem.

As soon as men stop perpetrating the majority of violence against women the kind of joke mentioned in the OP can be discussed. Until then it's way out of line, especially for a public corporation on a public stage.

 

[josemlopes]

Yeah. That comment was taken way out of context. I would be more concerned with just how EMBARASSING it was for the woman.

I mean seriously. Not only was the presentation dull, but it seems that she either didn't get a grasp on the controls long enough, or she just doesn't know how to play the game.

Like no one likes having their ass totally handed to them on a giant platform. Aside from the guy who was clearly a "pro" she didn't look like she was having any modicum of fun getting the beat down.

And no guys, it wasn't scripted.

Yes it was (unless you are talking about the sentence that he said). The beatdown was scripted, how would you explain the fact that in the second round she took out his entire life with one combo. They both knew how to play, one was supposed to destroy the other first to brag about it and show off that record feature and then the other was supposed to do the same to brag about it while showing off the Twitch feature. Nothing wrong happened here, this was all just to show two features of the console while adding what one could call a "storyline" to make the presentation less boring.

Either way both knew how to play and both kicked each others asses so I dont see why most people suddenly forgot about the second round.

As soon as men stop perpetrating the majority of violence against women the kind of joke mentioned in the OP can be discussed. Until then it's way out of line, especially for a public corporation on a public stage.

How many women did you ever killed in games? How many men did you ever killed in games?

 

[Something Amyss]

If it were another guy on stage I guarantee no one would have made a fuss about it. It is normal game trash-talk in the sense that it's pretty much gender-blind and happens in every competitive game you'll likely ever play.

I like the way "gender-blind" almost always means "male."

 

[Dragonbums]

Yeah. That comment was taken way out of context. I would be more concerned with just how EMBARASSING it was for the woman.

I mean seriously. Not only was the presentation dull, but it seems that she either didn't get a grasp on the controls long enough, or she just doesn't know how to play the game.

Like no one likes having their ass totally handed to them on a giant platform. Aside from the guy who was clearly a "pro" she didn't look like she was having any modicum of fun getting the beat down.

And no guys, it wasn't scripted.

This is probably going to sound condescending but did you even watch the presentation? It was either scripted or they managed to both pretend they were both good and bad. She kicked his ass 5 mins after he beat her in the exact same fashion so it was most likely scripted but there was no way she was really that bad.

Yes. I did watch it.
Still doesn't mean the other minutes where she was getting her ass handed to wasn't embarrassing.

 

[Fappy]

If it were another guy on stage I guarantee no one would have made a fuss about it. It is normal game trash-talk in the sense that it's pretty much gender-blind and happens in every competitive game you'll likely ever play.

I like the way "gender-blind" almost always means "male."

*Shrugs*

I don't know, my sister says stuff like that when she plays multiplayer games. She is kind of a weird one though.

 

[maffro]

Yes, it 100% was a reference to rape. They were friends and making a joke about him raping her. That is completely fine.

What isn't fine is they didn't realise they were doing it in front of all of E3. Who are not as friendly.

It's kinda sad. Felt like an organic enough conversation both demonstrators were enjoying, which is really rare at these awful presentations. Just a pity they didn't check themselves before they wrecked themselves.

 

[JazzJack2]

It's called a joke, you might want to look that word up in a dictionary.

You mean I can say literally anything I want without consequences if I claim it's a joke?

WOOHOO CONSEQUENCES ARE FOR SUCKERS!

You should be able to say anything you want without consequence regardless of whether it's a joke or not, that's how free speech works.

 

[BlackMageBob]

You know, I watched the conference, I caught the joke, and I expected this. I am kinda surprised it took so long.

You realize that those demos are mostly scripted. And that the long joke was the female presenter's "shark" comment and subsequent beat-down of the producer? It was hilarious, taking in the full presentation.

Edit- Apparently, it wasn't scripted, but the CM female defended the language. Thumbs up for her. Also, the article is seriously unprofessional. How many shitty reddit-morphed meme images did they dredge up for this?

 

[JazzJack2]

There are no other connotations were "Just let it happen. It will be over soon."

Medical operation, as was said before. Also, getting a tattoo, I suppose. I find it disheartening that "it can only be about rape and nothing else" when, in fact, it can. Similar language can always be used when somebody is in a bad position and somebody else is advising them to bear with it. Now, it could be rape, but saying it can only be rape because it could be rape strikes me as "jumping to conclusions".

