You are not alone dude.holy_secret said:In order not to confuse anyone, I need to tell you that I'm a dude.
I've heard this. A lot of times.
Wherever I go, whomever I talk to, this is the thing that pops up in their mind.
Their gender or sexuality doesn't matter, it's always the same.
If I tell someone I chose a guy in front of a girl, I have always got this as a response; "Maybe you are just completely gay". Every. Single. Time.
The same works the other way around. Except this time, the heterosexuals say that "maybe you were just experimenting with homosexuality" and the homosexuals say that "you are in denial bladibibla".
Even the last guy I was dating was like this. He was convinced I was homosexual because I was in love with him (and him being a guy).
This was okay in the beginning. I didn't really mind this. I know what I am and I don't care what anyone thinks of it.
However. This has been going on for several years. It's not really about the years. It's about the fact that this has been going on for as long as I have been open about my sexuality.
Now, this is pissing me off incredibly. Of course, this makes these people say "oooooh why are you getting so upset huh? :3 You know what it means when you take it personal riiiiight?"
I'm not taking it personally, I am just tired of hearing how I am and what I am is a lie and to be told I am something else. I know what I am and nothing is going to change that.
Point is, people are hell bent on telling me bisexuality is bullshit.
That's my rant.
So escapist people. What do you think of bisexuality? Is it a bunch of bullshit?
I have gotten the same kind of shit with the people I have come out to. mind you my friends do not but others who figured it out have asked me if it just a phase.
I do find it annoying when say it does not exist. I find it even more offensive when other gays/lesbians do it. I mean having people tell you that you "decided to live this type of life style" and then you are condemning other members of the LGBT community. like what the fuck?