I mean, it's a disappointment in general, but I've never really understood why people wanted so much vanity customization in shooter games (note, I mean online multiplayer, single player rpgs- is mass effect a shooter or rps or both? should have some customization I think) I mean, I like a bit of personalization, my own guns, but if the avatar isn't really something I'm seeing much, I dunno. Wasn't ever my thing.
But yes they should have had female avatars. It's just a nice touch. Put it in a patch haha?