As a healthcare professional that routinely needs to inflict minor but necessary pain to patients, let me assure you that you never, ever, ever say that to a patient. Not that there aren't some douchebag healthcare professionals that try to play it "cool" like that ("oooh I made a rape joke, aren't I super edgy and cool?"), but I would seriously consider it grossly unprofessional. So please, don't consider it something acceptable within the healthcare profession because one doctor committed a faux-pas.

And no, it's not jumping to conclusions. That is exactly what the comment was about, and what it tried to convey. To presume otherwise is to play dumb.

Within the phrase "Just let it happen. It will be over soon." there is no insinuation 'it' means rape, it can mean many things and in this case it probably just meant a good ol' fashion arse whoopin'. You are simply jumping to conclusions.


EDIT: also I think you're misinterpreting the healthcare thing, doctors will frequently say things like "Just let it happen. It will be over soon." to stop patients (usually children) struggling against mildly painful procedures like vaccinations (again it has nothing to with rape or doctors trying to look edgy or cool)

 

[ultrabiome]

i think there is a big difference between casually making a rape joke/reference, which i think in general is terrible, and a comedian making a rape joke on stage at a performance. the previous is probably a spur of the moment thing - brought upon the unexpected, while the latter is a professional joke maker utilizing a taboo subject to make the audience, who probably paid to go see the comedian, laugh or think or both. the audience expects taboo subjects because they are seeing a comedian - and the comedian is probably making the rape joke in a larger context, and comedians are professionally trying to make you laugh and/or think, which is why i don't care if a comedian makes a rape joke, or any other taboo subject (see the aristocrats...). the average idiot though - they don't have the credibility or respect to needed to have that context and it makes them seem like an insensitive asshole.

 

[Atin Ordo]

No really, this has to be a joke right? Right? Someone tell me this is satire.

http://www.theatlanticwire.com/technology/2013/06/microsoft-e3-rape-joke/66092/

God damn it. This is what we've become? Really? I don't care anymore, you can't say anything without being called a misogynist by gamers any more. And god forbid you beat a girl in a game, that's rape! Who cares about having a good time when a girl doesn't like that you're winning at a game! You're a filthy rapist! No one cares if she won the next round or that the game was scripted! If you're a man and you play games, you're a sexist by default.

Maybe I'm overreacting a bit here, sure. But no more so than the people crying rape because a few words were poorly strung together and might imply something in an entirely different context. It's honestly enraging when you have to hold your tongue constantly lest someone who is easily offended comes along and makes you out to be some intolerant asshole.

My head hurts. Ugh.

Good job with the strawman there. The outrage has to do with te comment made. Which was "Juat let it happen, it will be over soon." And the excuse that it is normal trash talk does not excuse it, but should rather make one look at what is considered "normal".

I just want to point out that "It'll be over soon" is part of my trash talk to anyone I'm hammering, and that's usually guys. Does that still make it a "rape joke"? People need to stop being so darned sensitive. If you don't like trash talk, kindly ask the other person to stop, or stop playing. EVERYONE just needs to grow up a bit and stop having such a persecution complex. Seriously.

 

[Darken12]

You should be able to say anything you want without consequence regardless of whether it's a joke or not, that's how free speech works.

That is not how free speech works. Free speech means that the government cannot censor you. It means that you cannot be silenced by the state. It does not exempt you from the social consequences of the bullshit that comes out of your mouth.

Within the phrase "Just let it happen. It will be over soon." there is no insinuation 'it' means rape, it can mean many things and in this case it probably just meant a good ol' fashion arse whoopin'. You are simply jumping to conclusions.

We both know what the phrase meant, and we both know what the intentions of the speaker were. They are easily deducible from the social cues given.

Also, I am not trying to convince you of anything. If you read my original post properly, you will notice my constant use of "to me" and similar phrases that indicate that I personally take issue with this, not that everyone else should. So if you disagree with my stance, that's fine. I will continue to consider this an offensive thing regardless of whether you consider me wrong or not.

EDIT: also I think you're misinterpreting the healthcare thing, doctors will frequently say things like "Just let it happen. It will be over soon." to stop patients (usually children) struggling against mildly painful procedures like vaccinations (again it has nothing to with rape or doctors trying to look edgy or cool)

That's not how you phrase it. "It will be over soon", on its own, is sometimes used, granted. But in conjunction with "just let it happen" or some other variation of "stop resisting"? No. That is HIGHLY inappropriate precisely because it carries some pretty terrible connotations even if those weren't your intentions. "Please calm down" and "please, we need you to be still" are MUCH preferable to "stop resisting" in any medical instance.

