The point i think being missed here (about the friend-zone) is that a woman treats guy friend/s, that has no chance of seeing them naked, like they should treat a boyfriend who does see them naked. So if i am not your boyfriend i don't want to hear about how your current boyfriend treats you - go tell your female friends that or even better your dirtbag boyfriend so he can shape up or ship out.
I also don't want to hear about how your current boyfriend treats you like a piece of trash but you still sleep with him and if i ask you why you say "but he loves me". Whether he listens to you or not is not my problem. If he tells you you're fat tell him to f-off, don't come and cry on my shoulder then go back to him afterwards after i made you feel good about yourself.
Tell a nice guy from the start the you aren't interested and he (being nice) will respect it. He won't pine over you, he won't lust after you but also don't expect any favors from him. You don't break a person's heart and still expect to be friends.
If you are looking for someone to talk to about the ups and mostly downs of your love life while dating an idiot, go to your girl friends, they live for this stuff. Guy friends dont. We'll move heavy boxes and kill spiders for you, not listen to you getting raw deal and loving it.
RE Memes and cartoons - Many a true word is spoken in jest
I also don't want to hear about how your current boyfriend treats you like a piece of trash but you still sleep with him and if i ask you why you say "but he loves me". Whether he listens to you or not is not my problem. If he tells you you're fat tell him to f-off, don't come and cry on my shoulder then go back to him afterwards after i made you feel good about yourself.
Tell a nice guy from the start the you aren't interested and he (being nice) will respect it. He won't pine over you, he won't lust after you but also don't expect any favors from him. You don't break a person's heart and still expect to be friends.
If you are looking for someone to talk to about the ups and mostly downs of your love life while dating an idiot, go to your girl friends, they live for this stuff. Guy friends dont. We'll move heavy boxes and kill spiders for you, not listen to you getting raw deal and loving it.
RE Memes and cartoons - Many a true word is spoken in jest