Its funny, because this whole scenario has crytalised everything I hate about femshep fans.
They spend all this time bitching and moaning because they used the default real life modelled guy on the boxes. Regardless of the fact that in game, if not for femshep getting preferential treatment in same sex romances (though thats mainly for dickheads who salivate over "hawt lezbeenz") things are near on completely equal.
Of course, put all the usual "femshep is female" and "Jennifer Hales bland neutral performance tone is SO much better than Mark Meers neutral performance tone" (if you engage your brain, its easy to understand why both tend to occasionally "under act" despite bullshit claims that Hale injects emotion into every single line she reads). Now that Bioware have given a choice as to which femshep to pick, the normal "bitchy" behavior directed at the supposed "inferior" maleshep is directed between the 6 choices.
Personally, I just cant wait for this crap to be finished so that they can actually market something the majority of players who play mass effect care about. Really, this just seems like to much fuss for something probably little over 2/10ths of mass effect gamers actually bother with.