Gamer closet? lol. Most people where I'm from just assume that if you're a male or nerdy looking chick between the ages of 13 and 25 that you're probably a gamer. But I do understand that it's sometimes difficult to reveal your geeky side to some individuals.
I've recently started coming out of the bi-closet myself after years of confusion, anxiety and south loathing. It was very difficult for me to come to terms with it because of all the negative stigma surrounding bi-males; we're slutty, we have commitment issues, we cheat on our mates, we're perverted, we're incapable of loving somebody, we can't make up our minds, etc etc..... I believed all those things and refused to admit to myself I was bi, but there were so many stages in my life where I would accept to myself that I was gay only to fall for a woman (or vice versa), and it just confused the hell out of me.
I'm much more confident and happy now that I've just come to terms with it and have started being more open about it. I don't have this big secret that I'm hiding from everyone that has caused me a HUGE amount of anxiety, leading to social awkwardness, leading to loneliness, leading to absolute isolation and misery, It just wasn't worth hiding.
I was always this shy, reserved, extremely unemotive person because, along with the whole bi thing, I was always afraid that people would find me weird, creepy, childish, wimpy and unmasculine because of the way I act (when I'm not overcome by anxiety). lately though, I've been finding that I'm a more likable person for just saying "fuck it" and letting go of all those anxieties; being so shy honestly just made me uncomfortable to be around.
Coming out to my family is the next big hurdle, but my experience with coming out to my friends has been a positive experience.
I also need to come out as an enthusiast of oregano to my friends who really don't like people that use oregano. Although I feel my love for oregano does not affect our relationship, I'm afraid those individuals would feel uncomfortable to know that about me.