Yyyyuuuup.DementedSheep said:
It's rare I'm attracted to straight guys, to be perfectly honest. I'd even go so far as to say bisexual guys are a turn on for me, so to answer the question, yes I could be attracted to a bisexual male.
Could you be attracted to a bisexual?
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It's rare I'm attracted to straight guys, to be perfectly honest. I'd even go so far as to say bisexual guys are a turn on for me, so to answer the question, yes I could be attracted to a bisexual male.
What? Why is this even a question? Unless you're massively homophobic, I don't see why it would be any deal at all. To me this is almost as pointless as asking if you'd date someone if they ate mushrooms. Though saying that, if you don't like bacon....that /could/ be a deal breaker.
As a straight male (well, mostly - I follow the 'If its pretty, f*ck it' school of sexuality, and only females have fit the bill thus far), no, I have no issues with being in a relationship with a bisexual woman. In fact, that's about the only context - in a relationship w/ a bisexual female that I really like - in which I'd be comfortable with a 3-way as anything other than debauchery without a shred of love/romance.
On the flip side, I personally find gay male sex to be gross - I don't have any moral quandaries with it, I support gay marriage and similar issues, I've had gay male friends and relatives, but I find the act itself rather disgusting.
Like pooping, or childbirth. Or, a combination of the two, really.
As Dave Chappelle once put it: "Sorry, I just find it to be gross."
That said, if I were theoretically a woman?
Well, theoretically, I'd probably not be too keen on dating a bi-sexual guy, just like I wouldn't be too keen on dating someone who was into any of a wide variety of sexual preferences/fetishes that I don't share - if that's your thing, cool, more power to ya!... but it would not be my thing, and it would likely really turn me off to know you have/will/would like to engage in that kind of sexual activity (namely, in this case, male-on-male sex); doubly so if I felt as though I was holding you back from exploring such scenarios.
Of course, that's all theoretical, but I make that judgement based on the fact that, non-theoretically as my straight-white-male self, I've avoided relationships with women because they were into things I distinctly was not and could not be into - and knowledge of that interest was a turn-off in its own right.
To be honest, I feel as though there is no right/wrong answer on something like this - its entirely up to the individual, and how they perceive things, and making the decision one way or the other can be driven by any of a variety of motivations.
On the flip side, I personally find gay male sex to be gross - I don't have any moral quandaries with it, I support gay marriage and similar issues, I've had gay male friends and relatives, but I find the act itself rather disgusting.
Like pooping, or childbirth. Or, a combination of the two, really.
As Dave Chappelle once put it: "Sorry, I just find it to be gross."
That said, if I were theoretically a woman?
Well, theoretically, I'd probably not be too keen on dating a bi-sexual guy, just like I wouldn't be too keen on dating someone who was into any of a wide variety of sexual preferences/fetishes that I don't share - if that's your thing, cool, more power to ya!... but it would not be my thing, and it would likely really turn me off to know you have/will/would like to engage in that kind of sexual activity (namely, in this case, male-on-male sex); doubly so if I felt as though I was holding you back from exploring such scenarios.
Of course, that's all theoretical, but I make that judgement based on the fact that, non-theoretically as my straight-white-male self, I've avoided relationships with women because they were into things I distinctly was not and could not be into - and knowledge of that interest was a turn-off in its own right.
To be honest, I feel as though there is no right/wrong answer on something like this - its entirely up to the individual, and how they perceive things, and making the decision one way or the other can be driven by any of a variety of motivations.
yeah, sadly i remeber more gay people with such attitudes towards bisexual than heterosexual (well, the one i asked.)people are people, i think everybunny has ze´s own share of prejudices.manic_depressive13 said:
well, i am bi myself, so no i won´t have any problem. why shoul´d i?
At the moment I am attracted to a bi-sexual, we'll see where it goes. It doesn't particularly bother me. Everyone jokes about how it's going to be awesome because you could have a threesome... ha. Having dated a bi-sexual in the past that won't happen, turns out people are jealous and won't actively try to see their significant other in bed with another person even if they are in the same bed. I'm sure there are instances where that happens but it's far and few between as far as I've been able to tell.
My first GF was at least bicurious and I've slept with 'properly' bi girls before. To be honest, I think it's a bonus. There's nothing like watching Avengers with a girl and noticing that she's admiring Scarlett Johannson's ass as much as you are.
It does bother me that a lot of bi people seem to catch a ridiculous amount of flak. Even more than gay people, even. Don't really understand why.
It does bother me that a lot of bi people seem to catch a ridiculous amount of flak. Even more than gay people, even. Don't really understand why.
My girlfriend IS a bisexual. I don't give a damn. Heck, it's even better for me, if you know what I mean. HUE HUE HUE. But seriously, you never know what might happen.
Bwaha yeah it has it's moments, nothing like checking out ladies with your ladyRelish in Chaos said:
. The woman I'm currently interested in is actually pansexual and polyamorous so... yeah I everything essentially goddamn covered
I've been with a couple bisexual chicks. Pretty much any white chicks I'm attracted to wind up being bisexual every time.