I hope you've left him. With no exception, if he has the propensity to do it once he will do it again.latenightapplepie said:So, my boyfriend cheated on me. He confessed to it, which I suppose makes it easier than discovering the truth yourself.
I could go into more detail, but I'm not really looking for advice, I'm just looking for people's views on, and personal experiences with, infidelity.
I figure it's a good a topic for a thread as any, and I could gain something useful from it, I suppose.
No matter who you are, you deserve better than the complete lack of respect and cowardice surrounding being unfaithful.
Don't let this discolour your future relationships, and only entertain another when you're truly ready. Even if you notice correlations between this boyfriend and a future one, ignore it.
He's already shown you a disservice, don't let him destroy your future also.
That covers the advice you didn't ask for, now my opinions on the act (which could probably be gathered from the above anyway).
I personally think it is a disgusting act, and there is no justifiable reason for it. It shows a core disregard for another's feelings - regardless of whether they come clean after. Most of the time telling the truth is another selfish act to ease their own mind, rather than thinking of the person they were unfaithful to.