 

[Something Amyss]

*Shrugs*

I don't know, my sister says stuff like that when she plays multiplayer games. She is kind of a weird one though.

There is, of course a phenomenon in which women are asked by society to adopt behaviours of men to be "accepted" and to fit in. Women tend to be harassed and even threatened for not basically acting like guys. This is a legit phenomenon in psychology, though I forget the actual term they use (The overall effect, not specifically gaming).

In short, you're not actually saying anything contrary to the concept that these supposedly "gender blind" sentiments favour one gender. You reinforce the concept of male-space and it's natural that women involved in that space will adopt the behaviours, whether they like it or not.

Additionally, you're espousing a line of thinking that in itself is indicative of cognitive bias. The response, while not as vehement, is routed more or less in the same space that has people threatening to rape Anita Sarkeesian for suggesting the Emperor has no clothes.

I mean, you can shrug it off all you want, but it still exists.

On a related note, even black people display bias against black people. Does this verify that black people are untrustworthy and have a greater propensity to violence and theft (the primary reason blacks are considered less trustworthy)?

 

[Something Amyss]

Medical operation, as was said before.

In the same sense that calling someone retarded is a medical diagnosis, perhaps.

If you've got someone doing either in the medical profession, you might want to consider swapping doctors.

 

[VanQ]

You should be able to say anything you want without consequence regardless of whether it's a joke or not, that's how free speech works.

That is not how free speech works. Free speech means that the government cannot censor you. It means that you cannot be silenced by the state. It does not exempt you from the social consequences of the bullshit that comes out of your mouth.

Within the phrase "Just let it happen. It will be over soon." there is no insinuation 'it' means rape, it can mean many things and in this case it probably just meant a good ol' fashion arse whoopin'. You are simply jumping to conclusions.

We both know what the phrase meant, and we both know what the intentions of the speaker were. They are easily deducible from the social cues given.

Also, I am not trying to convince you of anything. If you read my original post properly, you will notice my constant use of "to me" and similar phrases that indicate that I personally take issue with this, not that everyone else should. So if you disagree with my stance, that's fine. I will continue to consider this an offensive thing regardless of whether you consider me wrong or not.

EDIT: also I think you're misinterpreting the healthcare thing, doctors will frequently say things like "Just let it happen. It will be over soon." to stop patients (usually children) struggling against mildly painful procedures like vaccinations (again it has nothing to with rape or doctors trying to look edgy or cool)

That's not how you phrase it. "It will be over soon", on its own, is sometimes used, granted. But in conjunction with "just let it happen" or some other variation of "stop resisting"? No. That is HIGHLY inappropriate precisely because it carries some pretty terrible connotations even if those weren't your intentions. "Please calm down" and "please, we need you to be still" are MUCH preferable to "stop resisting" in any medical instance.

Let's say I want to give you this piece of cake. It's a perfectly good piece of cake, nothing wrong with it. In fact it's a very, very delicious piece of cake.

I say "Take it."
You say "I don't want it."

Let's say I genuinely think you want it - it being the cake - but are being modest.

I say "Just take it, I know you want it."

By your definition, I just made a rape joke at you. At least, that's how I would take it from the way you seem to think judging by what you've been saying in this thread.

My point? You seem to really, really want to make it out to be about rape. Even when it isn't about rape. I just wanted you to have the cake. But you're just gonna spit on my cake and call me a rapist, aren't you?

 

[The White Hunter]

OH THE HUMANITY.

Oh come on it's not that ba...

Oh, OH!

I see what you did there you tricky trickster!

OT: Um, ok? The world is a pretty crazy place and sometimes people just need to shut the fuck up and stop being too sensitive?

As somebody else said context is a pretty important thing in these situations.

 

[SSJBlastoise]

Yes. I did watch it.
Still doesn't mean the other minutes where she was getting her ass handed to wasn't embarrassing.

So it wasn't embarrassing for the guy when he got his ass kicked? That seems like a weird double standard.

She knew what was happening, there is no way that part was meant to go any other way than guy wins first one and girl wins rematch.