oddresin said:
Jesus christ on a stick. Guess what, all animals need to be compliant with their mate to ensure the survival of their species. If a doe refuses to mate, it will likely become an outcast-it just isnt the natural thing to do, and does nothing for its race.
It is ignorant to assume that females should go against nature for some warped sense of morality or whatever you want to call it. We are still simply animals, and girls who are afraid of sex/loss of virginity are sexually insecure (once they are sexually mature, which happens quite early for most girls 11-16), as by all rights they are perfectly ready for intercourse.
Normally, I'd dismiss you as useless, but I'm feeling confrontational so I'll bite.
This is a prime example of a pretty intriguing trend I've noticed among liberals/hippies/16-year-old internet users: the need to lower us men to the status of animals. Your absolute crippling dread of accepting any responsibility for your actions is such that you hide behind the manufactured excuse that we are not above our animal instincts. I can see how this is a comforting way to look at the world. The absence of right and wrong brings with it the absence of consequence. And if you yearn for purpose, you can take up environmentalism and drum yourself into a fever of self-righteousness and hatred for mankind (from which stems these nasty little rules of society that you so fear).
Unfortunately, this being the real world where actions have consequences, and us being forced to live with people such as you, I'm compelled to set you straight.
You and Alex both seem to agree that worrying about sex is evidence of some abnormal insecurity. I can't believe I'm explaining this to (presumably) grown men, but CONDOMS DON'T WORK. A little fun fact: I'm a U.S. Marine. Normally I wouldn't advertise that, but that gives you an idea of the kind of people I hang out with, and boy do I hear some stories. I know a guy who's had a hard probe shoved up his dick, because he was scared to death of STDs after a drunken one-night-stand and made the mistake of going to the free clinic to get tested. I know a guy who's had an unplanned daughter that he was not ready for. He was wearing a condom. She was on birth control. Now he's on active duty, cause he couldn't support his new family being only a reservist. And I myself was an unplanned child. Being raised by a single mom for 18 years, never once meeting my dad, and constantly flirting with the poverty line have taught me (would you believe it?) that sex is something to be taken seriously.
You children (I don't care if you're 35 - your views are those of adolescents) are everything that's wrong with America, and I tire of your company.