Craorach said:
I'm not going to lecture you on you on how you should
feel and I don't dispute what you have experienced. What I'll try and do is give you a little bit of perspective so that you can maintain a more positive outlook.
I certainly
do not excuse, condone and dismiss violence/assault against you and your family in any case. I think it's a shame that small elements of the Aboriginal community detract from all the blood, sweat, tears and hard work the rest of us put into
righting the harms done to Aboriginal people and enriching other Australians with our culture/ideas. We're struggling to continue our culture and facing those who have 'lost their way' is huge task and ugly task because we all see ourselves reflected in their faces. Their plight symbolizes all the destruction caused by what is sociologically referred to as
whiteness.
But, I will say that all the behaviors you have listed, I have seen non-Aborginal people engage with. I also work with my state's Department of Justice when I am not studying, and I'll tell you those violent and anti-social behaviors are more indicative of a poverty paradigm, but it does overlap with racism.
From an Aboriginal perspective, however:
There are a few Aboriginal people and some families which have been ripped apart by the government (historically all this happened yesterday), targeted by police, shunned by the public and taught by bitter parents/uncles/extended family who have had their livelihoods taken away to the point where they feel they have no stake in society on any level. As I mentioned, this is compounded by a generational cycle and a poverty cycle. When you don't know anything but shame, struggle, poverty and persecution, you simply do not value things like you or I might.
Also, because of the way some families have been treated by institutions and elements of a racist public, some Aboriginal people respond with their own hate, frustration to any they deem 'outsider'. This is compounded by a public who are largely ignorant of what has happened historically and what continues to happen. People are simply not being educated on the issues, so there is little understanding.
Harm done to you is not right. Not in any circumstance. However, I would ask that you not judge these people with hate of your own. Pity them, because they have no sense of self-worth and dignity; they have no passion and they are disconnected from their culture, law and family.
This is the price we all pay for stolen land, racism, greed, politics before people and ignorance. Our communities continue to suffer because of a system and its laws have crated this ugly cultural hole and perpetuate it by denying us our own identity, empowerment and culture. We need people like you to help the many of us fighting this struggle so that we can help our own get back onto a healthier lifestyle, find respect in themselves and for others.