Coloured men don't cheat - *UPDATED* 29/10/11

[Nuke_em_05]

Here's my litmus test for physical characteristics that may indicate that something is capable of dishonesty or infidelity:

Is it human?

If yes, then it is.
If no, then it probably is anyway.

To determine if something is likely to be dishonest or unfaithful, well, that's a case-by-case basis that can't be determined by physical characteristics.

 

[Levethian]

Presumably less liberal cultures in which tolerance for cheating is lower results in less cheating on average, although the urge to cheat may be comparable across the board. Not much to do with skin colour, except incidentally.

But your sister meant to refer to the culture rather than colour, right?

 

[Acting like a FOOL]

HAHAHAHAHAH! ALL men are capable of cheating. it be good if you got realize that.

 

[Treaos Serrare]

everyone has the capacity to cheat, period, likelihoods of it happening in any specific race or gender can't be properly quantified because sometimes people do it just for the lols of it and not any "real" reason. If your sister want's to argue that colored men are more morally sound that is equally false for the same reasons

 

[Casual Shinji]

Didn't you know the dark pigment in their skin is created by a hormone which brings on an unrelenting sense of loyalty?

 

[SilverUchiha]

I'm white (and, like 1/8 native american) and I have no desire to cheat at all. Reasons?

#1 - I'm too lazy to want to try to juggle women. It sounds like a lot of work to keep them both happy and in the dark about each other and not go insane. I already have enough trouble just keeping one woman happy, I don't need deal with two.

#2 - I already have issues speaking to women to even get a girlfriend. I doubt that I'd be comfortable talking to another woman and trying to start a relationship there as easily.

#3 - I was raised right and know it's wrong to lie to people or do things behind their back when you said you wouldn't.

#4 - I believe in karma and that if I do something shitty, odds are something shitty will happen to me. Then again, shitty things happen to me all the time (namely in relationships and the attaining of them) and I haven't done jack shit. Maybe I should rethink this one.

#5 - Not enough time in the day to even do what I want (games, writing, etc) so where on Earth will I find time for having sex with more than just one person?

That's about it there.

 

[HentMas]

That is a direct quote from my (white English) sister as to the reason why she only dates Arabic, African & similar men. She is adamant that white men are going to cheat on their spouse / partner while coloured men will not.

How true is this statement to you, fellow escapists? If it turns out to be true, fine. If it's untrue, then I'll have evidence I can present to her as a result of this thread.


So I ask you all:
Do you have any surveys or statistics or studies or similar that show how often relationships with coloured men end due to infidelity? Alternately do you have any stories from a friend where a coloured guy was caught cheating or similar?

Alternately escapist girls; do you have any personal stories where a coloured guy was caught cheating on you or similar?


Thanks for any replies, everybody.

OH!, well, here in MX is common that the male "Cheats" but this is a country handled by "Machism" so the girls dont, wont, cant complain, because they would rather have the father of their kids living with them even if he is sleeping around, its not that they dont cheat, its that most females dont care, so there is no "statistic" attatched to the fact that they cheat

 

[LarenzoAOG]

That is a direct quote from my (white English) sister as to the reason why she only dates Arabic, African & similar men. She is adamant that white men are going to cheat on their spouse / partner while coloured men will not.

How true is this statement to you, fellow escapists? If it turns out to be true, fine. If it's untrue, then I'll have evidence I can present to her as a result of this thread.


So I ask you all:
Do you have any surveys or statistics or studies or similar that show how often relationships with coloured men end due to infidelity? Alternately do you have any stories from a friend where a coloured guy was caught cheating or similar?

Alternately escapist girls; do you have any personal stories where a coloured guy was caught cheating on you or similar?


Thanks for any replies, everybody.

As a heterosexual I've never dated any men, so sorry for not contributing. But you should probably not use the word "colored" just saying.

