Cheating?

[Eternalsun]

Heres a little discussion that id like to get some adivce on. cause recently my friends broke up cause he called another girl hot on msn and said she had big boobs.
now i dont really think that was cheating.
whats your views?

 

[delet]

I think it's their issue and it's up to them to get over it. Unless this is a lame way of going around the issue, and it's you who said another girl was hot on MSN and you who said she had big boobs.

Tell me, why did this friend say these things to another girl on MSN?

 

[Kif]

It's not really cheating, but depending on the context (i.e. if it wasn't to a friend in a joking manner) it's certainly leading and in a vulgur unsubtle way flirting and something I wouldn't do while in a relationship.

 

[Rylot]

A good way to stay in a relationship is to not piss your girlfriend off.

 

[Hayate_GT]

not cheating... disrespectful and stupid but not cheating...that and whoever the girlfriend well x-gf is a bit high strung if that led to a major argument...

 

[2fish]

It is not cheating, it it stupidity.

If he cared for her he would keep those thoughts away from his mouth. Those may be passing thoughts through a guys head, but if said it can hurt her feelings. Depending on the relationship this could have been a big enough breach of trust to cause major issues. Remeber angry girlfriend = scary. Try not to make girlfriend angry if you want to keep the relationship .

 

[Funkiest Monkey]

Was she hot? Did she have big boobs? Yes? Alright then, case closed.

 

[Cody211282]

Heres a little discussion that id like to get some adivce on. cause recently my friends broke up cause he called another girl hot on msn and said she had big boobs.
now i dont really think that was cheating.
whats your views?

did he see said big breasts, or you know do anything with them?

 

[Abanic]

Oh God,
How old were these children? They need to grow the hell up. and you need to mind your own business.

 

[Estocavio]

Well if she did have large breasts then hes just stating the blatantly obvious. And god no, not a male complimenting another female besides his glorious mis... girlfriend! Oh no!

 

[Corpse XxX]

Was she hot? Did she have big boobs? Yes? Alright then, case closed.

lol'd.. hehe..

I agree with your point of you and really dont see the issue here..
If its a one time deal then no problem, but if it happens every day, then they might need to think their relationship through..

 

[zehydra]

not cheating, but really, if he really cared about the relationship, what the hell was he thinking?!

 

[Eternalsun]

Oh God,
How old were these children? They need to grow the hell up. and you need to mind your own business.

Both 16 and well he came to me with all this shit lol

 

[Verlander]

That's a bit pathetic. I don't know any girls like this. Although, were they American, cos you guys are a lot more uptight over there

 

[Eri]

You can't cheat on someone by stating facts. Hurp Durp, smack your friend for me.

 

[HeySeansOnline]

If their relationship was so frail that broke It not much was lost, anyway It's not good, but theres trust issues, no telling If he was going to take that comment steps and steps further until It became actual physical cheating.

 

[fjelding]

Not the smartest move your friend could pull.

I mean, how would he have taken it if his girlfriend/ex-girlfriend had said something similar to a hunk i class or something. Always do/say stuff that you yourself would find acceptable if it was done by your partner.

However break up reason, that might be a little harsh. I kown id get a huge freaking talking to but my realationship would almost cirtanly survive if a pulled a stunt like that. (Almost because shes pregnant, and hormones + anger == Destruction!)

 

[Abanic]

Oh God,
How old were these children? They need to grow the hell up. and you need to mind your own business.

Both 16 and well he came to me with all this shit lol

Crap, she'd already decided and was looking for a REASON to break up.
She shouldn't be threatened by a gal on the internet unless she was dreadfully insecure. Either way though (if she's insecure or if she's being manipulative/controlling) he's better off without her. Females don't start getting their emotional heads screwed on straight until their mid to late 20s so he's got a long way to go.

 

[Hexenwolf]

Well if she did have large breasts then hes just stating the blatantly obvious. And god no, not a male complimenting another female besides his glorious mis... girlfriend! Oh no!

Have you heard of respect? If you're in a relationship, you don't go around flirting with other girls while your girlfriend is right there. At least, not if you want her to stick around.

No, it's definitely not cheating, but I at least see her point. If that was enough to cause a breakup though, they probably had other problems.

 

[IronicBeet]

Oh God,
How old were these children? They need to grow the hell up. and you need to mind your own business.

Both 16 and well he came to me with all this shit lol

There's your problem, right thurr. Us teenagers take everything relationship-related sewper seriously, when it probably won't last more than a few months.