 

[Zenichi]

uhm didn't go through all the posts so dunno if someone already pointed this out..but don't some/many/majority(i honestly have no idea and am too lazy to check) of arabic/african nations allow polygamy ?

now i had to go wikipedia on this..

apparently india allows this if you are registered a muslim there..

and in some asian cultures (check wiki for further info) concubines are a common practice..

so based on that i'd say that people from those cultures would be more likely to take a second lover based on its acceptance in said cultures.

now most "western" societies outlaw polygamy and the cultures enforce having only 1 wife/lover

now thinking that white people are a majority in western societies...

doesn't this prove your sisters thoughts to be exactly opposite of what history shows of white vs ehm... said examples above in regards to what we consider cheating ?

now honestly i don't think anything apart from the frequency of sunburns is a result of the color of your skin

ps. anyone is free to correct any errors in above examples as i did not do any fact checking and i am too damn lazy to do any now.

 

[Risingblade]

Maybe it's her way of saying she's not attracted to white guys?

 

[Giest4life]

Some people have just very odd beliefs that they hold true, no matter what. I knew a guy that would argue against anyone that black people could run faster because they had an extra leg muscle.

Could that guy possibly be my brother? Because he believes that. Something to do with gaining extra muscles due to evolution, which was sped up from the rigors of slavery.

 

[ZeroMachine]

The only thing that can be said of this: your sister is racist.

Plus, I know a black man that has cheated multiple times.

Tell your sister that skin color should have NOTHING to do with relationships other than physical attractiveness.

If she prefers the looks of a black or arabic man, then hey, cool shit. Good for her.

But to judge the potential actions of a man based on the color of his skin?

Racist.

 

[Evil Top Hat]

Some people have just very odd beliefs that they hold true, no matter what. I knew a guy that would argue against anyone that black people could run faster because they had an extra leg muscle.

That's actually true. During the slave trade, people with less abbility to build muscle began to die, as did people that had trouble retaining water and salt. This meant that almost all black people that survived the slave trade were considerably stronger than the average white man, thus, their genes lived on.

There are other possible contributing factors, all linked to the part of the world that black people originated from, but your friend was actually correct.

 

[ZeroMachine]

Some people have just very odd beliefs that they hold true, no matter what. I knew a guy that would argue against anyone that black people could run faster because they had an extra leg muscle.

That's actually true. During the slave trade, people with less abbility to build muscle began to die, as did people that had trouble retaining water and salt. This meant that almost all black people that survived the slave trade were considerably stronger than the average white man, thus, their genes lived on.

There are other possible contributing factors, all linked to the part of the world that black people originated from, but your friend was actually correct.

Not really... his friend believed it was because they had an extra leg muscle. They don't. They just have stronger leg muscles.

 

[William Dickbringer]

-SNIP-

honestly it sounds like what one of my friends says almost he doesn't date white girls because they are hoes...but then again seeing the school we were in I could understand but saying that all white guys cheat and that all white girls are hoes is racist

 

[conflictofinterests]

Google search "Infidelity rates by demographic" produced these helpful results:

http://fc06.deviantart.net/fs70/f/2010/325/1/c/let__s_kill_baron_nashor_by_cacti-d33crav.jpg

http://www.alternet.org/sex/81022/?page=entire

Apparently black men are second only to men from Spain in their likelihood to cheat, and men from central Europe are actually the LEAST likely to cheat. Also, obtaining data on infidelity in most countries is nigh impossible due to either prudishness or lack of funding.

 

[Evil Top Hat]

Not really... his friend believed it was because they had an extra leg muscle. They don't. They just have stronger leg muscles.

That's just a slight difference in terminology, and "extra leg muscles" isn't a direct quote, so we don't know that that's exactly what his friend said anyway. Whatever the case, the implication remains the same, and the implication is correct.

 

[Bigsmith]

I have seen many episodes of Maury Povich and Jerry Springer that would disagree with this assertion.

This.

Also, I myself am white and male, and, I've met many women (and men) that I would try to get with, but, wouldn't due to fact that I'm in a relationship and have been so for nearly a year and half closing in on two years now.

Tl;dr.

White, male, wouldn't even think about cheating, ever.

 

[Xanthious]

I wouldn't be so quick to judge colored people. Those bastards in the Blue Man Group are horrible adulterers to a man.

On a more serious note I'm sorry you have a racist **** for a sister.

 

[Chefodeath]

The burden of evidence initially falls on the person asserting a claim, not the one wishing to refute it. Until your sister can produce some hard statistical evidence of this frankly absurd belief, you can tell her she's making up a bullshit excuse for her preference for blacks/arabs.